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I'm terribly sorry to hear that, Havoc. I can't think of anything to say that hasn't been said already in this thread, so I'll just hope that you and your wife go through this ordeal as quickly as possible. Again, I feel immensely sorry for you and your wife.

 

Let's keep this one on top, boys. :(

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Dude, you can have my shoulder any time. I've been really fortunate in that I haven't been in your situation, or anything close to it. I remember when I was little, 5 or 6, though. I was too small to understand it, but as I was getting ready for bed one night, my Mama had a miscarriage. She was in bed, and the baby just kinda came out. We were going to name him Peter. He was only a few inches long, but he was fully formed and obviously a baby. We took him to my grandparent's farm and buried him under an oak tree, after a short memorial service. I'm glad I was little. I didn't have to go through too much. But I got a tiny, itsy bitsy taste of what you're going through, Havoc.

I'll be praying for you.....

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Thank you everyone for your kind words, encouragement, thoughts and prayers. Sorry, I haven't been on for a while, we've been busy with Doctor's appointments and what time we do get to relax, we've been doing just that: relaxing.

 

Here's an update:

 

The Doc says my wife is completely finished physically with the ordeal, and that she is healed completely. The Doc also says that in a few months, and if we are emotionally ready, we can start trying again. but that's the real catch...

 

Emotionally, my wife is pretty depressed, this baby was to be her special "Christmas gift", and now she doesn't want to have Christmas, she doesn't think she's able to have a baby, and just scared to death to even try again. But the good news is, slowly, she is moving forward, we'll just take this one day at a time (Right Wraith! ;) )

 

I know that alot of women have had miscarriages, as a matter of fact 1 in 10 pregnancies end that way. So here I was/am, making this big deal out of something that alot of people have had to deal with and you guys were there for me. That means so much to me. My wife has even read the thread, and it means alot to her too.

 

Even though we may be miles apart and only swap text via electronics and the cyberworld, few friendships have ever felt more real to me than yours. May God bless you all in every endeavor you undertake. You all deserve happiness, for you have stopped and helped someone else in need.

 

Thank you

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some of us aren't as far as you would think, bub :D

 

Anyways, you need to get her mind off of it. Right now, go on a vacation to her favorite spot. Don't worry about the financial stuff, but your wife sounds like she needs a trip away from her problems and needs to go somewhere relaxing. Also, man, work doesn't help.

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Originally posted by Heavyarms

Anyways, you need to get her mind off of it. Right now, go on a vacation to her favorite spot. Don't worry about the financial stuff, but your wife sounds like she needs a trip away from her problems and needs to go somewhere relaxing.

 

Working on it! We are planning a trip to Sunny Florida for a week! Now that's what I call relaxation. Of course, it won't measure up to last years trip to Cancun, but it'll do! :D

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That alright Rhett, I think she'll gat a kick out of it (Or I will, one way or another ;) ) She's more derogatory than me sometimes, I swear! You marry a girl and all of sudden they lose all inhibition! ;)

 

She already wants to try again, so I'm not going to say no, that would just be stupid! :D

 

Anyways off I go, and remember: if this IP address is rocking, don't come a'knocking! :cool:

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I have been gone for a while, My Grandmother passed away.

 

I see that while I was gone, you had trouble with a certain individual, to say the least. I just want to say thank you to the MODs and particularly Rogue Nine for keeping the Forum clean, and in this case this thread clean. I don't know what he said, but I'm glad it was dealt with before I had the chance to see it! It might have made me very angry! :(

 

Thanks again Rogue Nine and to all the other MODs who had to deal with the above said individual.

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