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Ok look. I met this girl like 5 years ago in 7th grade And I didnt know her really well...I talked to her about twice. But I had the biggest crush on her. Well I ditched out of my high school Freshman year because...I was depressed cause I knew I had no chance with her. I ended up in a group home as some of you may remember..because of some family problems. Well I never thought I would see her again, but she shows up at my continuation school like 4 months or so ago. We are like the best of friends now. I have had girlfriends in the past...but my mind always wanders back to her; she is somehow different, I dont know why. She has kind of a clue that I like her but...in her own words to this other girl I know...she thinks we would have been close enough by now for me to tell her. Well I am going to dinner or something with her and a few other friends today and I want to tell her....but its like....I don't know. I honestly think that I am in love with her, but I don't know how to tell her. So...meh...wish me luck...regardless of what happens...this is like the most important decision I have ever made. All my friends and practicly the whole school know, and I would be surprised if she hasn't heard something about it...lol....but...we shall she how this plays out. Wish me luck ^_^

 

 

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omg...cant let her read that.

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good luck :thumbsup:

 

go get the girl

 

its good that you're going for it.

 

rejection is a painful thing but you get over it. however missed opportunities will haunt you forever.

 

something worth remembering...

 

what will you regret when your live comes to an end? the things you did or the things you didn’t?

 

 

hmmm, i think this post is too serious for aresen... maybe i should mention boobies or something

 

:D

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listen to the advice of a geezer: just remember to have fun. don't try to get all serious. you're all of what, 18? do you think you're in any position to be getting married anytime soon? just try to have fun. keep it light. try to avoid doing stuff like making out or doing other sexual things. it's a sure fire way to ruin chances for the future.

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time is the best "weapon" you have.. use it wisely. more i can say. only that its all about taking time and the right time.

the one or the other way it will turn out good for you.

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err.. plus my best good luck wishes.

 

:D

 

 

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of course i could screw it by spelling boobs boops.

 

*waits for ol' gunner to hand him a boobtionary*

 

:)

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Originally quoted by Ikhnaton

listen to the advice of a geezer: just remember to have fun. don't try to get all serious. you're all of what, 18? do you think you're in any position to be getting married anytime soon? just try to have fun. keep it light. try to avoid doing stuff like making out or doing other sexual things. it's a sure fire way to ruin chances for the future.

 

*Takes off hat*

 

Amen.

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but really, what's the point of making out, kissing and whatnot when you're 18 years old, raging with hormones, in no position for any kind of permanent relationship, and not even sure about who you are?

 

making out leads to two things: sex or blue balls. the latter is awfully painful and leads the guy to try and push farther the next time. sex just complicates everything.

 

honestly, if you really love someone, you don't need to be all smoochy smoochy all the time. at 18, you're most likely kissing and whatnot as an outlet for the raging hormones, rather than out of real love for the woman.

 

passion in a relationship such as this distracts the mind from what is right and ordered, and once you start it, it's tough to think about anything else. after the first time you kiss or make out, one or both of them may spend a lot more of their time together trying to get back to that point or further, instead of concentrating on getting to know each other, etc.

 

 

anyway, i have to get ready for work. more later.

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Ike, we have to realize these people have been brainwashed to think that on dates they have to go past all the bases in order to have a good date. It's totally rediculous. They think that they need to make out, they think they got to have sex, because media and tv brainwashes them into thinking this. They have no morals! Well, we can only advice. They need to use their minds. They don't realize how much fun they can have on a date without those things. It's just being the chance with one you love, not one you are just going with to get some.

 

I have had my experiances, some I am glad for, others I regret.

 

People are so perverted, it disgusts me.

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ikhnaton you are absolutely right. there is much you can do then err.. getting down with it. it isnt that important like some people may think. its important to take the time it needs to get to know each other. but still.. a kiss is just a kiss and must not mean anything further in that direction but can say "damn i really REALLY like you girl coz beeing with you is what i love" ..

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You want "sixteen", peoples. ;)

 

I'd give advice but I'm certainly not qualified, for reasons I'm definitely not going into here :p

 

I'm reading lots of "bitter", some "nonsense" a bit of "urging on" and a dash of "button-pushing" in this thread...interesting

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Originally posted by Redwing

You want "sixteen", peoples. ;)

It may be legal, but their Dad's still don't like you.............

 

Originally posted by Ikhnaton

18 is not much better than 16. by 18, you've just learned more ways to try and persuade a girl to let you get in her pants. at 16, you could barely get into your own pants.

Nah. Have to disagree. This is the ideal time in life for these kind of things. Sh*t happens so to speak. It's a natural impulse that leads on to these things, and to hide away from it is just...well....y'know......weird.........:cool:

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well I didn't tell her... I almost did.... everyone had to go home but me and her. and she was still waiting for a ride, so like.. we talked. Its getting easier and easier...the concept of telling her. But the last thing I want is a ruined friendship.

we are going to the movies tonight; me, her, and 2 other friends....and we will probably hang out before the movie or after, so thats cool. It's weird....all this that has happened so far...I dunno whether to laugh or cry or both...^_^...but I am confused... so I think I will just sit back for now and wait for the right time...though...that might not be the best idea...

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I think it is. Take it easy, and don't spoil a good friendship. :) Oh, and enjoy yourself.

What Ike said

I really agree with this. In adolescence, it's not likely that you're going to meet up with someone you can spend your whole life with. And while you may just be having "a good time," you'll probably get hurt or whatnot, and spend what should be the best time of your life either having sex, or moping at the lack thereof. You can laugh, but are you going to be proud of that later on? You meet someone you want to marry, and all you can tell them about your teenage years is that you had a string of girlfriends? Happy thought.

 

I don't know much at my age, but I try my best not to do anything I'll regret. These are happy times for me, and I hope the same for all the young people here.

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