Age in Relationships

[Elessar-Eärfalas]

hey guys, id just like to get some advice from ya'll. im 16, and in grade 11. i like this gurl in grade 9 but shes 15...she failed grade 3 [lol dont laugh:p] shes really cute and i like her alot, shes all mature and everything so thats koo and thats why i like her. but, the thing is, everyone at skoo is raggin on me sayin that shes to young and everything. see i went out wit this gurl for 2 years and she was my age, but we broke up about 5 months ago. so everyone knew me wit that gurl, and when we broke up everyone just started hatin on me when i went with this new gurl. see my friends r kool, like the guys, they think shes hot any everything, lol. but its all the other gurls in my grade...there all givin me bad looks when im with her and stuff...it sux, wut should i do?

btw, im not goin out wit her yet, were just kinda...seein eachother.

[Bilbo Skywalker]

pfft age shmage, i am 22 my last two girl friends have been 17, it doesnt matter, as long as its legal! hehe.

 

 

seriously, as long as you like each other, and get on wll together , then age isnt a factor.

 

 

 

 

[Elessar-Eärfalas]

ya i kno, its not really the age thing for me, but for everyone else it is...there all hatin on me, lol. especially my old girlfriend of 2 years, she looks at me and just laughs...its retarted, and all her friends hate on me now and we all used to be such good friends...

[Pad]

after a while age doesnt mather anymore. ive been dating girls who were 4years younger then me (im 22).

 

as u like here and she likes u, thats all that matters.

 

and besides once u become 20 or more, the age different is even less important.

[Kstar__2]

she is 15 and you are 16 and you talk about age difference:eek: shame on the gurls in your grade! i like a girl that's 13, i'm 14 myself, so that's why i'm surprised, because no-one says something about that (in my grade)

[Elessar-Eärfalas]

well you see this gurls in grade 9, and im in grade 11...but like i said before she failed grade 3 so thats why shes a grade under...thats why people r sayin stuff, they think shes 14 and just a young'n...thats why i get flamed, lol

[TheHobGoblin]

Forget about them they are just jealous becuase they can barely get anywhere. Just go on and think their not there. I used to like this girl and then everyone gets angry and try to get in fights with me (won them all). Just go on and if they wanna fight Fight with all of your might. They're less of a importance just go on and pray that it works out.

[Elessar-Eärfalas]

lol well the guys r bein kool they all like her and think shes hot and stuff, but its the gurls...so i dont think ill be fightin any of em with all my myte... lol but ya, i am tryin to forget bout em but when im with Natalie [the gurl] i always think bout them all and they all stare and **** it sux.

[Kstar__2]

same here, she is in the first grade, and i'm in the thirth grade (dutch system, high school is = first grade: 12/13, second grade 13/14, third grade 14/15, enz)

[ET Warrior]

When i was in 11th grade i dated a 9th grader for 2 months. I was 16 and she was 14. Nobody had any problems with me and her.......i think all the girls are just being the way that high school girls like to be, back stabbing b****es......but that's just my opinion

[Elessar-Eärfalas]

oh so your in the same position as me then? if i understand the dutch system correctly, lol. is that rite? like shes 3 years younger then you?

[Taos]

Once you get out of highschool nobody cares.....I'm 26 and my gf is 23. When I was 23, I was hanging out with a girl who was 19. It happens.....

[Kstar__2]

no, she is 13, and i'm 14, but she recentely was 12.

 

see:

first grade: 12/13,

second grade 13/14,

third grade 14/15.

 

but they all think she's cool and stuff, none of them are giving me bad looks or make remarks

[Darklighter]

Well, obviously age seems to matter a lot less in relationships as you get older, but that shouldn't hold you back from going out with someone if you really like them. Keep in mind what Bilbo said though, just make sure it is legal!

[Elessar-Eärfalas]

lol ya good call!

i agree with that but what should i say to all the gurls?

[Bilbo Skywalker]

tell them you know why they dont want you to see the other girl, its because they want you for themselves!! they are jealous!!!

 

 

and let them know that they'll get their turn someday, just be patient :D:D

 

 

 

or umm... just tell them its only a 1 year difference for gods sake, tell them its none of their business, you and this other girl like each other, so whats it go tto do with them!

 

 

 

[Clem]

<searches for 1 ... JUST 1 .... word from elessars original post ... in the dictionary> ... no luck

 

only jesting!

 

its only 1 year for gods sake .... tell the girls to grow up

[C'jais]

Please stop with this "gurl" business. It looks as if you're gurgling while pronouncing it.

 

Sorry.

[Rogue15]

umm yiou know what i don't really give a ****, wait til she's older, 15 [years old, not referring to myself since i'm 18] is too young to be dating, imo....

 

and besides, she's probably not interested in you at all.

[-s/<itzo-]

heres my motto:

 

 

"old enough to pee, old enough for me."

 

 

no i'm just screwin with ya. ok heres the real deal.

 

 

theres an extent on age in relationships.

 

as long as she's legal its all right. and if you're 20 and you're going out with a 17 year old, thats ok. but if you're 20 and you're going out with a 15 year old, thats going over the line. theres an extent but you go over board.

[Rogue15]

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[BlackDove]

Ok these posts are making me ask, did any of you ever had sex?

[Rogue15]

see what i mean!

 

no, i'm waiting until i get married. I are cool.

[Skate Boy]

Originally posted by Rogue15

no, i'm waiting until i get married. I are cool.

 

Me too. We is cool.

[BlackDove]

NEEEEXT...PLEEEEASE...