I can't connect to a server.

[Neon]

Hello, I have a problem with my MP game.

When I try to refresh my list, my pc stands still, and after 10 sec. there comes something, it says: busy 1 sec --> 2 sec --> 3 sec.

And then I go back to my server list, but there are no servers.

 

Then I tought, I have this too with my jedi academy game, and then I use All seeing eye, then I can see servers.

But when I connect one, it says with or without gamespy or something.

I always take without gamespy, but then it says busy 1 sec 2 sec 3 sec till around 15. then it says: Could not connect to the server, and then I have to say OK and I go back to my menu.

And now I used with gamespy, but it's just the same, I've also put off my firewall.

And it still doesn't work.

Please I really need your help.

and I don't know what I can do else.