Tips for highschool

[RC-1183]

WHAT?! that makes no sense, if i ignore her shell love me?? WTF

[Q]

It's basic reverse psychology, man. Yeah, women are weird that way. Trust me: it works. Act like you don't give a **** and 90+% of the time they'll end up wanting you.

 

It wouldn't hurt to give it a try, would it? I mean, you wouldn't be any worse off if it didn't work, would you?

[RC-1183]

true ok ill try thanks

[Det. Bart Lasiter]

@Schmorgy i still dont get what its supposed to mean/imply

question what you're taught

 

true ok ill try thanks

have at it

 

this guy has a new woman in his bed every night true story brah

[Q]

Of course he does. All he needs to do after hitting them like that is pitch them over his shoulder and carry them off.

[EnderWiggin]

In my experience they've always been more of a PITA than they're worth.

 

........then you haven't found the right kind.

 

It's "Don't let schooling get in the way of your education."

 

Please excuse Arc

 

WHAT?! that makes no sense, if i ignore her shell love me?? WTF

 

Hey, if you ask for advice, then don't insult the advice-giver.

Oh, and I think that the girl will love you if you learn grammar and punctuation.

 

_EW_

[Adavardes]

It's basic reverse psychology, man. Yeah, women are weird that way. Trust me: it works. Act like you don't give a **** and 90+% of the time they'll end up wanting you.

 

 

If you want an emotionally masochistic girl with a black widow complex that looks for men who treat her badly, then this is a wonderful tactic. However, in my personal experience, most level-headed women, who are, again, mature in handling their relationships, just want a guy who is kind and honest, both with them and with himself. Sure, there's a level of chemistry involved as well, but most girls (worth talking about, that is) just want a guy they can call a best friend as well as a lover, someone that isn't afraid to open up and be emotional, yet can be strong and decisive when she needs stability.

 

Disrespecting or ignoring anyone is not only a horrible dating tactic, it is the least dignified thing I have ever heard of.

[Q]

 

I'm sorry, but, here in a place that I like to call "REALITY," "pathetic" is not a trait that women find attractive, and tactics based on idealistic notions just don't work. Who said anything about treating her badly? I'm not saying "Be abusive," here. Just act disinterested initially. You can and should do all of that emotional, romantic "opening up" crap later on. But all of that should be done from a position of strength, not weakness, and only when you know for a fact that she can be trusted with such knowledge and won't use it to exploit you. If you show your weaknesses too early, you're giving the woman too much of an advantage. They don't call it "the battle of the sexes" for nothing.

 

And it certainly isn't any less dignified than presenting yourself as an emotionally needy suction cup. That only attracts predators.

[Adavardes]

I'm sorry, but, here in a place that I like to call "REALITY," "pathetic" is not a trait that women find attractive, and tactics based on idealistic notions just don't work. Who said anything about treating her badly? I'm not saying "Be abusive," here. Just act disinterested initially. You can and should do all of that emotional, romantic "opening up" crap later on. But all of that should be done from a position of strength, not weakness, and only when you know for a fact that she can be trusted with such knowledge and won't use it to exploit you. If you show your weaknesses too early, you're giving the woman too much of an advantage. They don't call it "the battle of the sexes" for nothing.

 

And it certainly isn't any less dignified than presenting yourself as an emotionally needy suction cup. That only attracts predators.

 

To me, lying about your feelings and tricking a girl into doing anything, let alone dating you, is treating her badly. This isn't the stone age, mature and intelligent women prefer sensitive, yet strong and confident men over massive egos who have inferiority complexes and feel the need to assert dominance to attract women. Emotional honesty isn't a weakness, in fact, it's a strength of character that men who have to act tough and big all the time rarely posess. Besides, if women call being honest and forthright with your feelings "pathetic", then you obviously aren't dating high-quality women. And yes, it does entail less dignity, because treating a woman as you're suggesting is not only the tactic of a coward, but a poor example of the male species.

 

But neither of us are really qualified to say which is closer to being correct. I'm going to defer my argument to the women of this forum.

[Random-Star]

Going to have to agree with Addy on this one. As part of this mysterious gender known as the female, I'd like to share one of our trade secrets: We're not ADD-suffering puppies. If you ignore us, we ignore you. We're not about to yell, "TAKE ME YOU FOOL," and tackle you if you pretend we don't exist.

 

And, in this place called "REALITY", "pathetic" is what girls call guys who think we're turned on by being ignored, and it's not a trait we find attractive.

[Q]

Has it ever occured to you that women (and men) lie to themselves about what they really want because they believe that they're supposed to follow the same naive, idealistic fairy tale that you are championing? My method appeals to their subconscious and is therefore more honest than what you're proposing because in reality the subconscious is what drives us all. It is neither trickery nor cowardice because it is based on the truth.

 

And the truth is that I wouldn't want a woman who wants a jellyfish that she can wrap around her little finger. Would you? It all comes down to what people really want, not what they have been led to believe that they should want. Get it?

[Jae Onasi]

Before The Battle of the Sexes begins, let's bring this back to the discussion of tips for High School and not 'getting a girl/boy'.

[Q]

Sure thing, Jae.

 

What we've been discussing is, unfortunately, a very large part of the high school experience, but I've said all that I needed to say.