Katarn07 Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 The girl I liked I knew since I was in second grade. I didn't really start hanging out with her until 7th and 8th grade. I really liked being with her and went out as friends with some other people a few times. She is one of the 3 people from my class to have gone to the same high school as me (I had 13 other kids in my class, went to a Lutheran school so not a lot of people there...) I never got to see her there because it was so big. She is in my English class this year, but I don't hang out with her anymore... I don't hang out with any girls any more, so therefore it's kinda hard to get a girlfriend it I wanted one. I guess hanging out with girls at school is all I do... Despite the point you made earlier Darklighter, about you gaining experience, I'll still wait a couple more years.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reborn Outcast Posted February 2, 2003 Author Share Posted February 2, 2003 Wow guys thanks!!! I'll just let it keep goin and see what happens (not physically just see if it can work out.) But I can tell that I'm not in it for the "liking"... I dunno... This girl seems liek she gonna be "the one." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZBomber Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 Originally posted by Darklighter Yeah I do agree with you Rp. But at this age (teenage years), not many people are looking for those they want to marry. Dating seems to be almost a hobby to some people now though. And I think the reason why a lot of people at this age rush in with the 'hugs' and 'kisses' is because there is a lot of pressure from social expectations of today, including peer pressure. A lot of people feel obligated to do things, and get carried away in it. Sex is also an extremely controversial and popular subect nowadays, and young people are being persuaded to do it at a much younger age than before. Like 10. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pnut_Man Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 More power to you Reborn, I hope everything works out.. Now I just have to work up the balls to ask out this girl that i'm interested in... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katarn07 Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 Originally posted by Pnut_Master More power to you Reborn, I hope everything works out.. Now I just have to work up the balls to ask out this girl that i'm interested in... Thats the hard part. Still pissed at myself for being so shy. Still am... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eldritch Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 Originally posted by obi-wan13 If the person you like is older, then it's ok. It's not like you are 15 likin a 10 year old. That would be just wierd I guess. How is that true? The person that they like that's older just falls into the second category (the weird one) you described. Don't even say it's ok because he's a young guy and she's an older girl. If it was an 18 year old guy with a 15 year old girl they'd be calling the cops. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
topshot Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 There's some good in working up the courage to overcome your shyness, guys. Even if you are nervous, just walk up, say hi, and introduce yourself. Get to know each other a little bit. That's probably the best solution I know. It's like a first time noob who doesn't have friends on these forums. You just got to go in to someone's thread and say "Hello!" Stuff like that. See what I'm saying? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darklighter Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 You've got a very good point there. I really don't get that stereotypical gender division like that. Why is a younger guy and an older girl better than a younger girl and an older guy. I know there must be some reason for it, but it doesn't seem logical. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darth Talliusc Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 age is only an issue if its an issue to the two of you.... or the police hehe. some ppl may frown upon what you're doing but they shouldnt be a problem, my parents have an age difference of 12 years, in fact they met when my dad taught her in university, doesnt matter at all now though. ppl might look down upon you alot more if the ages were reversed, if the male was 18 and the female 15, but generally speaking they shouldnt have a problem with your situation. you both seem to be nice responsible people though somewhat unexperienced in some areas, have fun, enjoy being young because it really wont last. (listen to me i sound like an old man not another teenager). you may want to caution yourself from getting too attatched though, if shes already 18 then she may not be in highschool much longer, and if she should move to a different city for university then that can be a real pain. long distance relationships with highschoolers tend not to work well. so have fun and be at ease, dont obsess about the future but dont ignore it either. just....be....you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katarn07 Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 Hey, its not that I don't talk to girls, its just that all I do is talk to them at school. I don't have any really good girlfriends, just a few guy buddies, you know? I know plenty of girls. I know them pretty well, but I could never ask them on a date. I first of all, wouldn't know how because I am so shy. I am also not very social... Really gotta work on that. Its kinda funny. I talk so much to my friends, and can't to strangers. Yet I have no trouble telling you all this... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redwing Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 Originally posted by Reborn Outcast Alright well heres some 411... She was homeschooled until highschool ( ) Wow, how strange. Same here o.O Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vegietto Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 me got lucky i was on the internet when me and her meet and sent we have been bf + gf for along time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SmartDragon Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 Good luck Just don't take this too fast. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clemme w/Stick Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 Originally posted by obi-wan13 If the person you like is older, then it's ok. It's not like you are 15 likin a 10 year old. That would be just wierd I guess. Yeah, that would be really wierd since it would be pedofilia (I think.), if you like a 10 year old that is. I dont see the big problem in her being older, but she prolly want more out of the relationship as said b4 I did. Its your choice though. -Clemme Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-s/<itzo- Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 of course it does. i mean check out R. Kelly. i say if its legal its cool but if it ain't you're a fool. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
topshot Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 Here's one way that'll help you with the how , katarn07. Write out what you want to say, practice with someone a couple times, and then, when you feel you are ready, just go out and ask the person you wish to date. That should help you a bit with your being shy. It's as simple as talking with your friends. Let me ask you this: What's the worst thing that could happen if you just ask the person, whether they are a complete stranger or not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C'jais Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 Originally posted by topshot What's the worst thing that could happen? Being ridiculed in front of his friends and losing his entire social life? Not really helping, am I? -C'jais Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pnut_Man Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 To tell you the truth, i've never seen anyone get turned down..I guess Colts Neck is peaceful, lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reborn Outcast Posted February 2, 2003 Author Share Posted February 2, 2003 Hmm but I have been turned down before... And I jsut found something out (I'm not meaning to brag here) But someone jus told me that a ton of juniors would go out with me if I was older. I guess age does matter to some.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C'jais Posted February 2, 2003 Share Posted February 2, 2003 Originally posted by Reborn Outcast But someone jus told me that a ton of juniors would go out with me if I was older. I guess age does matter to some.... Sorry to ask, but what are "juniors" compared to you? Older? Younger? Do you have "seniors" as well? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reborn Outcast Posted February 2, 2003 Author Share Posted February 2, 2003 Juniors as in the grade in highschool. They are older than me (no i didn't mean age relative "juniors" ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
topshot Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 Being ridiculed in front of his friends and losing his entire social life? That's one of them. But I was thinking that if he tried and gave up, well, giving up is one of the worst things that could happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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