PR-0927 Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 O.K., get this: My friend just broke up with her boyfriend. A day later, I asked her out. She was seriously planning on saying yes. Then, at lunch, another friend of hers that many people suspected she liked, asked her out. She,"to grab the chance," said yes to him. She said that she would go out with me if he just wanted her for, umm, pleasure and stuff...and if they broke up. I don't think it's fair. What do you guys think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Samuel Dravis Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Uh...you still want to go out with this person after she showed that she didn't really care about you that much? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoxStar Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Originally posted by majinrevan O.K., get this: My friend just broke up with her boyfriend. A day later, I asked her out. She was seriously planning on saying yes. Then, at lunch, another friend of hers that many people suspected she liked, asked her out. She,"to grab the chance," said yes to him. She said that she would go out with me if he just wanted her for, umm, pleasure and stuff...and if they broke up. I don't think it's fair. What do you guys think? Well she ovbiously liked this other dude better, no offense. But did you ask her before this other guy asked her out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CapNColostomy Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Of course it's fair. Why wouldn't it be? You don't have any sort of reserved right to her. Don't get me wrong, that sucks. But I'd be glad you didn't get mixed up in that sort of horse **** if I were you. Better luck next time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StormHammer Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Don't take this too harshly...but if she's just sleeping around, then why bother? If she broke up with one boyfriend, then just goes out with the next guy she meets a day later, then she can't really be very interested in lasting relationships. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ckcsaber Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Originally posted by majinrevan O.K., get this: My friend just broke up with her boyfriend. A day later, I asked her out. She was seriously planning on saying yes. Then, at lunch, another friend of hers that many people suspected she liked, asked her out. She,"to grab the chance," said yes to him. She said that she would go out with me if he just wanted her for, umm, pleasure and stuff...and if they broke up. I don't think it's fair. What do you guys think? Well, techinically, since you were in a coma for 5 years she had to move on, right? Did you expect her to wait for you that long? I think its wrong for your evil twin to be the one to steal her though. You'd think evil twins would have some sort of code of honor. And who would have guessed that Your best friend was secretely with your ex! He KNEW that you still had feelings for her! Bastard. << >> Love is a cooky, crazy, complicated thing brotha'. :seinfeld voice: Good luck with all THAT :seinfeld voice:: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
--ZeeMan-- Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Originally posted by Samuel Dravis Uh...you still want to go out with this person after she showed that she didn't really care about you that much? best advice on it so far...and yes it is prolly hard to accept but you're gonna have to move forward Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PR-0927 Posted April 20, 2004 Author Share Posted April 20, 2004 Hahaha. No. I asked her out first. And she is a nice person, just,"wanted to grab chance with other dude." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe© Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 just try to be friends, don't take it to hard, its called pizza love. I like pizza, but pizza is just a food and does not last long, I eat my two slices and then I'm done, and go about my business (no I?m not comparing my girlfriend to pizza, nor am I planning to eat her, it is a figure of speech) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manoman81 Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Majin, man, you asked her the day after she broke up with your friend. Don't be that guy. If she turned you down for that other guy, she's looking to rebound. You would get hurt more if you really liked her and you filled that spot. It wouldn't last. Trust me, it sucks. From the sounds of it, that one (with the other guy) probably won't last. Give it time. I'm pretty sure it was Yoda that said this: Patience. Patience. Must have patience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PR-0927 Posted April 20, 2004 Author Share Posted April 20, 2004 Originally posted by Bacta Boy just try to be friends, don't take it to hard, its called pizza love. I like pizza, but pizza is just a food and does not last long, I eat my two slices and then I'm done, and go about my business (no I?m not comparing my girlfriend to pizza, nor am I planning to eat her, it is a figure of speech) Yes, I agree. That is why I am excellent friends with her. I got to know her, then I asked her out. Originally posted by manoman81 Majin, man, you asked her the day after she broke up with your friend. Don't be that guy. If she turned you down for that other guy, she's looking to rebound. You would get hurt more if you really liked her and you filled that spot. It wouldn't last. Trust me, it sucks. From the sounds of it, that one (with the other guy) probably won't last. Give it time. I'm pretty sure it was Yoda that said this: Patience. Patience. Must have patience. Dude, you are totally right. She will probably use this other dude as a mop to get rid of her sadness. Or, she'll get dumped by him for not "doing anything" with him or something stupid like that. Or maybe, she'll just dump him. I don't know. The Yoda quote actually helps (believe it or not). What's funny is that I told her about this thread. She was sorta mad, for like two seconds (she's a blonde, LOL). I told her some things that you guys said, and she said,"Tell them to get their dicks outta their @$$es." Understand, I was disturbed after hearing this, LOL. Hopefully, she'll break up with the other guy. Even she thinks