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...but I need your advice. So there's him. And there's her.. his g/f. I have a crush on him, and he seems to like me too, but.. I'm really confused. Any thoughts? <IMG SRC="http://www.freakygamers.com/smilies/s/contrib/fk/confused.gif" border=0>

 

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Originally posted by Honey:

...but I need your advice. So there's him. And there's her.. his g/f. I have a crush on him, and he seems to like me too, but.. I'm really confused. Any thoughts? <IMG SRC="http://www.freakygamers.com/smilies/s/contrib/fk/confused.gif" border=0>

 

 

im even more confused, i have no idea what u talking bout

 

 

 

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It sounds harsh, but if he's got a girlfriend you shouldn't even be thinking about it should you. And even if he decided he liked you and left his girlfriend for you, it wouldn't be a good foundation for a relationship would it. You wouldn't be able to trust him, cos he'd probably run off as soon as someone better comes along. I mean, he wouldn't have a background of being trustworthy would he.

If it was me I'd put my feelings aside and that way noone will get hurt. I've been in the situation myself, where I've liked someone who was in a relationship. I've even liked married people. But I would NEVER ever say anything. It just causes too much trouble.

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Originally posted by NiKo:

2+1= 3

 

(if you get it, you get it)

 

hey NiKo!!! you are learning some math! have you taken xtra studies?

 

 

 

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Originally posted by Jack:

Originally posted by NiKo:

2+1= 3

 

(if you get it, you get it)

 

hey NiKo!!! you are learning some math! have you taken xtra studies?

 

 

nope, figured out that one all by myself wink.gif

 

 

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Originally posted by HelenW:

It sounds harsh, but if he's got a girlfriend you shouldn't even be thinking about it should you. And even if he decided he liked you and left his girlfriend for you, it wouldn't be a good foundation for a relationship would it. You wouldn't be able to trust him, cos he'd probably run off as soon as someone better comes along. I mean, he wouldn't have a background of being trustworthy would he.

If it was me I'd put my feelings aside and that way noone will get hurt. I've been in the situation myself, where I've liked someone who was in a relationship. I've even liked married people. But I would NEVER ever say anything. It just causes too much trouble.

 

I know I know I know...

But relationships don't last forever do they? I don't think it happens that u can stay with someone from seventeen to the rest of your life..

And 2-1+1=2 (sorry if that's too hard, NiKo wink.gif )

 

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Well, if he splits up with his girlfriend anyway then go for it, I was just saying don't be the cause of the split. Its an oldie but I think the saying "what goes around comes around" is true. It would probably be you who gets hurt in the end.

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Gotta agree with Helen here.. If you become the reason for them to split up, you'll probably always wonder if he might do the same to you sometime in the future. There's a certain level of trust that will never be regained.

 

If possible, remain "just friends" with him. Otherwise, you should make a clean break.

 

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there's always time for that when him and his girlfriend break up. That's what i've learned.. patience.

 

 

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Frenchy, have it ever happened that you had enough patience? I mean, is it real to have soooo much patience?? <IMG SRC="http://www.theunholytrinity.org/cracks_smileys/contrib/blackeye/stretch.gif" border=0>

 

 

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Originally posted by NiKo:

nope, figured out that one all by myself wink.gif

 

Too bad it was wrong then <IMG SRC="http://www.escapemi.com/forums/smilies/cwm27.gif" border=0>

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wrong way to go about it storken...... <IMG SRC="http://www.escapemi.com/forums/smilies/cwm10.gif" border=0>

 

 

Well, its about time ive spoken up about this. Honey: stay as close as you can with him, stay great friends but not so close its rediculous..........if you get to be like best friends youll be stuck in the "friend zone" forever, make a good friendship but dont get too close, so that whenever you stop by to say hi its like a treat.............like its something special, if you do that everyday it becomes more common.......now, when he breaks up (ill put my money on it that they will) comfort him a bit and go for the kill.........not right away..........you dont want to crowd but do it soon enough so that he doesnt find another interest before you ask him for the big "go out"

 

get what im sayin? plan ahead......it makes life easier :-)

 

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anytime captain lechuck.......remember to NEVER be embaressed...you shouldnt, pretend that she (or he in honeys case) is just one of your good friends.

 

ps Best of luck to you honey and lechuck....(honey ive got the avatar done!)

 

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Guybrush, thanx a lot for your piece of advice!! It was a really useful one. You encouraged me and made me sure of my success <IMG SRC="http://www.freakygamers.com/smilies/s/cwm/cwm/heart-on.gif" border=0>

 

(about avatar): really? great!! can u pleeease send it to my e-mail? thanx again for everything! wink.gif

 

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Originally posted by Honey:

Guybrush, thanx a lot for your piece of advice!! It was a really useful one. You encouraged me and made me sure of my success <IMG SRC="http://www.freakygamers.com/smilies/s/cwm/cwm/heart-on.gif" border=0>

 

(about avatar): really? great!! can u pleeease send it to my e-mail? thanx again for everything! wink.gif

 

 

Youre welcome for the advice.........anytime for any forumer........biggrin.gif

 

and about the avatar..........i still need to resize it and make her blonde (wink.gif) but i will send it by email (i searched long and wide for this pic)

 

 

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