lukeiamyourdad Posted August 15, 2005 Share Posted August 15, 2005 I doubt anyone, in the heat of passion, has ever yelled out "I love your mind." At least, not unless they mean how dirty it is. Imagine the dirty talk... "I want your mind, right here, right now..." "Aaaah yes honey! Let's discuss about my personality all night long!" Physical attraction with women is in our genes. If we go back to times when men had a far simpler brain, we would see a beautiful woman as the most capable one to bear our child. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emperor Devon Posted August 15, 2005 Share Posted August 15, 2005 I am disgusted with all of you. It's stuff like this that makes me think twice about further participation at Lucasfourms. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynk Former Posted August 15, 2005 Share Posted August 15, 2005 I am disgusted with all of you. It's stuff like this that makes me think twice about further participation at Lucasfourms. What do ya want? It's the truth, looks will matter in some way or another... It's like saying that men don't have to get horny at inappropriate times during puberty (or any other time for that matter)... yeah, if you think rationally, you don't HAVE to... but we do, what can we do about it? Nothing, tis part of life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Sitherino Posted August 15, 2005 Share Posted August 15, 2005 I am disgusted with all of you. It's stuff like this that makes me think twice about further participation at Lucasfourms. Then tell me how exactly do you plan to have a physical relationship if you can't get it up? And just so you know, looks don't automatically mean a size 1 and whore makeup. Ever hear of chubby chasers? Some dudes dig the fat chicks. The thing is you have to have some level of physical attraction to a person or else you're never going to be able to have an actual relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynk Former Posted August 15, 2005 Share Posted August 15, 2005 And to add to that, it's pretty hard to continue a relationship that's based on looks alone. I mean it's a part of it but then you need that mind over matter element Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Sitherino Posted August 15, 2005 Share Posted August 15, 2005 And to add to that, it's pretty hard to continue a relationship that's based on looks alone. I mean it's a part of it but then you need that mind over matter element Well yeah, if the chick can't do 10 + 10 in her head within 3 seconds, it's just not gonna work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hallucination Posted August 15, 2005 Share Posted August 15, 2005 Is it just me, or is this thread turning into a sex discussion? Ever hear of chubby chasers? Some dudes dig the fat chicks. Thats a lotmore common than you made it sound. In a lot of poor countries fat=money, skinny=poor. So do you want someone whos poor or rich? But let stay out of tht area. Back to the sex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynk Former Posted August 15, 2005 Share Posted August 15, 2005 Is it just me, or is this thread turning into a sex discussion? So get someone to steer it back on course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RevanA4 Posted August 15, 2005 Author Share Posted August 15, 2005 ok back on topic what is the best way to tell my before mentioned friend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hallucination Posted August 15, 2005 Share Posted August 15, 2005 Behind plexiglass . I'd say directly but I have no experience in the asking a friend out area. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChAiNz.2da Posted August 15, 2005 Share Posted August 15, 2005 well, I'd suggest not to 'blindside' the girl right out of the blue... If she doesn't suspect anything, something like this will put her (and you) in an awkward position of having to decide right then & there... that usually doesn't bode well... Do you see your friend often Revan? Like a work mate, casual friend, what's the scenario? In the case with my 'ex' we worked together (seperate departments)... but we had a large group of after-work friends who would go out after work to the local pub where we would do the casual billiards, booze and bru-haha to wind down from work. Just from doing that over the months we had gotten closer (again though.. this is where conversation comes into play).. we just talked, and I'd every now & then sneak in a few 'strategic' "what do you like" questions. Eventually we found out we had alot in common.. and things just went the natural course...I asked her out on a more one-on-one date and everything clicked from then on... So, what's the scenario on how you see your friend? Very often? In a casual or professional environment? etc... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prime Posted August 15, 2005 Share Posted August 15, 2005 Looks are completely irrelevent. It's a person's MIND, not their body, that counts.The Bearded Ladies Association of America thanks you for your support... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET Warrior Posted August 15, 2005 Share Posted August 15, 2005 I am disgusted with all of you.Just like I am disgusted with ugly girls! You see? We have so much in common. How alike we are, and yet your hair is so much shorter than mine.... what is the best way to tell my before mentioned friend? My two cents on the topic is as follows. If you've been trying to drop subtle hints for awhile with no success, odds are you're going to have to be upfront about it, and quite possibly catch her completely off guard. However, you don't want her making snap judgements either, so it's a little tricky. I would suggest you be alone with said lady, might be more than ackward with others around. Then you should just bring up the topic. Say "I know this is random, but I have a confession to make." Then you ramble off how pretty she is, how you're interested in a relationship, whatever comes naturally. Then you add "You don't need to decide right now, because I really like being your friend, so no matter your decision, I hope that can stay the same, I just think we make a lot of sense as a couple" Or something to that effect. This gives her opportunity to accept or reject outright, or take her time and get back to you. You have GOT to make the first move, and you CAN'T back down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RevanA4 Posted August 16, 2005 Author Share Posted August 16, 2005 well, I'd suggest not to 'blindside' the girl right out of the blue... If she doesn't suspect anything, something like this will put her (and you) in an awkward position of having to decide right then & there... that usually doesn't bode well... Do you see your friend often Revan? Like a work mate, casual friend, what's the scenario? In the case with my 'ex' we worked together (seperate departments)... but we had a large group of after-work friends who would go out after work to the local pub where we would do the casual billiards, booze and bru-haha to wind down from work. Just from doing that over the months we had gotten closer (again though.. this is where conversation comes into play).. we just talked, and I'd every