Call me easily impressed... but they fixed it! They ****ing fixed it. Maybe I just got lucky but i was satisfied...
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The Normandy took off, the relays are only 'badly damaged', the Citadel can be salvaged, there seems to be differences between the endings, I get to say goodbye to Liara, I got actual explanations from the starkid then basically was able to tell him to go touch himself at night, and happiness abounds.
Shame about the fairly lame slideshow thingy (LOL Zaeed), but apart from that, colour me happy
edit: woah, just took a look at the 'refusal' ending.
...really glad i didn't choose it just to see what would happen