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Originally posted by Emperor Devon

About what?

 

@Bastila, saying a blad person has a good hiardo probably wouldn't be a good idea. Different compliments work on different people.

 

@Devon You wouldn't say it if it they were blad common sense would tell you that

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LOL, I get it, the whole misunderstanding resulted from :eek: DEVON MISSPELLING A SIMPLE WORD LIKE BALD (I thought he was crazy about correcting english:D)

 

But if I really though it looked good, then I guess I'd find some way to complement her, although, bald is a little strange to me;)

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its good to see that every1 took my remark that compliments go a long way to heart but please think about them as many have stated, the compliment must be appropreit and applicable in that instance and avoiding dire situations is as easy as assesing your situation rather than charging headlong into a relatively fragile verbal engagement.

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Originally posted by Korfredonn

before talking about music or any subject, how could we strike up a conversation?

There's no secret recipe...just be natural and use common sense. Try to find out about her tastes, interests, take some interest in what she's doing however, if she dances ballet, that doesn't mean you have to dance ballet too... :D

 

And don't talk about your car forever so that the girl just feels like she was an ornament for your car... I've seen that :rolleyes:

Originally posted by lukeiamyourdad

If you want to date an asian guy (hypothetically), what would you look for?

 

And if all you can find to say is smart and good at math, I'll kill you.

Asian guys can be sexy! Seriously, I'd check if he's smart and good at math... :p (j/k)

In reality, I'd check the same thing as in any other non-asian guy: if he has comparable tastes and interests, some sense of humor, if the lifestyles would be compatible, etc...and err...the height as I'm 5'10" :o

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Originally posted by jedigoku

but....but... I can't even get that to come out

 

note: just because i'm pretty open on the web doesn't mean i'm that way in person:(

Hey man, take it from me... a once "used to be shy guy".... sometimes you just have to "go for it".. shyness is understandable... but you'll get passed up for alot of things in life unless you start to speak up...

 

Don't let her "get away" just because you hesitate on wether she might ignore you... you'll wind up regretting it...

 

The worst she'll do is say "no" or shrug you off non-chalantly... if she's rude about it, such as "bugger off weiner".. I think your perception of her may change real quick anyways :p

 

In either case, move on.. if she's not interested, then she's not interested... You'll know the difference between her being "playfully coy" and her being "get away from me"... hehehe

 

Take the chance, it's the only way to be sure. Plus, confidence is an attractive feature in itself. Though not to the point of egotism ;)

 

Just (for lack of a better word) "scope her out" and the scenario, before you approach her. What is she doing? Where are you at? Try to find an appropriate subject to strike a conversation with... and then keep it at conversation. If things go well... then you can 'suggest' going out for coffee / light lunch.. for yes, you guessed it, more conversation. Get to know her... see if you (and/or her) are still interested in a more involved 'date'.

 

Yeah, I know... easier typed than done... but it's a path worth taking...

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Originally posted by ChAiNz.2da

Just (for lack of a better word) "scope her out" and the scenario, before you approach her.

Note that "scope" and "stalk" are very different things. :)

 

Originally posted by ChAiNz.2da

Yeah, I know... easier typed than done... but it's a path worth taking...

The worst she can do is say no, and in that case, so what? It doesn't make you a bad person, and it doesn't mean they will all say no. Everyone has faced rejection at one point or another. Yes, it can be disappointing, but that's a part of life. :)
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