Agen Posted September 11, 2002 Share Posted September 11, 2002 It would also explain why you are always having arguments. Right let's lay off him now. Not good to do that to jsuto ne person even if their opinion varies from everyone elses. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Absurd Posted September 11, 2002 Share Posted September 11, 2002 My intention was never to belittle or argue with him. My apologies that he took offense. If he saw a psychologist he'd hear the same thing from him/her. At least I'm free. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chastan Posted September 11, 2002 Share Posted September 11, 2002 i don't think it's co-dependent to need friends. more like schizoid to think you don't. I can sympathize with phantom827 though. I kind of figure most of us "forum geeks" aren't the best socially (no offense). I hope you feel better, things can be tough but remember you are not alone. =) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agen Posted September 11, 2002 Share Posted September 11, 2002 For osme reason i'm proof that you can be popular and only be known by a nick-name and be on the comp alot It's strange but i already had a base with my friends way before i got my comp(which is al ong time ago) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chastan Posted September 11, 2002 Share Posted September 11, 2002 Originally posted by Agen_Terminator For osme reason i'm proof that you can be popular and only be known by a nick-name and be on the comp alot It's strange but i already had a base with my friends way before i got my comp(which is al ong time ago) Hehe, I guess I only speak for myself then, when I say I'm a big dork in real life, hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acdcfanbill Posted September 12, 2002 Share Posted September 12, 2002 hey me to but so is everyone i know, so it works... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhantomHelix Posted September 12, 2002 Author Share Posted September 12, 2002 thanx every1.....right now, im tryin to get out of depression (yep, its thhat bad) and i should be bak in 4 weeks full time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kstar__2 Posted September 12, 2002 Share Posted September 12, 2002 Originally posted by phantom827 thanx every1.....right now, im tryin to get out of depression (yep, its thhat bad) and i should be bak in 4 weeks full time try to make it 3:D (with the new enchanged clone-dna-change, you will be able to recover in 75% of the normal time!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BCanr2d2 Posted September 12, 2002 Share Posted September 12, 2002 Well, here are some spare passes to Clemland, and I am sure someone could spare you the cookies from an unused Official LucasForums Welcome Basket..... I agree with Absurd, sometimes you have to solve the matter yourself, in your head, before you can start to move on. Although that doesn't mean you don't need friends, it is that they are unlikely to know everything you are feeling, but you can use them to gain alternative perspectives, to help you get through this...... I spent a good 2 or so months where the last thing I wanted to do was to be at work, due to a lot of issues in my life, but with an extremely good friend, and looking deep inside my psyche, I came out the other side a lot better....... I'd prefer to have 5 good friends, than 20 wannabe superficial ones............. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhantomHelix Posted September 12, 2002 Author Share Posted September 12, 2002 well, at the moment, im looking for those 5 good friends who i can really count on....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Divine Spirit Posted September 12, 2002 Share Posted September 12, 2002 i know exactly how you feel, ive been feeling like that for a year eventually iv learnt to have an immense interest in music, thats far more reliable than friends! being happy with your surroundings is about being happy with urself, just learn to like yourself and if someone doesnt like it then f*** them! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigTeddyPaul Posted September 16, 2002 Share Posted September 16, 2002 I imagine that we have all been in your situation. I myself have never had many firends. Sure I have a lot of people that I say hi to and can have a semi regualr basis talk to but in my whole life I have only have about 14 GOOD friends at one time. 10 were guys and 4 were girls. I am in college so I have experienced some of what you are going through. During my Freshman year though I had 2 schools. One in CA (second half) and one in IL (first half) so I had no friends during the CA one. That stunk. All you need to do is give it time. All HS people do not really know what they want and if I have learned anything about HS it is that it didn't matter at all. It was nice to get good grades only for a lower car insurance bill and so your parents won't get pissed off but that is all unless you are really smart and want to get into universities then you need good grades. I ended up with a respectable 3.27 GPA all 4 years while taking hard classes and I ended up going to Community College where you needed money to get in. Women are always fickle. They get a lot better out of HS and you need to find a mature one or else it is all frivilous. Just between us and the Forums I was and probably still am a manic depressive. Always have been. I have genetic faults on both sides of my family so I can definetly understand the whole depression thingy. Freshman year is also almost always a mess. Hormones because those girls wear such revealing stuff. I can tell you that it gets better each year so like I said just stick it out, pass your classes, and try to have fun in whatever makes you happy as long as it is not self destructive or hurts others. Have fun! BigTeddyPaul Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leXX Posted September 16, 2002 Share Posted September 16, 2002 It's quite simple really...if you didn't have any bad times, you wouldn't realize how good the good times are! Keep your chin up, a smile is but a few muscles away Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clem Posted September 16, 2002 Share Posted September 16, 2002 i havent read the advice so this may be repitition lifes a bitch ....but not all the time ride out the rough patches and enjoy the smooth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rfa_vasquez Posted September 16, 2002 Share Posted September 16, 2002 i was in the same boat mate.Me thinks i was in love with this 1 girl.But sh eliked some1 else.but its all sorted now.Give it time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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