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Heres a different kind of a question for you guys. . .do you all believe in True love? :heart3: ya know, love at first sight, your knight in shining armor, your princess in the window.

I'm talking about deep, meaningful, head-over-heels, his and her towls, lets grow old together, L-O-V-E.

What do you guys think? :3heart:

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Well I really don't know if it exists in real life, due to my parents being divorced and getting turned down by a girl.
You shouldn't base your thinking on just 2 experiences. Look at all the happily married people there are out there.
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Heres a different kind of a question for you guys. . .do you all believe in True love? :heart3:

 

I do not believe in love at first sight, but I do believe in true love. Simply seeing a person is not something that should inspire love. At that point, all you have to admire is their body. Building a relationship off that is no basis for love to flower upon, but that is wandering a little away from the point.

 

To tell the truth, I really don't see it too often, except in movies and games.

 

Look it up in any book, and you'll find a large percentage of the country is married. Surely not all of those marriages are unhappy ones.

 

If that can't convince you, I know that there are a few married couples here. I imagine they could tell you otherwise.

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Heres a different kind of a question for you guys. . .do you all believe in True love? :heart3: ya know, love at first sight, your knight in shining armor, your princess in the window.

 

What do you guys think? :3heart:

well, i can believe it to an extent, but the issue is finding that one person first. love at first sight and so on and so forth is romantic and all, but its just not practical. i prefer to get to know the woman that i initially think i want to date before i ask her out. its a good system that saves me from a lot of unwanted hassle of dealing with a relationship that isn't going to work.

 

so far, i haven't found my woman, but i know that she's out there somewhere. :)

To tell the truth, I really don't see it too often, except in movies and games.
that's because you aren't looking for it. whenever you expect other relationships to turn out like the ones that you've personally given examples of, then all you'll see is relationships going sour to the point of no return. the fact of life is that loving relationships between two people are a heck of a lot more common than you think. change your perspective, and you'll see a different picture. ;)
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well, i can believe it to an extent, but the issue is finding that one person first. love at first sight and so on and so forth is romantic and all, but its just not practical. i prefer to get to know the woman that i initially think i want to date before i ask her out. its a good system that saves me from a lot of unwanted hassle of dealing with a relationship that isn't going to work.

 

That's cool Sting.

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To tell the truth, I really don't see it too often, except in movies and games.

 

Then you’ve never seen it at all. The movies will lead you to believe love means thing like “Love means never having to say your sorry" and so forth. That is pure B.S. love means you’re going to asked forgiveness not because you want the person not to be mad at you any longer, but because you’re truly sorry for your actions. Love is doing things for no other reason than making the person happy or their life a little easier even if it provides no benefit to you. When both people feel that way at the same time then you have true love. It is very rare, but does happen.

 

I’m from a broken home too, but both my parents eventual found the love of their lives and had happy wedded life’s. I believe there is someone for everyone and we will all eventually meet our soul mate. The problem is knowing when it is them and when its just another false alarm.

 

I do not believe in love at first sight, but I do believe in true love.

Very well said.

 

I believe it should be called lust at first sight.

 

Heres a different kind of a question for you guys. . .do you all believe in True love? ya know, love at first sight, your knight in shining armor, your princess in the window. What do you guys think?

 

To answer the question: Yes, I believe in true love. No, I do not believe in love at first sight. I’m not going there with knight in shining armor and I don’t want my princess in any window.

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coditional true love is something i believe in. romantic true love, i believe in that too but i think its quite rare and it doesnt appeal to me...yet.

 

It's more common than you might think, although most of the people who experience it are newlyweds.

 

(jk, ive never kicked a puppy)

 

That one was a little hard to believe.

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Jimbo and I have been married 16 years now, so I'd have to say I believe in true love. And I'm the unromantic pragmatist in the family. :)

 

It's not a fantasy world kind of love. Sometimes it can be tough. I won't say we haven't had problems--anyone one in any kind of long-term relationship is being dishonest if they say it's problem free. However, the happy times greatly outweigh the bad.

