Faith Posted October 8, 2001 Share Posted October 8, 2001 Whats it all about? Why do i feel suicidle? Why have i cut myself about 5 mins ago? I feel like i dont have a friend in the world even though i am surrounded by them. I have no one i feel comfortable talking to. OK, what should i do? I am so down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fender Posted October 8, 2001 Share Posted October 8, 2001 Ahhhm......... Right. Never talk about things like War and Death and the "Whole Mirror Pension Fund" area. Stick to things like puppies, and cushions. ------------------ © 2001 Fender Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faith Posted October 8, 2001 Author Share Posted October 8, 2001 Originally posted by fender: Ahhhm......... Right. Never talk about things like War and Death and the "Whole Mirror Pension Fund" area. Stick to things like puppies, and cushions. I need advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Al-back from the BigWhoop Posted October 8, 2001 Share Posted October 8, 2001 Originally posted by Faith: Whats it all about? Why do i feel suicidle? Why have i cut myself about 5 mins ago? I feel like i dont have a friend in the world even though i am surrounded by them. I have no one i feel comfortable talking to. OK, what should i do?B] good question, i have no idea ------------------ Artificial intelligence is the stupidest fucking bastart that ever shoed his funny face in this forum. COPY MY SIG NOW BITCH! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Al-back from the BigWhoop Posted October 8, 2001 Share Posted October 8, 2001 Originally posted by Faith: Whats it all about? Why do i feel suicidle? Why have i cut myself about 5 mins ago? I feel like i dont have a friend in the world even though i am surrounded by them. I have no one i feel comfortable talking to. OK, what should i do?B] good question, i have no idea ------------------ Artificial intelligence is the stupidest fucking bastart that ever shoed his funny face in this forum. COPY MY SIG NOW BITCH! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Al-back from the BigWhoop Posted October 8, 2001 Share Posted October 8, 2001 jesus ****in christ! sorry about all those posts. heres what happened: i posted once, and i saw nothin. back button, posted again, nothing. back button again, posted again again, and then suddenly there were all my 3 posts! [This message has been edited by Al-back from the BigWhoop (edited October 08, 2001).] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fender Posted October 8, 2001 Share Posted October 8, 2001 Originally posted by Faith: I need advice. Im afraid that was my advice. Please spare me from the rolleyes icon! ------------------ © 2001 Fender Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Natty Posted October 9, 2001 Share Posted October 9, 2001 Faith? Think about what's making you unhappy and why is it making you unhappy? If it's school, and you're not getting good grades, then perhaps try working harder to get grades up, if your friends are being mean, to hell with them, if they're mean to you and pick on you or fight with you all the time, they're not real friends and aren't worth it. Go and make new friends, friends that will treat you right. However things may seem or be for you at the moment, it will get better, there's nothing you gain by taking your own life... ------------------ Natty's Currant Mood Is... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frenchyd Posted October 9, 2001 Share Posted October 9, 2001 my mom always says Happiness is a CHOICE there yah go ------------------ FrenchyD Duff man is thrusting in the direction of the problem Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MtBlanc Posted October 9, 2001 Share Posted October 9, 2001 It's awfully hard to give you advice over the internet, and most people are likely not to understand what you are going through. As for my advice, I recommend talking to someone you trust, even if you don't feel open enough to share what exactly is troubling you. Don't worry about being open (but it seems like you've jumped that hurdle already), just find someone you can talk to, in real life. If you feel that you have no true friends, just look around, there has to be someone who cares for you even if you don't know it. You need to talk to someone about these problems, I'm sure there is someone around that you can talk to, even if you don't currently think you do. And just take things slow. Don't let anything overwhelm you. I hope that advice helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deadmeat1587246448 Posted October 9, 2001 Share Posted October 9, 2001 And remember: suicide is no answer! Just cause youre feeling down right now doesnt mean your whole life is gonna suck. Killing yourself doesnt solve a thing, and will only make your friends and family sad. Everybody has got a time every now and then where he or she doesnt see the point anymore, and believes life sucks and all that. Most of the times it goes away, especially when you experience things that make you see the point of life again. If it doesnt go away automatically, Dinghy was right: talking about it helps. Its cliche, but its true. And as Natty said: first trie to figure out what bothers you, then do something about it. Well i dont know if this is gonna help you, and i doubt taking my advice is always the right thing, but i did my best. (Spent whole 5 minutes typing this philosophical message. Its almost nine am) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NiKo Posted October 9, 2001 Share Posted October 9, 2001 isnt it strange how Nattys mood thing always says "cute" and frenchys always says "intelligent"? are you sure those things arent rigged? as for your problem faith, remember, life doesnt control you, you conrtol life. life is but a vehicle. a tranportation. its not bad, you may be a bad driver, so you need a few driving lessons. but dont blame the car! maybe it needs some gas, have you thought about that? and maybe wash it a lit... what the hell am i saying here? ------------------ Always check for insurance salesmen before sitting. [This message has been edited by NiKo (edited October 09, 2001).] