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Posted
Originally posted by Rogue15

who cares?

 

He was in an interesting predicament. At very least he's posting here so he can tell somebody and he'd like our input and opinions on it. Personally, I'm somewhat flatterd that he might trust us to help him out there.

 

Very rude thing to say, dude... :mad:

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Originally posted by ZePhyR

Okay Rogue, I'll be out enjoying life while you're here posting messages on a forum all night. Have fun.

 

ok I'll be sure to have more fun than you.

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it's all about the POINT +2 :D

 

just kidding. ok, where were we? o yes, 'why I wouldn't do that' or 'why you shouldn't do that' etc. hehe

 

now for the real question:

 

How old are you, and how old are each of these girls?

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I'm 17, and all of the girls are 16. Everybody was talking about my 'date' with the girl yesterday, like it was their business. I only got a chance to say hi to her, so I dunno what she thinks about it all. I'm not gonna try too hard, and definitely think about what I do before I do it. The first girl won't leave me the hell alone and calls me an ******* if it takes me a while to get back to her. She seems frantic, and I don't think she should because I told her before we went out a few weeks ago that I liked a few girls and wasn't ready to settle for just one. I dont think she knows about the other one, but that may have something to do with it. I only have 2 classes at school today, but I'm heading up now to see what the good word is. Peace.

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It appears that the first girl is more serious about you that you are about her. I would sugest that you talk to her again and remind her that you don't feel that your 'going steady'.

 

God I wish my love life had been more like that at school. ;):naughty:

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basically in any situation like this is stay neutral don't choose either of them that way you stay outta trouble. it it wrong to date 2 people at once whether you're a guy or a girl. cuz sooner or later someone's feelings are gonna be hurt and you will be the cause of it all.

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if you want to make life easy just date them both at the same time with out letting them know.

 

nah, i'm just playing.

 

 

heres the main deal, even though 2 girls are more fun than 1, you're only putting yourself in a bad predicament.

 

so be smart and do the right thing.

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if you want to make life easy just date them both at the same time with out letting them know.

 

nah, i'm just playing.

 

 

heres the main deal, even though 2 girls are more fun than 1, you're only putting yourself in a bad predicament.

 

so be smart and do the right thing.

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Originally posted by ZePhyR

no... this is cool.

 

your strange. :p

 

What your doing is very stupid. Its also cheating. Pick the one you like better, and STAY WITH HER. :)

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We only live once right? That's what I've resolved too. Ima keep tabs on the first one, but try for the new one to see what happens. Sorry I asked, but i know what im gonna do now. Anyone else have stories like this?

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*shakes head at ZePhyR* well...*looks down at self*...*looks back at you*...you got a hard road ahead of ya if this keeps up. *hands him lotion* good luck. *leaves*

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don't do it dood, i have done it, and i lost the girl i loved the most, and i regret it more then anything in the world. i hope you make the right decision. and don't be a freakin playa. i got friends who would kill you for that. (well make you bleed.)

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Originally posted by ZePhyR

We only live once right? That's what I've resolved too. Ima keep tabs on the first one, but try for the new one to see what happens. Sorry I asked, but i know what im gonna do now. Anyone else have stories like this?

i understand its fun but think about how they will feel when they find out. they might feel like they arent enough sending them into a spiral of depression or they might just go insane and hate all men(or atleast just you).
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Yeah, and don't forget high school girls are legendary for their gossipping circles...

 

If word gets around, you may never get a date again at that school!

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Originally posted by LeXX

Never play, be one of the nice guys.

meh, i learned from experience every time i was nice and a good gentleman...sometimes the girl didnt know what to do because basically...she wasnt taught that a "nice guy" is what is desireable. Yeah that may work 9 out of 10 times back in the day, but face it...society and culture have changed...nowadays its a lot harder to find a girl who will appreciate gentelman-like manners. From what ive heard and been told by girls ive known for a looonnnggg time is, they dont like to be treated like a goddess, like they arent human.

 

I think your best chances lie in being yourself. Dont try to be a nice guy, dont try to be some punk. Just be yourself and once you learn to appreciate yourself, then girls can learn to appreciate you as well. That is when you start finding yourself successful with dating girls. And if a girl cant appreciate you for being yourself, then forget her...

 

College is different, girls generally jump on anything that has a dick and isnt overweight and smelly(not ALL girls, but trust me...it can happen.) Wether you wana believe it or not, looks WILL come into play when dating girls. And Looks shows how you care about yourself, if you shower, always look nice everyday...they will see that and think that he really cares for himself and how he presents himself in public. theres so much more i can say....meh, ive got class...laters.

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