Matt-Liell Posted May 9, 2003 Share Posted May 9, 2003 Well I know some people have it worse but its pretty bad for me. Lets go back a awhile, I liked this girl in my class but I never got up the courage to tell her and then she started going out with someone else and I was left to mourn but after a while I felt better and stuff. Then I started likeing another girl and got up the coourage t o tell her, she said she'd think about how she felt about me. The next day she used the classic line of "Lets still be friends." So 4 months later the first girl had broken up with the other guy and I got up the courage to tell her about how I felt and then came the same story. Well that was really depressing for me but it got worse. I have Osgoode Shlatter disease in my knees but thats not so bad but its gets even worse. There is a Grad dance this year and I was talking to the last girl about it and asked if she'd like to go as friends. She lsaid she'd think about. That was 2 days ago, she never gave me a straight answer but she said she was upset cause she was the second person I asked. I was stunned and really confused and didn't understand what she meant. I asked and she said that the other girl (the first I worked up the courage to tell) said that I asked her 2 weeks ago on a day that I wasn't even at school. Now I have one girl upset, one girl confusing me with lying about stuff and I'm stuck here in the middle all confused with people mad at me and lying about me! And to make matters worse lately some of my friends have taken up a new hobby of insulting me. Well I'm not feeling so great as you can see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swphreak Posted May 9, 2003 Share Posted May 9, 2003 girls are confusing and make everything bigger and emotional than it has to be. Just hang in there..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greedo626 Posted May 9, 2003 Share Posted May 9, 2003 I think it's really rotten how your friends have been insulting you and that the girls you like at your school don't want to go out with you. you deserve better. you should tell your friends to stop making fun of you. but you don't want to start using your illness as an excuse to get girls or other people to like you. show them that you're strong and don't mope around like "life sucks, I wish I had a girlfriend." (I'm not saying that you do this but don't start) keep you're head up high and don't act too desparate around anyone. it may seem pretty sucky right now but it will get better. if your friend keep teasing you after you ask them to stop, get some new friends (or beat the crap out of them). you'll always have friend here at the swamp;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt-Liell Posted May 9, 2003 Author Share Posted May 9, 2003 Originally posted by greedo626 you'll always have friend here at the swamp;) I know that! Ya I've ditched most of em' and I'm not using my disease as sympathy for anything just these girls are conffusing and I want to know why one of them said I asked them when I didn't! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C'jais Posted May 9, 2003 Share Posted May 9, 2003 :: Welcome to the club Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt-Liell Posted May 9, 2003 Author Share Posted May 9, 2003 Originally posted by C'jais :: Welcome to the club Yay! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greedo626 Posted May 9, 2003 Share Posted May 9, 2003 Originally posted by Matt-Liell I know that! Ya I've ditched most of em' and I'm not using my disease as sympathy for anything just these girls are conffusing and I want to know why one of them said I asked them when I didn't! in my experience, girls can be really weird. like saying something and meaning the exact opposite. maybe she said you asked her because she wants you to ask her... maybe:confused: . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt-Liell Posted May 9, 2003 Author Share Posted May 9, 2003 Originally posted by greedo626 in my experience, girls can be really weird. like saying something and meaning the exact opposite. maybe she said you asked her because she wants you to ask her... maybe:confused: . I'm gonna email her and ask, well would that be a good idea? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greedo626 Posted May 9, 2003 Share Posted May 9, 2003 Originally posted by Matt-Liell I'm gonna email her and ask, well would that be a good idea? I don't see how that could hurt. she already told people you asked her so you probably should:p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt-Liell Posted May 9, 2003 Author Share Posted May 9, 2003 Originally posted by greedo626 I don't see how that could hurt. she already told people you asked her so you probably should:p No I mean ask her why she said that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greedo626 Posted May 9, 2003 Share Posted May 9, 2003 Originally posted by Matt-Liell No I mean ask her why she said that. oh, heh heh:p . yeah, that too. just a tip, don't sound too accusing in you're question. this all might just be one big misunderstanding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acrylic Posted May 9, 2003 Share Posted May 9, 2003 Ah, girls. Last timeI went out with one, was in 5th grade, 3 years ago. Possibly the best girl you could ever go out with....though I dumped her for some strange reason. I think I was having a bad day, or something. Anyways...Girls are WEIRD sometimes. Just keep your head up . I know how it feels to be dissed by your friends. Some of my best frinds diss me...and mean it. And it really hurts me, because I thought I was friends with them, and then they backstab me. Oh well, like C J said, welcome to the club. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt-Liell Posted May 9, 2003 Author Share Posted May 9, 2003 Originally posted by AcrylicGuitar Ah, girls. Last timeI went out with one, was in 5th grade, 3 years ago. Possibly the best girl you could ever go out with....though I dumped her for some strange reason. I think I was having a bad day, or something. Anyways...Girls are WEIRD sometimes. Just keep your head up . I know how it feels to be dissed by your friends. Some of my best frinds diss me...and mean it. And it really hurts me, because I thought I was friends with them, and then they backstab me. Oh well, like C J said, welcome to the club. You 14 too? Welcome to my club! Well I emailed her lets see what happens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acrylic Posted May 9, 2003 Share Posted May 9, 2003 Originally posted by Matt-Liell You 14 too? Yep. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt-Liell Posted May 9, 2003 Author Share Posted May 9, 2003 Well this is great, word of her saying I asked her has reached people who haven't even been at school for awhile! I also updates my location and custom title! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bob Gnarly Posted May 9, 2003 Share Posted May 9, 2003 ive been feeling the same latley Matt, though ive never asked or even thought about asking anyone in my high school out because i find it pointless i find classmates and peers constantley finding girlfriends, and latley ive been feeling insignifacent (sp?) well.....im gonna try takeing a break all summer but other then that i hope time heals me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt-Liell Posted May 10, 2003 Author Share Posted May 10, 2003 Originally posted by Black Mamba ive been feeling the same latley Matt, though ive never asked or even thought about asking anyone in my high school out because i find it pointless i find classmates and peers constantley finding girlfriends, and latley ive been feeling insignifacent (sp?) well.....im gonna try takeing a break all summer but other then that i hope time heals me Wow what say we form an official, "Confused Male" club I'll be the founder, we can make a thread and relate stories and give advice! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agen Posted May 10, 2003 Share Posted May 10, 2003 Do something unexpected...... always work for me If you have rivalry, the spoon will stab someone on the head.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt-Liell Posted May 10, 2003 Author Share Posted May 10, 2003 Originally posted by Agen_Terminator Do something unexpected...... always work for me If you have rivalry, the spoon will stab someone on the head.... Hmmmm zoodoo eh? Fine hit my firend Clayton will ya? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZBomber Posted May 10, 2003 Share Posted May 10, 2003 Heh, it happenbs to the best oif us, I suppose *recently broke up* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thrackan Solo Posted May 10, 2003 Share Posted May 10, 2003 *pats Matt on back* Its allright man I will go to the dance with you;) j/k Oh well girls as I am typing this I am IM'ing the girl I like, and she is asking me to talk to my friend who she likes:( Oh well it happens to all us good looking guys at the Swamp. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt-Liell Posted May 10, 2003 Author Share Posted May 10, 2003 Well the other girl now beleives me that I didn't ask the other girl before but she says itd be best if you go it alone. And I haven't heard back from the other girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mex Posted May 10, 2003 Share Posted May 10, 2003 Girls are evil. Pure evil. While I was at hill end these three ugly girls were in the boys room and they said to me, "Theres something in our room come in, it only comes out when its dark" so i went in there and they shut the door and turned the light off, I could smell one of them coming up to me [pe-ew!] so I got outa the fire exit as fast as I could! I knew what they were going to do.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wassup Posted May 11, 2003 Share Posted May 11, 2003 Originally posted by Captain wing Girls are evil. Pure evil. While I was at hill end these three ugly girls were in the boys room and they said to me, "Theres something in our room come in, it only comes out when its dark" so i went in there and they shut the door and turned the light off, I could smell one of them coming up to me [pe-ew!] so I got outa the fire exit as fast as I could! I knew what they were going to do.. *shudders* I've no advice, but I'll just dish out a "GOOD LUCK!" to Matt-Liell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jed Posted May 11, 2003 Share Posted May 11, 2003 I second Cjais in saying "Join the club." I know somebody with that knee problem, it can be quite painful at times. I also have some medical maladies of my own, so I feel for you Girls are tricky, Matt. In time, things will shape up. Now, if you'll excuse me, I'm off to court that gamer chick I know. ^__^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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