My Dad's a bastard...

[Hyperglide]

Originally posted by X R Kun

Yeah, i AM the man of the house! Oh wait, i have an older brother. No, I AM one half of the tag team brothers. Anyone coming to harm my family would get a double clothesline frm us.

 

And yeah, ive come to accept him as not exactly dead but just not part of the family. He comes here once a month in which i would just keep silent until spoken to. Believe me, u dont wanna get on the wrong side of him. He may talk sweet to his bitches but hes actually a violent psycho. Not that hes always like that but he does have a short temper and when he goes nuclear, he would start using objects in the house. Yes, even a chair.

 

I'm not psychiatrist, but it sounds to me like he's a classic power tripper. He uses fear and anger as his most potent weapon to keep you your brother and your mother in check.

 

What you need to do is pop that ******* in the face a few time's and I bet you he will crawl in a fetal postion crying for his mommy. Seriously guys like this WANT to be abused, thats why they are doing it to you and more importantly to your mother.

 

I don't even have a dad. My dad died when I was just one, so I to haven't had a father figure, I'm also the only man of the house (have 2 younger brothers). My uncle's and more importantly the female figures taught me what a REAL man should be. You don't always have to be assertive and put food on the table and clothes on your familys back etc.

 

Just be a integral honorable, just, and sensitve person. That makes a REAL man. Something your father isn't by the sounds of it.

 

Just touching up on some already excellent excellent points.

 

Lastly maybe you guys should goto counselling?? I mean I don't mean to sound rude but ppl shouldn't be coming online with there family problems and emotional baggage. It won't help you, thats what counsellers are around for they can really help, trust me.

 

Hope you get this all sorted out dude.

[Chewbacco]

Do you still want him to die after he gives you what he owes?

[Guardian Omega]

Geez! At least my dad gives a **** about me........

 

If I were you, I'd take Skinwalker's, STTCT's, and nova's advice, although I have no experience, I do tend to predict people well. Maybe hire some sort of family psychiracist? As they say, professionals are experienced, so seek them out. And I'm curious, if he only gives you a couple of hundred, how the **** you lived??? As the above poster said, in a way, I'd take advantage of that motherly instinct to try to knock her into some sense, the same poster's tip may work. I know more drastic measures, but I'd like to be more informed of this situation. Anyways, I wish you good luck and a quick and efficient solution to your dilemina.