now & then sneak in a few 'strategic' "what do you like" questions. Eventually we found out we had alot in common.. and things just went the natural course...I asked her out on a more one-on-one date and everything clicked from then on... So, what's the scenario on how you see your friend? Very often? In a casual or professional environment? etc... um close friends from college we have been communicating through emails for the las year since she work third shift and I've been working first other wise we chat on msn messanger from time to time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChAiNz.2da Posted August 16, 2005 Share Posted August 16, 2005 um close friends from college we have been communicating through emails for the las year since she work third shift and I've been working first other wise we chat on msn messanger from time to time ahh...k, so you don't really have the opportunity like I had. In this situation, ET had some good advice about getting her in a more private setting. Since you two mostly talk "electronically" then you've got a perfect opportunity... Use an 'excuse' (for lack of a better term) such as how you've really enjoyed keeping in touch with her, but it feels kind of awkward and impersonal. (which I imagine it is if you truly have the feelings for her that you say)... Tell her you'd really like to see her again and ask her if she wouldn't mind getting together for lunch or a movie... (something where it won't conflict with either of your schedules)... if the day/evening goes well.. then as ET had said, tell her you have a 'confession', that although yes, you did miss talking to her in person, there is another reason you asked her out, and that you've got something else you'd like to say... if you don't think you're ready to 'confess', then you've still got the opportunity to ask her if she'd like to do it again since you both had a great time... if it didn't go that well, then at least you're better off for it by knowing and didn't put either of yourselves in an awkward position... I agree with ET though, make the first move man.. and after all is said and done, you'll be surprised on how much that weight on your shoulders just got alot lighter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RevanA4 Posted August 16, 2005 Author Share Posted August 16, 2005 ahh...k, so you don't really have the opportunity like I had. In this situation, ET had some good advice about getting her in a more private setting. Since you two mostly talk "electronically" then you've got a perfect opportunity... Use an 'excuse' (for lack of a better term) such as how you've really enjoyed keeping in touch with her, but it feels kind of awkward and impersonal. (which I imagine it is if you truly have the feelings for her that you say)... Tell her you'd really like to see her again and ask her if she wouldn't mind getting together for lunch or a movie... (something where it won't conflict with either of your schedules)... if the day/evening goes well.. then as ET had said, tell her you have a 'confession', that although yes, you did miss talking to her in person, there is another reason you asked her out, and that you've got something else you'd like to say... if you don't think you're ready to 'confess', then you've still got the opportunity to ask her if she'd like to do it again since you both had a great time... if it didn't go that well, then at least you're better off for it by knowing and didn't put either of yourselves in an awkward position... I agree with ET though, make the first move man.. and after all is said and done, you'll be surprised on how much that weight on your shoulders just got alot lighter I've been trying to get a hold of her but she has been MIA for the last 3 weeks and nobody has heard from her not even me or my best friend we where a trio back in college so that is really odd I was just gonna ask her to go get some coffee and catch up so to speek then get talking a find away to bring it up but now I'm not sure what I want to do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RevanA4 Posted August 26, 2005 Author Share Posted August 26, 2005 just an update on the girl I was talking about it seems as though she has dissappeared cuz nobody I know has seen or heard from here in over a month I've sent her emails but have gotten no response I'm getting worried cuz I've had no contact with her for a month and neither has anybody else that are friends of her's that I know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hallucination Posted August 26, 2005 Share Posted August 26, 2005 She just dropped off the face of the Earth? That's not good. Did she even leave a note or something, 'cuz something could've happened to her. Did you ask her boss, maybe she went of vacation, it being summer and all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RevanA4 Posted August 26, 2005 Author Share Posted August 26, 2005 nope no note or anything *sigh* man I miss her voice and seeing her it is actually a little strange how we became friends but that will have to wait Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ForceFightWMe12 Posted August 29, 2005 Share Posted August 29, 2005 That is...a little odd, to say the least. Very strange to have just disappeared...with no notification to anyone...not even her family? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RevanA4 Posted August 29, 2005 Author Share Posted August 29, 2005 That is...a little odd, to say the least. Very strange to have just disappeared...with no notification to anyone...not even her family? o_O when did i say her family I've never meet them she hasn't notified any of our shared friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ForceFightWMe12 Posted August 29, 2005 Share Posted August 29, 2005 I see. Just curious. Although it is strange that she told no one. Sorry, I have no real advice, as I've never actually dealt with something like this. All I can do is wish you the best of luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RevanA4 Posted August 31, 2005 Author Share Posted August 31, 2005 I see. Just curious. Although it is strange that she told no one. Sorry, I have no real advice, as I've never actually dealt with something like this. All I can do is wish you the best of luck. thanks even a phone call would be nice so I can actually hear her voice again it has been so long since we actually spoke to each other Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hallucination Posted August 31, 2005 Share Posted August 31, 2005 it is actually a little strange how we became friends but that will have to wait Well might as well tell us, we need to give this thread a good laugh . Were you robbing her place and saw she had a game system and then she walked in? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RevanA4 Posted September 3, 2005 Author Share Posted September 3, 2005 Well might as well tell us, we need to give this thread a good laugh . Were you robbing her place and saw she had a game system and then she walked in? no and I don't think i would be quite fair to her if I told you guys maybe some other time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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