ET Warrior Posted March 23, 2003 Share Posted March 23, 2003 As per Zephyr's request, I have made this thread to ask for advice about girls or love, complain about the rotten luck you have with girls or love, or just chat about girls and why you like them...... There is this one girl who's in my grade, we dated for, like, a week when we were sophomores, and it never got to go anywhere before she broke it off because she was having family troubles and didn't want a boyfriend.....but now we've been talking a lot lately and it seems like she's really interested in me again.....only problem being that she has a boyfriend......So i'm currently in the process of attempting to break them up....any hints or suggestions anyones got for meh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katarn07 Posted March 23, 2003 Share Posted March 23, 2003 Wait for their relationship to fail before tampering, dude... Patience is what is needed. I am waiting for this one girl to break up with her boyfriend. I know she will, cause they got back together in Feb, and before that, she was REALLY pissed at him. One can not say that kind of stuff about someone and seriously get back together... So like me, you must have patience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Father Torque Posted March 23, 2003 Share Posted March 23, 2003 Hmmmmmmmm, I suggest you wait until the right time comes, who knows she might really like the other guy and notice your trying to break them up. Then she will think your a jerk and she wont be your friend. Or maybe its different. Or you can just right notes and put them in each others locker. Saying its from the other person, that always works Now I need some advice, a while back there was a dance at my school. This girl who has had a crush on me for like 4-5 years(I didnt know she did)wanted to dance with me but I really didnt want to dance with her. Not to be mean or offensive but she is pretty fat. Also she has no personality and she can be a slob. I didnt want to "go out" with her. She asked me to dance and I said I have to really go pee, im sorry:p (I know it was mean but I did have to go:cool:) then she started crying, and know she hates me what should I do to have her not hate me but not like me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katarn07 Posted March 23, 2003 Share Posted March 23, 2003 Well Torque, a friend of mine who is really big himself did the same thing to a girl just like you described. She had no personality and pissed me and my friends off. He never apologized, and he really should. Just apologize to her alot. That might help. But don't take her ut to apologize, cause that would send the wrong message. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darklighter Posted March 23, 2003 Share Posted March 23, 2003 Okay, I kinda have a problem. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 months now, and we're only just starting to get to know each other well. We're 16/17, and it's both our first serious relationship. Problem is, she's having a bit of trouble getting to grips with the closeness we have. She realised how close we were and kinda freaked out, cos it's never happened to her before, and she's still kinda shy, even after two months. Is there anything I can do to make her less worried about these things, so we can get to know each other a little more? I really like her, but she's worried I'm angry at her for being so shy, when I'm not at all >_< Dunno what to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jed Posted March 23, 2003 Share Posted March 23, 2003 Darky, maybe loosing yourself up around her may help. I know you're probably already very loose, but don't be afraid to make an arse out of yourself around her. Girls like that But you probably shouldn't listen to me...I have little no experience with these kinds of things. *sighs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katarn07 Posted March 23, 2003 Share Posted March 23, 2003 Originally posted by Jedi220 don't be afraid to make an arse out of yourself around her. Girls like that Yeah, that's the truth. But I too, have no experience so... I didn't really want a girlfriend until I met this girl I like, so I'll refer to this thread too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET Warrior Posted March 23, 2003 Author Share Posted March 23, 2003 Originally posted by Katarn07 Wait for their relationship to fail before tampering, dude... Patience is what is needed. I am waiting for this one girl to break up with her boyfriend. I know she will, cause they got back together in Feb, and before that, she was REALLY pissed at him. One can not say that kind of stuff about someone and seriously get back together... So like me, you must have patience. Unfortunately, patience sometimes never works....there was another girl who i began to have an interest in 2 years ago, she was dating a guy at the time....he's a real jerk who everybody knows cheats on her all the time, but she apparently doesn't care....well anyways, she would always tell me that she would date me were it not for him.....so I waited....and waited.....and waited....until eventually i realized i was just being led on. Waiting sucks...dont waste you chances.....if a girl who you like is dating a guy, either move on, or break them up But seriously, i dont think i'll have too much trouble with my recent crush...i mean, all the time she complains about him, tells me she doesn't trust him, she says that he's cheated on her before and she knows it........i just dont understand why she is STILL with him...... As for you Torque, my advice is to tell her that you're sorry you blew her off at the dance, but you aren't interested in her any more than a friend, and you didn't want to give her the wrong signals. And i'd leave it at that, if she still hates you, so be it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katarn07 Posted March 23, 2003 Share Posted March 23, 2003 Well, I do like her, so I think it'd be better to leave her be if that is true ET. I just couldn't break them up, unless he was cheating on her. You should have done something about that, but unless he is doing crap like that, I would just let them be if I were you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jed Posted March 23, 2003 Share