that it won't last. And, she promised that she'd go out with me after they broke up. Besides, he is the first pothead that she is going out with and he is...notorious for being all over other girls. Originally posted by ckcsaber Well, techinically, since you were in a coma for 5 years she had to move on, right? Did you expect her to wait for you that long? I think its wrong for your evil twin to be the one to steal her though. You'd think evil twins would have some sort of code of honor. And who would have guessed that Your best friend was secretely with your ex! He KNEW that you still had feelings for her! Bastard. << >> Love is a cooky, crazy, complicated thing brotha'. :seinfeld voice: Good luck with all THAT :seinfeld voice:: Hahaha. You don't understand. O.K., exact story: I asked her out the day after my friend named Scott dumped her. She said that she'd reply on Sunday, but got caught up and couldn't call me. She said that she'd tell me her answer at lunch. She was about to say yes to me, when, a guy named Griffen (pothead, etc.) asked her out. She like him all along, and as a way of "grabbing at the best chance," said yes. Except, she was about to say yes to me... That, is why my day really sucked today. I haven't been very good in the whole are of getting a girlfriend and I am still not. But, what pisses me off is, that she was about to say yes. So close, so close, so close.......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET Warrior Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 uhhhh......yeah.....I think it's fairly relevant to what kind of advice I'd offer...i'm going to need to know how old you are....because this sounds like middle school issues right now.... <_< >_> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
--ZeeMan-- Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Originally posted by majinrevan just,"wanted to grab chance with other dude." *sigh* come on, that's just girl talk for wanting to get some Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kain Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 WHY DIDN'T I EVER GET ANY GOD DAMN HELP WHEN I WAS HAVING GIRL PROBLEMS!?!?!?!?!...oh yea...I didn't join until after I was dating my fiance...hehe... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET Warrior Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 jeeez Kain, enough of the complaining already, it's like you're turning into a woman.... eeehehehehehe. I keed I keed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Windu Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 It's Selena. She's gotten to him. Made him... girly. Actually, I don't think you really should go with her. There's a prime example of the kind of girls that piss me off. How do you say you like someone then turn around and say you really love another? I had an argument with a friend about that today. Glad you made this thread. My suggestion: go with another one. This one really isn't worth your feelings. Kain- jus messin foo you know we cool like that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kain Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 *punches ET and Mike in the head* All is forgiven. But if I had a dollar for everytime a situation like this has come up, I'd be rich I tellsya. I'd OWN these forums! HAHAHAHAHA!!... Heres what you do majin: Egg the guys house, right. Then send him threatening letter c/o that girl's ex. Then paintball his house. Send a few more letters. Then egg him in the street, followed by a volley of mysterious letters. Then snipe him paintball style, all the while more letters are going to his house. He'll think its her ex and run run LIKE THE BLEEDING COWARD HE IS!! AH HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! MWA HAHAHAHAHA!!... ...or wait...whatever... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET Warrior Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 I honestly think Kain might have gone insane Fleee!! fleee in terror!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabretooth Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Majin, that girlfriends friend must have definetly been Supershadow!!! He's your evil rival and wants revenge against you!!! Seriously, either I haven't understood the story properly or that girl is a brainless zombie infected by Rhett's exploding baskets. Now, I must lead my fleet of Lobsters to search and destroy Rhett... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kain Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Originally posted by ET Warrior I honestly think Kain might have gone insane Fleee!! fleee in terror!!! Only on days that end with Y. No really. Flee. I am scary. Grr. Arg. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZBomber Posted April 22, 2004 Share Posted April 22, 2004 How do you know she was gonna say yes? And, uh, find another chick...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PR-0927 Posted April 22, 2004 Author Share Posted April 22, 2004 Originally posted by ET Warrior uhhhh......yeah.....I think it's fairly relevant to what kind of advice I'd offer...i'm going to need to know how old you are....because this sounds like middle school issues right now.... <_< >_> Hahaha. No. I am not a middle school child. I am a freshman in high school. I am 14 (yeah, I am quite young, my birthday is on the 27th or September, you know, you have a deadline for what grade you can go to if your birthday is before September 30th). Liz is 14 too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XERXES Posted April 22, 2004 Share Posted April 22, 2004 Originally posted by majinrevan Hahaha. No. I asked her out first. And she is a nice person, just,"wanted to grab chance with other dude." so why are you bothering with her anymore if she told you this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET Warrior Posted April 23, 2004 Share Posted April 23, 2004 Oh..Freshman...well, you're still young, plenty of fish in the sea, yadda yadda yadda, you'll move on. Tell her to go fly a kite! Does that phrase still hold meaning? It's kinda old... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BawBag™ Posted April 23, 2004 Share Posted April 23, 2004 Go out, have a few pints, don't sweat it. Best thing ever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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