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NiKo Posted October 9, 2001 Share Posted October 9, 2001 and besides, suicide is a permanent answer for a temporary problem. ------------------ Always check for insurance salesmen before sitting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest murta Posted October 9, 2001 Share Posted October 9, 2001 Originally posted by Faith: Whats it all about? Why do i feel suicidle? Why have i cut myself about 5 mins ago? I feel like i dont have a friend in the world even though i am surrounded by them. I have no one i feel comfortable talking to. OK, what should i do? I am so down. I don't think this is the way to ask for advice of this nature, as it puts alot of responsibility on people and somebody might say somethign that you interpret wrong. I think it would be best to talk to a family member/friend, as they'll know you better and know what to say. I think most people fell how you do at some point during their life, so you don't have to feel lonely/different because you feel that way. Not talking about it will only make it worse and doing somethign to yourself will hurt others and almost certainly be a little premature, as the feelings will pass, everything gets better with time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The Feral Chicken Posted October 9, 2001 Share Posted October 9, 2001 Life really is a box of chocolates. Sometimes someone has already taken your favourite and you have to settle for the coconut one. Sometimes you lose the little indentification label and have to guess blindly. Occasionally you stumble onto a new flavour that you like, other times it's one you want to spit out. Sometimes you have to discard the top layer and get down to the bottom layer, where all of the chocolates you'll ever have, whether they are your favourite or spittable, will be. Just remember; sometimes you'll eat one you don't like, only to find a box full of your favourites in the cupboard. Think about it. ------------------ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The Feral Chicken Posted October 9, 2001 Share Posted October 9, 2001 [This message has been edited by The Feral Chicken (edited October 09, 2001).] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brief Posted October 9, 2001 Share Posted October 9, 2001 I hope you're not serious about the suicide thing... Life will always have its ups and downs, and there may be times when it seems that the downs will never end. Keep your hopes up, it won't be long till things are looking up again. Much of it depends on your attitude towards the situation. Don't be afraid to let out your emotions, but do so in non-destructive ways. If you want to cry, cry. If you want to scream, try to find a secluded spot and scream your lungs out. Or write out what you feel in your journal, if you can't find anyone you feel comfortable talking to. Face the problems head on--running away rarely solves them. If you want, you can e-mail me privately (check my profile for my e-mail) to 'talk,' but only if you feel comfortable enough to do so. ------------------ "Those unforgettable days, for them I live." --Omoikane, Martian Successor Nadesico Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The Feral Chicken Posted October 9, 2001 Share Posted October 9, 2001 Ditto to Brief; just e-mail me steven.chicken@btinternet.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guybrush122 Posted October 9, 2001 Share Posted October 9, 2001 Originally posted by Faith: Whats it all about? Why do i feel suicidle? Why have i cut myself about 5 mins ago? I feel like i dont have a friend in the world even though i am surrounded by them. I have no one i feel comfortable talking to. OK, what should i do? I am so down. Faith, heres my advice: Suicide isnt the answer. Niko is right, its a permenant solution to a temperary problem. You cut yourself? Thats horrible. Dont ever do that again, keep your chin up. And this is what you should do, everyday you wake up think of one reason why you should live.........do that everyday of your life......and when you run out of reasons start all over again. You have your family, your friends, your whole life is ahead of you.......to have true bliss you must experience sorrow. It cant be balanced out. We are your friends, we all know and love you, and if your having doubts about your friends outside of the forum.......dont. Dont get down about life.......remember, there still is laughter, there still is happyness, you just have to find it. Keep your chin up and let the wind point you tword the direction you need to go. Live your life and eventually you will find happyness...suicide is not what you want. You wouldnt want to go break our hearts, would you? If you continue to feel this way, get psychiatric help. Be open and willing for help, because you do want to get better. ------------------ RIP Bradley [This message has been edited by Guybrush122 (edited October 09, 2001).] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelenW Posted October 10, 2001 Share Posted October 10, 2001 Faith, i think it is fair to say that everyone feels like you do at some stage in their lives, although that does not make it any easier to deal with it at the time that you are experiencing it. if you find it hard to talk to someone close to you it sometimes helps to speak to a neutral party. Schools and colleges often have a school counseller or student support services if you are in Uni (sorry I don't know how old you are or if you are school or whatever). One thing I do know as a person who works in a hospital in the adolescent units, is that cutting yourself does not help. It also becomes a habit. I have worked with boys and girls who self harm when their mood is low. When their mood lifts again, as it inevitably does, they lose self esteem and feel self conscious about their scars. I know you don't know me, but if you want to talk to someone then you are more than welcome to email me at helenw@ntlworld.com. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guybrush122 Posted October 10, 2001 Share Posted October 10, 2001 Helen is right, a lot of teenageers go through what your going through........myself included. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Al-back from the BigWhoop Posted October 10, 2001 Share Posted October 10, 2001 Originally posted by Guybrush122: Helen is right, a lot of teenageers go through what your going through........myself included. i bet, u even married yourself ------------------ "saxomophone... saxomophone..."-Homer J. Simpson Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natty Posted October 10, 2001 Share Posted October 10, 2001 Helen is right, all teenagers go through it at some stage or another. Sometimes people do it for attention reasons (which I know Faith isn't doing, I don't believe she would say something like this for attention reasons) My friend of mine suffered a great deal because this guy was basically obsessed with him, and this guy wouldn't take the hint that my friend didn't like him, didn't wanna go out with him or anything. So this guy basically made my friends life hell, and this guy had several suicide attempts, which failed, but I think it finally got to my friend when this guy slit his wrists at a music camp and everyone had to come home early. I was in the year above, so I didn't get to witness much of what was going on, but my friend showed me all these emails this guy was sending him, and written letters, the guy was a full on nutcase. But remember, no matter how bad things seem, or how low you feel Faith, you can't go anywhere, but up ------------------ Natty's Currant Mood Is... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NiKo Posted October 10, 2001 Share Posted October 10, 2001 Originally posted by Faith: thanks for all your lovely advice, i had to come and let you all know i'm okay. so you wont worry about me. once again, thanks for the help you all. its okay faith, thats what friends are for. ------------------ Silly faggots, d*cks are for chicks. -Parody of Trix cereals Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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