Well, I disliked the wheel setup in DA2, it was different from the Mass Effect one in the sense that the middle option was a personality in itself, while in ME the middle option is professional, usually picked when you don't have strong feelings either way about the issue being discussed.
DA2 lacks the professional approach, which in my book was a big failure.
More options would have been better ofcourse, but provided they continue with 3 options scheme i would prefer the default ME layout.
Btw ME has ironic/funny guy options too, they just aren't there all the time and sometimes they are on top sometimes at the bottom, while in DA2 they are always in the middle by default.
About DA2 merits as game lets just agree to disagree
Obs: Looking in the picture again, the top option seems to be the professional one in this situation.