Bastila Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Originally posted by Prime Unfortunately conversation is key... Agreed we girls like talking lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dufflover Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Originally posted by Bastila Agreed we girls like talking lol Obviously not to me . 21, Australian Born Chinese, no female friends at all, I am talking basic friend here. No, I don't do anything weird... I feel so unclean... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prime Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Originally posted by Bastila Agreed we girls like talking lol I'll leave that one alone. But what I ment was that it is pretty hard to start a relationship with someone and not speak to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RevanA4 Posted July 27, 2005 Author Share Posted July 27, 2005 but....but I like things to make sence usually through applying some logic but when I try to do this I basically get this:explode: as a result. and my biggest problem is actually starting a conversation, but I'm fine if they come and talk to me first:confused: how does that work and finally me + undersanding girls = Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChAiNz.2da Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Though I'm bound to get "flogged" for this (when did we get this smiley? woot!) mixing the topic of women + "logic" = there is only one absolute, and that's "there's no such thing as absolute" when it comes to women and their peculiarities... *ChAiNz.2da prepares to duck & run* --------------------- Seriously though, yeah I agree, starting the conversation is probably going to be the most difficult thing to do... but it will require some "guts", take a deep breath and go for it man... I'll leave it to the lovely ladies of LF to perhaps give some better tips on how to approach... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lukeiamyourdad Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Originally posted by dufflover Obviously not to me . 21, Australian Born Chinese, no female friends at all, I am talking basic friend here. No, I don't do anything weird... I feel so unclean... You're asian. If you happen to have no female friends whatsoever, you make your parents very happy. Mine are not happy at all. I have too many female friends for their tastes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darth333 Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Originally posted by ChAiNz.2da Though I'm bound to get "flogged" for this (when did we get this smiley? woot!) mixing the topic of women + "logic" = I could say the same thing about men Originally posted by jedigoku and my biggest problem is actually starting a conversation, but I'm fine if they come and talk to me first:confused: Then let them come and invite them for a coffee the next time it should be easier to start a convo. there's no unique formula... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pad Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 The best advice I can give you is to be confident and to be a bit humerous. That doesn´t mean you have to tell joke after joke. Just be yourself and once in a while make a witty remark or tell something funny about yourself. If you can make em laugh you are on your way. And to approach someone, most of the time I use the situation I´m in. Bump into them by accident, ask them to dance,... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emperor Devon Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Originally posted by Darth333 I could say the same thing about men Prove it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RevanA4 Posted July 27, 2005 Author Share Posted July 27, 2005 prove what I know guys that trying to apply logic to what they say equals so there is nothing to prove Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RevanA4 Posted July 27, 2005 Author Share Posted July 27, 2005 err question that whole TV thing about asking a girl if you can help them carry something doesn't work does it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darth333 Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Originally posted by jedigoku err question that whole TV thing about asking a girl if you can help them carry something doesn't work does it? err...it depends what you offer to carry (but in any event , this is just good to start a convo...) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emperor Devon Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 Originally posted by jedigoku that whole TV thing about asking a girl if you can help them carry something doesn't work does it? I guess it depends who. If it's an average woman, then you should carry the heavy stuff. If it's a feminist, she'll ask to carry an equal amount of stuff, but you'll wind up carrying the heavy stuff anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RevanA4 Posted July 28, 2005 Author Share Posted July 28, 2005 err I carry around monitors and computers all day some time even up an down stairs so unless it is like 100 lbs I wouldn't have a problem:p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dufflover Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 Originally posted by lukeiamyourdad You're asian. If you happen to have no female friends whatsoever, you make your parents very happy. Mine are not happy at all. I have too many female friends for their tastes. My brother is in that situation - but he's a hopeless and desperate romantic. Do you watch Simpsons? He has something similar to Selma's fear of not dying alone, although I won't say that extreme. Well I don't for some reason like drinking or clubbing or any big social thing like that, but even at Uni or anywhere else, there seems to be "something" with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rok_stoned Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 I could say the same thing about men ha prove it were as simply as any other animal when it comes to this, women need a tome to explain this men could do just fine with a pamplete on us, nvm maybe just a stickie step 1 step 2 repeat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hallucination Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 ^^^ tome or a library . K I have a good question: How much do a guys eyes count for when you check them out? (everyone says that I have the best eyes they've ever seen. That and I have the longest eyelashes on a guy.