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so far, i haven't found my woman, but i know that she's out there somewhere.

maybe it's because you should really be looking for that perfect man :xp:(I kid, I jest)

 

*runs screaming, ahhhh don't hurt me stinger*

 

ok, back on topic, I think it's funny how many people are getting way to analytical about this subject. I believe everybody has someone out there for them. I mean think of all those people out their with the freakiest fetishes ever, that has to be proof that no matter how defective you are, somebody will find your abnormally sized... ears attractive. Personally I think a female RedHawke would be perfect for me :xp:

 

Edit: @ Emperor Devon - I wasn't really thinking of his avatar feminized I was thinking more of his KotOR recruitment mod, but now that you mention it...

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Personally I think a female RedHawke would be perfect for me :xp:

 

Yet another odd image that I wouldn't have pictured if I never registered at Lucasforums... A feminine version of his avatar is strange indeed, to say the least.....

 

It should be interesting to see how he responds to this....

 

Yeah, it will be! :xp: -RH

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Well I really don't know if it exists in real life, due to my parents being divorced and getting turned down by a girl.

 

Wow man, you have it really bad, I feel so sorry for you, dude. I'm gonna make toast, you want some? Should I sharpen it for you?

 

 

I believe in true love, and not only because it's real.

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I don't know if i should even answer this. I have never been in love or never had a relationship with anyone for that matter. It's not because i have been turned down or anything, it's just something i have never pursued. I like to believe im waiting for the right person, the one i will fall in love with, although that could be just wishful thinking on my part. I hav'nt seen alot of stereotypical romance and love in the people i know so i really can't begin to gauge what love actually is. Id like to think id be extremely romantic, as in propose to someone on the top of a mountain at sunset in Hawaii rather than in the pub with a bunch of drunk morons cheering you on.

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Id like to think id be extremely romantic, as in propose to someone on the top of a mountain at sunset in Hawaii rather than in the pub with a bunch of drunk morons cheering you on.

I'm tempted to put that in my signature. Isn't that how we all feel ;P

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As i have had no relationships previously, it technically means i have been saving up to do this since i came out of the womb. I think it's a good target on the Herbie agenda. Plus it's nailed two of the "Fifty things to do before i die" both in one day, go to Hawaii and get engaged.

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Heres a different kind of a question for you guys. . .do you all believe in True love? ya know, love at first sight, your knight in shining armor, your princess in the window.

 

True love and love at first sight are two different things. The latter can grow into the former, though. And yes, I do. I would have never believed it if it hadn't happened to me, but Mrs. Mace and I just came back from celebrating our 7th wedding anniversary in Galway.

 

Well I really don't know if it exists in real life, due to my parents being divorced and getting turned down by a girl.

 

1) That's the trouble with marriages. There's no guarantee even the best will last.

2) Dude, you don't have even the slightest idea how many women/girls have sent me down in flames over the years. Part of whole game is learning to deal with rejection with your ego intact and getting up off the floor. You will be shot down more times that you score. There's no way around that. It's like finding a job. It's a process of no, no, no, no, no, YES. The yesses are the ones you'll remember in the end, believe me.

 

I don't know if i should even answer this. I have never been in love or never had a relationship with anyone for that matter. It's not because i have been turned down or anything, it's just something i have never pursued. I like to believe im waiting for the right person, the one i will fall in love with, although that could be just wishful thinking on my part.

 

Turn off your computer immediately and get off your butt, go outside. Eat healthy foods, go to the gym regularly, and bathe every day. Then join clubs, check out your community, and GO MEET SOME CHICKS!!! NOW!!! My god man, you MUST start getting used to less-than-perfect romance settings and situations so you'll know how to handle the awkwardness of the real thing. Go out and get laid with everyone. That's right, tonight, go tell your friends, "Hey guys, I wanna get laid tonight!" and have them help you find suitable quarry. It's even better if she's not the woman of your dreams, because you need practice before you meet her. If you don't, you'll be walking down the street one day and then you'll see her. If you're still carrying around all these fanatasies and expectations in your head, and if you haven't had enough experience meeting/courting/seducing women, you'll wind up either leaping all over her and gibbering about Hawaii, or turning into some quivering stalker who's too petrified to do anything other than lurk in the shadows outside her place of work. I've seen guys who let their basic romantic/sexual needs bottle up through the prime of their lives. It's not a pretty sight, man. You do NOT want to wind up like them.

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