Reborn Outcast Posted December 21, 2002 Share Posted December 21, 2002 I just asked out this special girl last night at my friends house. When I told her my feelings she said, "Could we just be friends? I kinda wanna get to know you more." Does this mean that I don't have a chance or that there is still hope? Please I need help. Oh and she is a junior in highschool, I'm a freshmen, she thinks i'm hot but told her friends that since im a freshmen it would be kinda weird goin out with me. She has also never had a boyfriend from what I've heard. Do I have any chance at all anymore? This is the same girl that I posted about in my other two threads, "Girl Problems" and "I'm in Agony". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kstar__2 Posted December 21, 2002 Share Posted December 21, 2002 there is still hope dude, she said she wanted to get to know you;) just be a good friend to her, and i think it will end happy:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lost Welshman Posted December 21, 2002 Share Posted December 21, 2002 Count yourself lucky that your friend doesnt like her too, and that she doesnt like your friend and that you dont go all weird wenever you see her and and.............. ok im calm, just see how it goes m8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyrion Posted December 21, 2002 Share Posted December 21, 2002 Yeah,still some hope. Just act more like her friend,and just try to store most of your emotions to her(To dont freak her out). On second thought,ask LeXX. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mex Posted December 21, 2002 Share Posted December 21, 2002 After you chat to her alot, [phone, email in person so on] ask her again! Well ask her in 2 weeks, and ive always wondered... Whats a freshmen? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-s/<itzo- Posted December 21, 2002 Share Posted December 21, 2002 usually it means shes trying to let you down nicely but i can be wrong and she just might want to be friends first. Originally posted by Flanders Well ask her in 2 weeks, and ive always wondered... Whats a freshmen? freshman= 9th grade sophomore= 10th grade junior= 11th grade senior= 12 grade the term can also be use in a 4 year collage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darklighter Posted December 21, 2002 Share Posted December 21, 2002 Just start off being friends, but do not, I repeat, do not get stuck in the serious 'friends zone'. Get to know her more, but make it subtley obvious that you do want to go out with her. Keep at it, and remember, flirting is good, but don't make it toooo obvious;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acrylic Posted December 21, 2002 Share Posted December 21, 2002 Be her friend....flirt with her, give her hugs occasionally, thats what i do to all my friends that are girls... And, a fresh man is the first stage of high school her in the US, which is 9th grade. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reborn Outcast Posted December 21, 2002 Author Share Posted December 21, 2002 Yea I get to see her tonight again but I'm hopin it won't be to weird. I don't think it will be because she is a really nice person. I'm just wonderin that maybe she said she wanted to be friends for now was because she's never had a boyfriend? I have no idea haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darklighter Posted December 21, 2002 Share Posted December 21, 2002 Well you're still young, well maybe in her eyes. Just give it time, take things slow, don't make a big deal out of having asked her, just act normally:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ratmjedi Posted December 21, 2002 Share Posted December 21, 2002 Take Darklighters advice and don't push her into going out with you or that you want her to go out with you. Make her feel comfortable so that she get's relaxed when she is around you and so that she knows that you aren't just trying to get with her but that you are friend's with her first. Try to be yourself and don't be someone that you aren't for her. Talk to her more and get to know her a little better. That way you guys can find out if you have anything in common and so that you guys can talk instead of having long awkward moment's of silence. Spend more time with her so that she get's comfortable to you and so that she knows that you are going to try to go out with her but don't lay it on so heavy. Also be mature so that she can get over the Junior and Freshman diffrence and so taht she sees that there really isn't any diffrence other than the title. This should hopefully work and change her mind on you. Also don't get into that very dangerous friend zone. If she realizes that you are only friend material than it won't last for long cause then she'll say that she doesn't want to lose your friendship after going out with you. let her know that your always going to be her friend regarless of what happens between you. That the best advice for you but your the one that knows what kind of relationship you have with her so use the right advice for your situation. Good luck man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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