Guest garyah99 Posted January 7, 2002 Share Posted January 7, 2002 Mine sucked. I found out my wife doesn't love me anymore, and never really did. I found out the the last 12 yerars of my life have been a lie, sold to the greatest con-man of all time. We are going to attempt coinselling, but it doesn't look promising. I really don't know why I would think anyone could love ME in the first place. Happy F*^%&^%& New Year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue Nine Posted January 7, 2002 Share Posted January 7, 2002 Holy crapnuts....hey man, if you wanna talk, my addy's blackraptor13@hotmail.com. Or if you have AIM, my sn's GDHell02. I'm here for ya. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue15 Posted January 7, 2002 Share Posted January 7, 2002 dang Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRogue 3000 Posted January 7, 2002 Share Posted January 7, 2002 Dude...I am so sorry. Don't be saying stuff like no one loves you. You have to know better than that. Have faith that God will show you his way. Please have faith. The best advice I could give you. Go with God, brutha. You know you'll be better when you're on his side. Good luck. Peace out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyan Farlander Posted January 7, 2002 Share Posted January 7, 2002 Jeez... You don't give any specifics (which is probably wise), so it's hard to understand what you are talking about. But...what is love anyway? A willfull act, I suppose. Not a feeling - not "luv," if you know what I mean. I can hardly believe two people could be married for 12 years and all of the sudden one of them decides to just stop caring (or faked it for all 12 years). And perhaps counciling will be more helpful than you think. If two baptized people marry, then they recieve the graces that sacrament implies. And no matter what each of them wants, nothing on earth can undo a valid marriage. But, hey, I know how you feel a little. I dated a girl for 4 years, and then one day, she calls me up and says she never wants to see me again. Won't even tell me why. One day, she was the most caring, level headed person in the world, the next day, bam. That was over a year ago, and it still doesn't make any sense, and I still don't feel any better about it. I can only imagine how I'd feel if it was 3 times as long and I was actually married, promised forever, to her. So, I really sympathize - it must be awful. But, at least there's still a chance it will all work out. A small chance is better than nothing, I guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jem Posted January 7, 2002 Share Posted January 7, 2002 Damn, that sucks... I really don't know what to say...geez... I hope you'll soon get back on your feet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K_Kinnison Posted January 7, 2002 Share Posted January 7, 2002 oh man that really sucks garyah. And i know you are a christian. A marriage based on love is nice, but it is not eternal. From my studies of the bible, it is based on a unfailing commitment to eachother. The knowledge that you both need eachother to go on with your life as christians. Emotions are not the reason why you should marry, and that is probly one of the reason why there is such a high divorce rate in the US, that nad the Gov has made it easier for people to get divorced. Gary, i hope you two DO seek consoling with a Christian Consuler. Im praying for ya big guy. If you want to talk, just drop me an E-mail Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Conor Posted January 7, 2002 Share Posted January 7, 2002 I'm truly sorry. I'll pray for you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edlib Posted January 8, 2002 Share Posted January 8, 2002 Wow. That's rough. Like the others I don't really know what to say, except to offer what support I can. Stay strong. You'll get through this. Small consolation right now, I know... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue15 Posted January 8, 2002 Share Posted January 8, 2002 i think love is how u love your pet, u feed it, pet it, take care of it, take it for walks, and make sure it's happy, and u don't abuse it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GUNNER Posted January 8, 2002 Share Posted January 8, 2002 I'm sorry as well Gary. Love is hard but there is one person who loves you very much and will never turn his back on you no matter how far away he may seem. GOD loves very much and only wants his best for you. Look to him right now and he will be there for you. If ever you need to talk to me or anyone else here, just drop us a line. We will do our best to listen and give you a shoulder. bubbastallion@attbi.com Jim. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest rosencrantz Posted January 8, 2002 Share Posted January 8, 2002 hey Gary. i got your email about this awhile ago, did you ever get my reply? at any rate you probably know my response anyway. of course words can't even begin to sympathise with how you feel, so i won't even try. you know that i'm praying for you and your family. that you and your wife will reconcile (you have such amazing stories about what you guys have been through together! think about your youngest daughter! wahoo!!) and that your sweet girls won't be dragged into the middle of it. and for yourself Gary, that you'll cling to Christ even more in this time. spend some time just being still before him. he WANTS to talk to you. email anytime you need to vent or with any prayer stuff. you know i'm here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest garyah99 Posted January 8, 2002 Share Posted January 8, 2002 Thanks guys. IT;s nice to know there is support ou tthere. Needless to say this is <font size=4>THE</font> biggest thing we have ever had to face. IT;s true, I can't publish many details, only that we need tons of prayers. We ARE seeing a Christian counsellor starting Thursday. She is very highly recommended by our church pastor. It's true about the commitment, but God also desires a husband and wife to share a special, intimate Love and bond, and I'm hoping that through counsellign and probably further professional therapy, that she will be able to find those feelings. Thanks again for you rprayers and support. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flying Beastie Posted January 8, 2002 Share Posted January 8, 2002 Sorry I'm late. Garyah, we're all pulling for you. Sometimes it's enough to know that people care. This is the "worst" part of the whole "for better or worse" thing. Things will get better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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