Vladimir-Vlada Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 I don't trust anything that's less than 17 years of age and goes "Teeheehee." You shouldn't either. And I don't trust something that classifies itself as a superior entity. Stop calling attention to yourself. He isn't. Nobody cares for it, and quite frankly it makes you look like a complete idiot. So just shut your face and go play footsie with your "girlfried." I was waiting for you to say that. From what I've learned from your posts (that I saw, mind you), I concluded the following: YOU, kind sir, are the most inpolite man that I've had the chance to communicate in my entire life. Not only that you do not cease the chance to humiliate anyone that tries to say anything, but you also proclaim yourself as a smart person that is better than anyone. Reading what you say, is surprising and quite passinonate: Such pride... Such a high degree of pride is very strange, but also disturbing. If you continue with your 'tactic' of pointing out mistakes in everyone's actions, and pulling the worst out of people, while only proclaiming yourself; you will end up with no one ever loving you. And you will spend the rest of your days as a person, whose children will never visit him when he is put in a retirement home... And no. I am not saying that I'm a better person. I realised that I was a bad person, since the first grade of elementary school. For I clasify love as a weakness, a thing that people will use: to hurt you, to humiliate you and manipulate you for pleasure. I suffered that destiny to be manipulated by the ones close to me... And I vowed for it, to never let it happen... again. Meaning: That I will always forsake love and be as hard the core of the mattery and as cold as the depths of space... Your conviction into your qualities has blinded you to the qualities of others. And your blindness to your flaws has blinded you to the righteousness of others. I said this because I believe that by listening to others, and seeing at least some good things in others, you will make yourself better. And by saying both the qualities and the flaws of others, you will make them better as well... You can consider this flaming. I know you will, and you can ban me if you wish. I know that you will do it, because you don't listen to anyone but yourself. As far as I'm concerned, you don't even need to reconsider this and you can ban me if you wish, I won't care one bit; But be warned: The harder you strive to be better than others, the more you seal your fate: into loneliness, suffering and sadness... That is all I had to say... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lukeiamyourdad Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 He's not wrong. Ahto isn't a blog or livejournal. Remember when people spammed their feelings here? Well, this isn't the place. One or two in a while, we can tolerate, if he/she asks for advice on X subject, we can tolerate, but this is certainly not the place to show your inner feelings. It certainly can be considered attention whoring. Does it make me or anyone who's annoyed by that insensitive? Yes. That's our opinion on the matter at hand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dath Maximus Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 I agree with Vladimir-Vlada. its good seeing niner getting pwnd every no and then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aurora Merlow Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 sometimes even when you are least looking for it, life has a almost sick sense of humour, in throwing you something you would never expect. Your life may be down, but trust me it will go up, its life. I have been threw the worst of the worst, but when you think things are bad then it throws you some curve ball and life is better. All i can say is hang in there and wait for that curve ball. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tysyacha Posted November 19, 2005 Author Share Posted November 19, 2005 Thanks for all your advice, and peace to all of you. Vlad, it sounds like you have suffered through some major trauma in your life and with your relationships. If this is true, I'm sorry. If not, then I'm sorry for my mistaken assumption. I hope that you will continue to follow the path of the Light Side. As for not looking, I realize now that looking for love makes me just about as miserable as jumping on the scale to see how much I weigh. I just won't do it anymore, because if I do things that depress me, I just get more and more depressed. I'll just go write stories and take Russian lessons instead. Spasibo (Thank you), Tysyacha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renegade Angel Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 So, So, burned Rouge, So, So burned... Well then, I'll tell you all this: I'm not trying to be an attention whore, If it seemed as though I was, sorry. but I must agree, that that was the most awsome thing ever, Vlad. Thanks, but you didn't need to, because now, if you get banned I'll feel bad! But thanks for helping me out. Angel Oh, and Rouge.... (I have a feeling I'll get banned for this, but it'll be worth it) So just shut your face and go play footsie with your "girlfriend." At least I can get a date, [insert really insulting word here] *looks for smilie with a middle finger sticking up....* Close enough Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fuu Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 No, it's not. Stop calling attention to yourself. Nobody cares for it, and quite frankly it makes you look like a complete idiot. And you're all of what, twelve years old? I hardly think you've got enough experience to be giving out relationship and love advice. And it's clear that you have no clue what Tysyacha is talking about, since she's looking for companionship, not necessarily sex. So just shut your face and go play footsie with your "girlfried." Thank you! I can defintely understand the frustration. I dont care about age, you should read and discuss, not treat the forums like a chatroom. @ Vlad. I dont Think that RN bags uselessly on people, nor have I heard him <?