Posted March 23, 2003 It's bad to try to "speed up" the break up. If you wanna have a chance with the girl, she may end up resenting you for speeding it up if she finds out you were involved. *shrugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET Warrior Posted March 23, 2003 Author Share Posted March 23, 2003 The only reason I would refuse to interfere would be if I were friends with her boyfriend or if I liked him. He's a total jerk and so I dont' really care Plus in a few months we'll both be going to different colleges, so if there's ever going to be anything between us it'll probably have to happen before we graduate in a couple of months. I personally think that you shouldn't cut yourself short of happiness just because some other guy asked her first. I mean, I wouldn't go so far as to spreading rumors or being dihonest, my plan is to basically just do everything i can to show her what a neat guy I am, and make sure she knows that I'm interested in dating her. If she doesn't break up with him, then it means that she likes him more than I And my advice for your problem darky, is to just give her a little space, let her hang out with her friends a little more often, so she can talk to her friends about it......that's mine suggestion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
git_sum_stuka Posted March 23, 2003 Share Posted March 23, 2003 I kinda like this girl and we go on the same bus.At her busstop when she and the other people aboarded on, there was a guy outside with a sign out and they were wondering what it said.I knew because the sign was just right beside my window and it said "this sign is not the sign you are looking for" so I told everyone that and they dont believe and now I think She thinks that i'm some retard now.What whould I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
git_sum_stuka Posted March 24, 2003 Share Posted March 24, 2003 anybody? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheHobGoblin Posted March 24, 2003 Share Posted March 24, 2003 KILL HIM! KILL HIM NOW. MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. DO IT! DAMN YOU DO IT! I love a girl call Norma. Ugh what a wife she would make for a goblin like me and what mother to mini-Goblins. Really I love her so much tom I'm gonna tell her how I feel. I'm good friends with her so I can get to talk to her with ease... KILL HIM OR MAKE HIM WISH HE WAS DEAD OR NEVER BORN... BUT KILL HIM YOU YOU NEWBIE! opps Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gorganfloss Posted March 24, 2003 Share Posted March 24, 2003 Has anyone here ever messed up so much that instead of saying "lets be friends", she says "just aquantances"...I think Im screwed now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hekx Posted March 24, 2003 Share Posted March 24, 2003 Originally posted by TheHobGoblin KILL HIM! KILL HIM NOW. MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. DO IT! DAMN YOU DO IT! Best.Advive.Ever. I'm not going to go into my problems, but I personally feel patience is the best path to take. Either that or break out an axe and go on a killing spree. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheHobGoblin Posted March 24, 2003 Share Posted March 24, 2003 Originally posted by Hèkx Nòxú Best.Advive.Ever. I'm not going to go into my problems, but I personally feel patience is the best path to take. Either that or break out an axe and go on a killing spree. Correct it is the best advice...... PINEAPPLES *Fart* Thats 2nd best and there is alot more where that came from baby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZBomber Posted March 24, 2003 Share Posted March 24, 2003 Pft.. I just drug them, and get the information that I need..... oh, thats how I handled it when I was working with the FBI. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hekx Posted March 24, 2003 Share Posted March 24, 2003 Originally posted by ZBomber Pft.. I just drug them, and get the information that I need..... oh, thats how I handled it when I was working with the FBI. ...... "A look into the twisted mind of Z.." Available now on DVD, TV, Tape, CD, and VHS. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheHobGoblin Posted March 24, 2003 Share Posted March 24, 2003 Originally posted by Hèkx Nòxú ...... "A look into the twisted mind of Z.." Available now on DVD, TV, Tape, CD, and VHS. LMAO LOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOL GOOD ONE btw I also worked well more destroyed the FBI. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZBomber Posted March 24, 2003 Share Posted March 24, 2003 Originally posted by Hèkx Nòxú ...... "A look into the twisted mind of Z.." Available now on DVD, TV, Tape, CD, and VHS. With a commentary by Hekx Noxu! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darklighter Posted March 24, 2003 Share Posted March 24, 2003 Back on topic you crazy people!!! I agree, patience is needed...I need patience...problem is I'm very impatient...so when my patience is tested, my patientness won't last long... I need a cookie... *Waddles off* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pseudonym Posted March 24, 2003 Share Posted March 24, 2003 Become good friends with the guy. Then when yall turn 18 convince him to join the Marines with you, and as soon as he get enlisted change your mind. He'll be shipped off to Parris Island and you can move in on his girlfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azrael Posted March 24, 2003 Share Posted March 24, 2003 I'm going to list three things that someone once told me. It was some of the best advice for women I've ever gotten. [*] Never stand in line. [*] Don't chase after the bus. [*] Play it cool, like the Fonz. [/list=1] Words to live by. Works with anything. Especially the bus line. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reborn Outcast Posted March 24, 2003 Share Posted March 24, 2003 Well, remember those threads I made around last November about a girl that I really liked but shes a junior and I'm a freshmen... I'm still tryin to get her. I truly think that this is the beginning of love however because I have never stayed this devoted to getting a girl for this long. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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