obi Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 He's not going to use Dual of the Fates? so what if it never worked for me............... Imperial March didn't eather........... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyrion Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Originally posted by Darth Knight mental age there is a ton of people that are like 11 years old i mean 11 years old that is just way to young i mean do they even understand some of these conversations *cough*cough*me*cough*cough* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reb Starblazer Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 I gotta agree with Kurgan on this. Don't do anything stupid. Supposedly girls like guys that talk to them, that treat them special, treat them like a person instead of a sex object or just someone to make out with*hint*hint* If she wants to make out with you, it'll happen. If not, work towards something, a better friendship, maybe a relationship. But if it's going to happen, it'll happen. Well, it'll happen with a bit of help and push from the two of you. Things like that just don't happen on their own. But don't take things too far, or you will end up with nothing(and I don't mean that as in getting some, I mean you may lose your chance with her completely) And once again, as Kurgan said, ask questions. Get to know her, let her get to know you. That's the best start any relationship can have. And if you do go, ahem, "all the way" don't do anything stupid! You don't go out in the the rain without a raincoat now do you? You know what I mean. And if you're wondering why I said supposedly, it's because I'm not a girl, I don't know these things for sure. Women are one of the great mysteries of life, perhaps that's why they're so damn interesting:D As for music, I agree with Divine Spirit, Jazz is great. Also, try some classical. Maybe even "Across the Stars":p It's not called "love theme" for nothing you know:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Camus Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Originally posted by obi-wan13 He's not going to use Dual of the Fates? so what if it never worked for me............... Imperial March didn't eather........... You people are sad... If You want some play the music they listen too... pop... I know it works... trust me... :S I have a g/f everytime I want to get close I put it on and I always get +10% more than I was asking for... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheJackal Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Shara I dont know if this is too late or whatever But DONT put stupid music like that. No girls fall for that unless they are really shallow. Just be yourself. Have a good time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Camus Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Originally posted by TheJackal Shara I dont know if this is too late or whatever But DONT put stupid music like that. No girls fall for that unless they are really shallow. Just be yourself. Have a good time. That really hit the nail on the head... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clem Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 i agree have fun if stuff happens .... gr8 if not ..... theres always next time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheJackal Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Actually, if you DO want music. Let her pick. You want to make out with her so let her pick. I was thinking about my last girlfriend and any time we ... did stuff... she played the music. So it's #1 easier for me #2 i have no taste in music. However if you dont know her at all or not even her girlfriend I wouldn't try to play music just to get moves on a girl. That only happens in television and cheap movies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jedi Hunter2354 Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 How about: Mc Hammer - U can't touch this OH WAIT OH WAIT wrong angle hmmm Nelly - Hot in Herre I think the "its getting hot in here, so take off all your clothes" could be used a big suggestively if you know what I mean Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clem Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 or u could be immature Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s0ulblihtr Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Originally posted by TheJackal Actually, if you DO want music. Let her pick. You want to make out with her so let her pick. I was thinking about my last girlfriend and any time we ... did stuff... she played the music. So it's #1 easier for me #2 i have no taste in music. However if you dont know her at all or not even her girlfriend I wouldn't try to play music just to get moves on a girl. That only happens in television and cheap movies. Listen to this man! If you are on top of you game you should not really have to work to hard to get the lady where you want her( in the sac, playing tonsul hockey, etc.). One thing is to NOT TRY TO HARD. Ladies can spot that a mile away. Be yourself. That is what attracted her to you in the first place. You don't want to be a wuss but you also don't want to be overbearing when it comes to getting close. As far as music I don't know what type of music you listen to so I can't really say. DEFINITELY DON'T PUT ON MARVIN GAYE "Lets get it on". Unless she came over just to let you hit it, then don't because thats a turn off to women. I would put on something that you yourself can get to that you know ladies also like. It doesn't have to be slow... fefinitely not fast, but something thats chilled out and smooth with a cool arse beat. Need more advice from your Pretty Boy extraordinaire feel free to PM me. Always happy to help a growing ladies man!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Divine Spirit Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Originally posted by TheJackal Actually, if you DO want music. Let her pick. You want to make out with her so let her pick. you could do that but i think she would appreciate it a lot more if you managed to pick music that she liked. Its a risk you may or may not want to take. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mima kake Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Well it all depence on the kind of mood (ambiance) you would like to create. So any music will do (trust mima we know music;) ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Absurd Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Originally posted by SharaFett i have a girl coming over this weekend. her family and our family have been close for a while. she hinted that she wants us to get closer to each other than friends. while my parents and her parents go out to dinner on saturday night, i'll be alone with her. i was wondering, what type of music should i use (give me song name, artist, ect) for the mood? i'm looking particularily for makeout music. how else can i improve the setting? Are you ready to pay for and raise a kid? If not, don't touch her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clem Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 i dunno if hes planning on going that far ... and if he is thats fine if he uses protection oh i hear thats a good band going around ... called fresh cream dodgy name and i havent heard ne of their stuff but .... ive heard good stuff about em Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Absurd Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Originally posted by Darth Clem i dunno if hes planning on going that far ... and if he is thats fine if he uses protection That's fine? Are you kidding? You can get STDs and get a girl pregnant with 'protection'. World population 6 billion and growing more stupid each time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clem Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 condoms are 99% effective good enuff id say Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Camus Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Originally posted by Darth Clem condoms are 99% effective good enuff id say Its 99.9%... I know someone that did a report on it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clem Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 i knew it was above 99 but not that much above i dont wanna ask how this test was performed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Camus Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Originally posted by Darth Clem i knew it was above 99 but not that much above i dont wanna ask how this test was performed Lot of the time... Its the male not knowing how to put one on and ends up pocking a small hole in it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s0ulblihtr Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Originally posted by Camus Lot of the time... Its the male not knowing how to put one on and ends up pocking a small hole in it... or even sometimes its the lady trying to trap you and make you a father because she doesn't want to lose you... I don't know this from experience, I've had friends that this has happend to Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Camus Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Originally posted by s0ulblihtr or even sometimes its the lady trying to trap you and make you a father because she doesn't want to lose you... I don't know this from experience, I've had friends that this has happend to Forced commitment... that is evil... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clem Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 women are evil but u gotta love em Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaihulud Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 women = money * time, time is money, women = money * money, money is the "root of evil", women = root(evil) * root(evil) therefore: women = evil Seriously tho, I think mista-man up there had the right idea. Let her pick the music is probably the safest, and most successful path. The reasons behind this are really sorta two-fold: First, it shows yer interested in making her happy, and you know wutever she picks, she'll like. Second, its a good gauge of wut kinda mood she's in. If she picks Joe Cocker or Simon and G-Funk (thats Garfunkle for the uninformed, ), its unF! time...but if she picks, say, The Doors, or Nine Inch Nails for that matter, its a pretty good hint that you should back off and just take it easy. Aight, thats my 2-cents. Hope it helps. ShaiHulud - The big f*cking worm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turgenev Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Originally posted by SharaFett i have a girl coming over this weekend. her family and our family have been close for a while. she hinted that she wants us to get closer to each other than friends. while my parents and her parents go out to dinner on saturday night, i'll be alone with her. i was wondering, what type of music should i use (give me song name, artist, ect) for the mood? i'm looking particularily for makeout music. how else can i improve the setting? Judgements on what you DO on this magickal evening nonewithstanding... your original question was for mood music. Focus on relaxing music. Techno ain't the thing, although Enigma "1990" is phoenomenal. Their following albums are great too, but IMHO, "1990" is designed for this sorta stuff. However, if she KNOWS that, then you're in for some embarrassing moments! Enigma's last album ("Le Roi est Morte" I think) is also very good, with Cross of Changes a good third. Also look at acoustic versions of Tori Amos if you can DL/burn it. Any harsh instrumental goes out the window (read: Satriani). In the more classical vein, classical guitar is wonderful. Violins are bad (too shrill, gives a chaste image, and she'll think you're damned weird), piano is ok, depending on the piece. Oh, and if you pick music like this, make sure you listen to it beforehand and know what the heck it's about? If she asks you "That guitar's wonderful, what is it?"... at least know the artist's name!? Settings... frankly, if you're doing anything at home, don't make everything look like a precursor to romance. I'd suggest going out and enjoying each other's company, where if the moment strikes you can find a quiet corner and lock braces or something. (jk) Do interactive, not passive things. Movies, as the cliche goes, are the worst, since you're NOT LOOKING AT EACH OTHER. Dances/raves/rodeos, etc. can be good, but distracting. If I were you, I'd take her to a quiet italian restaurant and chat over wine, then go out to an evening field and gaze up at the stars. As someone else noted earlier, BE YOURSELF. Don't be "yourself lookin' to score the hoochie", otherwise you'll ruin it AND insult her intentions with you. Relax, expect nothing, and with luck you'll be pleasantly surprised. Remember, the "hot action" myth on the first date is pretty much a TV-based myth. If you like her, just like her, don't try to MAKE her like you. Everything will happen the way it should. That's it. I saw the other "recommendations" from others, and just had to throw in my two bytes to save you from them. Although if you turn the stereo on, and you hear "Love Is In the Air, Every Time I Turn Around..." you can make it a great joke to break the ice! Peace out. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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