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bastila Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 Originally posted by Hallucination ^^^ tome or a library . K I have a good question: How much do a guys eyes count for when you check them out? (everyone says that I have the best eyes they've ever seen. That and I have the longest eyelashes on a guy.) I just think they have to ncie to look at really. No type really just nice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lukeiamyourdad Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 Originally posted by dufflover Well I don't for some reason like drinking or clubbing or any big social thing like that, but even at Uni or anywhere else, there seems to be "something" with me. Oy, don't tell me you're one of those emo asian kids... Well, look, you don't have to go drink or to clubs to find someone nice, in fact, all of the nicest girls I know, I met them at other places (coffeehouses, malls, etc.) Also, if you happen to be like a friend of mine, who by his attitude with his surrounding, rejects everyone and then whines about being alone, then, well, you know... Bu let's get out of the stereotypes shall we? Don't look for an asian girl. They're evil. When they see an asian guy like you or me, they see the word "slave" written on our forehead and not the kind of cool slave. See, most asian guys bow down to an asian girl whenever he sees one. That's because asian guys are spineless idiots. Now go get yourself a nice non-asian girl who probably won't treat you like crap. Originally posted by Bastila I just think they have to ncie to look at really. No type really just nice. What about a guy with two eyes of two different colors? Is that nice? Or intriguing? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nas77 Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 Originally posted by lukeiamyourdad Well, look, you don't have to go drink or to clubs to find someone nice That is so true. Personally I hate going to clubs to meet a girl because it's TOO LOUD TO TALK AND I HAVE TO SHOUT LIKE THIS ALL THE TIME... And conversation really is the key to meeting the girl. Jedigoku, if you go up to a girl and start asking questions about her or, even worse start talking about yourself, it's gonna seem weird and awkward because, to be honest, it is. The best thing you can talk about, and the best way to start up a conversation, is to use the one thing you know that you both have in common - you're in the same place at the same time. So just talk about what's going on around you. Make a comment about something and ask her opinion on it, for example. It makes the conversation much more innocent and natural, and she won't feel as though she's got to be on the defensive. If you go in, all-guns blazing, with an introduction, she's going to think there's a good chance you've come over to her to ask her out. She's gotta make a split-second decision about whether or not she likes you, without knowing if you're a guy worth knowing, and probably end things right there. If you strike up a more subtle conversation, she'll be able to see you're a guy worth knowing simply through having a good conversation - so when the time comes for her to make that decision, and she realises why you really started talking to her, it won't be uninformed and abrupt, and you won't get rejected (probably... okay, it's not foolproof, but it helps). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bastila Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 Originally posted by lukeiamyourdad What about a guy with two eyes of two different colors? Is that nice? Or intriguing? Now that would be soooo cool lol. About clubbing i can't stand going out clubbing or people who just get drunk at some crap club that plays dance and RnB i can't stand that music, i'd rather go to a concert, pictures, bowling or play pool somewhere, just don't like clubbing or people who get drunk at clubs as most of the men are idiots who call you bird and are to laddlie. I go to a rockie bar down my road now and then as they have good music and now idiots. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RevanA4 Posted July 28, 2005 Author Share Posted July 28, 2005 Originally posted by Bastila Now that would be soooo cool lol. About clubbing i can't stand going out clubbing or people who just get drunk at some crap club that plays dance and RnB i can't stand that music, i'd rather go to a concert, pictures, bowling or play pool somewhere, just don't like clubbing or people who get drunk at clubs as most of the men are idiots who call you bird and are to laddlie. I go to a rockie bar down my road now and then as they have good music and now idiots. hehe that is pretty much my thought of going out:D But I'd rather go fishing or something:cool: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bastila Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 Originally posted by jedigoku hehe that is pretty much my thought of going out:D But I'd rather go fishing or something:cool: Never been fishing before i hear i can be boring lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RevanA4 Posted July 28, 2005 Author Share Posted July 28, 2005 fishing can be boring if ya don't have a line in the water. I find when I go fishing I tend to loose track of time:cool: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lukeiamyourdad Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 Originally posted by Bastila Now that would be soooo cool lol. About clubbing i can't stand going out clubbing or people who just get drunk at some crap club that plays dance and RnB i can't stand that music, i'd rather go to a concert, pictures, bowling or play pool somewhere, just don't like clubbing or people who get drunk at clubs as most of the men are idiots who call you bird and are to laddlie. I go to a rockie bar down my road now and then as they have good music and now idiots. I am glad you find guys with two eyes of two different colors to be cool Those are great ways to spend the evening. I wish I lived in England Fishing can be quite boring or quite fun. Besides, fishing is more of a guy only thing. Fishing =/= girls. No offense to any feminist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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