> brag and say he's better then other poeple. He has the right to maintain the quality of the forums. Besides, you only have a miniscule amount of exposure to this person. What makes you think you know enough to make such a grandiose assertation about his life? Back on topic: @Tsyacha: If its any comfort I am living proof of what's been said here. I met my Bf after being "purposefully single" for 1 year. I wanted to be alone to get to know myself better, and was not actively looking for a relationship <or even any nookie for that matter..... >. The night we met I was going to work door at my friend's club. When I got there there was an empty seat between them. She introduced us and well.......... we have been together for 4&1/2 years now. The funny think is we had been going to the same clubs/parties for two years.....just never met him directly. It could have been fate, but I like to think It was because I let go of my lonliness and became happy with who I was, alone. Hope this is helpfull. Dont worry, from what I've read youre a nice girl...I'm sure you'll find someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vladimir-Vlada Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 Vlad, it sounds like you have suffered through some major trauma in your life and with your relationships. They made my life miserable in elementary school. I was humiliated and blackmailed by people who claimed to be my friends. I vowed for it to never happen again... If this is true, I'm sorry. If not, then I'm sorry for my mistaken assumption. It is all right. I don't mind, you people are different from those in elementary. But thanks for helping me out. I just thought that what I said needed to be said. And I tried to do it in the politest way possible. At least I can get a date, [insert really insulting word here] *looks for smilie with a middle finger sticking up....* Great work! Now we're both going to be banned. @ Vlad. I dont Think that RN bags uselessly on people You don't... But I do. nor have I heard him <?> brag and say he's better then other poeple. Oh! So that's the problem. YOU haven't heard him. So, if you haven't heard him say it, then you are sure that I haven't either. *Thinks a little...* Oh, sorry. I forgot that you have better senses than me and that I have bad judgement as well as bad goals. Hmmm... I'll just drop my life and become someones slave. Sounds like fun. He has the right to maintain the quality of the forums. It's not only a right as you call it. He didn't gain it just because of a large post count here. It is also a DUTY to why he recieved it. And maintaining the quality of the Forums is NOT proclaiming yourself and humiliating others. Besides, you only have a miniscule amount of exposure to this person.What makes you think you know enough to make such a grandiose assertation about his life? Being good in person, and being bad in business equals bad overall. So what if you are kind to the neighbours, you are ruthless to the public. If you are kind to the minor, but ruthless to the major populace, that doesn't make you a good person. It's a thing I learned about life: If you intend to be good; then be good in all things. And Fuu... I know that I'm on your ignore list. Back on topic: As for not looking, I realize now that looking for love makes me just about as miserable as jumping on the scale to see how much I weigh. I just won't do it anymore, because if I do things that depress me, I just get more and more depressed. I'll just go write stories and take Russian lessons instead. Don't worry... Love will come to you eventually and you will find happiness. You just have to be patient and it will come to you eventually. I wish you luck... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Sitherino Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 Love is blind, you should be deaf. Fixed. At least I can get a date Child, please. *goes back to hugging the crap out of Niner* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynk Former Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 Oh god, this place definately is the retro swamp... We're getting into the emo-opinionative-angry-teen phase right now. The reason Niner is so damn frustrated with threads like this is because we've already had to go through this kinda crap before. All these stupid emo kids whining about how the weight of the world crushing them and how they're so bitter so now they're complaining on the internet about it. Sure, aright, most of you are teens, etc and are at that stage, I was a teen not that long ago and understand where ya coming from. But even then this sorta "boohoo" crap annoyed the hell out of us. Seriously, if you have problems with life, perhaps it's best to talk to someone who is NOT on the internet about it. No wonder none of you can't find "love," you're all so impersonal about these things and are too afraid or can't find someone to turn to about these kind of things. Honestly, Niner is far from being an attentionwhore but a lot of you in here win gold, silver and bronze for that race. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lukeiamyourdad Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 *Hugs Lynk I love you man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renegade Angel Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 *sighs* Okay, if you wanna know the reason I come on the internet and ask? (Because I actually have been doing that lately) And wanna know why I *seem* to be the attention whore? Wanna know why I act like an idiot? Because my so called ''friends'' are a bunch of assholes. One thinks I'm his frined, while all his does his talk about porno. They all laugh at me when I ask them crap like that. They all give out the ****tyist advice in the whole f*cking universe. ZIP have any relationship related experience, so people like me are forced to ask here. Happy? Good. And if you're going to say get new friends, don't bother. Every moron in my school is that way! I have one friend who's a girl that is best frineds with my girlfriend. SHE gives me advice. She is the closest thing (besides my girlfriend) I have to a real friend. *Runs away crying* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bob Lion54 Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 ^^^ Try having bills to pay [/attempt to lighten the tone of this thread] Seriously, no good can come from this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vladimir-Vlada Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 @Renegade Angel: The only thing I disagreed with you was about the thing that you said that Tysyacha wanted to make love. All you have to do is apologise to her, that's all. And don't be ashamed of yourself for crying, it is normal for your age. But for me it unacceptional, and I stand when I am judged. *Dresses up in the military uniform, puts on a hat and stands in front of a table, which was the only lightened object in the room...* I am ready to face judgement and be punished for my mistakes, sir. And I take full responsobility for my actions... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renegade Angel Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 Sorry, Tysyacha, I guess I only read a part of your post before answering. *Slaps self* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynk Former Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 @ Tysyacha: By now you've seen that this place is full of people who can't help you. I wish you luck with your efforts though. ~ closed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue Nine Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 I hope you're not looking for it here, because sister, this is the last place you should even consider. And thank you, the populace of Ahto, for proving me right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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