Weapon X Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 I think i have good friends of the opposite sex (i'm a straight male), they all know i'm straight and everything, but me, my 3 best friends out of the girls i know, and 2-3 of my best guy friends just sit and have wierd convos, about EVERYTHING, i think that's the sign of a good friendship, when you can talk about anything whether alone w/someone or in a group, like one time me and another guy were at the pool w/all 3 of them cuz one was working ticket counter and they just told us what it was like to be a girl, all the PMS crap and basically everything, some**** i didn't want to know til later when i had to, and then today i showed up at this girls house and it was me, and the 3 girls and one was wearing shorts and right there, just PHOOM, down came the shorts and she changed into pants, she wasn't wearing underwear either, and she didn't care i thought that was cool and a sign of her knowing that i know my limits and trusting me not to stare, the other 2 girls were like "oh my god i can't believe she did that'' but when i realized what was going on i repeated one of my sentences like twice, and she looked up after she was done "ok let's go!", what are your guys's view's on good friendships and **** like that? and what's the wierdest thing that's happened, i.e. my friend changin right in front of me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
obi Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 I think that when you start insulting each other, and then you both laugh about it, it's good friendship. The weirdest thing one of my friends have done to me is Kneed me in the face. (don't ask) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Absurd Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 Originally posted by ep2 Anakin (i'm a straight male) Why does it matter what your orientation is? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ratmjedi Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 Well I think that you are good friends with someone when you talk about aspects of you're life that you don't with other people. Like there are people that you can talk about relationships, youre problems and stuff like that. I am in JROTC and I see girls change right in front of me and vice versa. Seeing someone change isnt that big of a deal, just a tease. Good friends tell you stuff that you don't know about their life or stuff that they never told anyone before. You ask each other for opinions and advice. You are also are there for them when they need someone to talk to or when you need somoene to talk to. Good friends are people that you can depend on and vice versa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyrion Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 Originally posted by obi-wan13 I think that when you start insulting each other, and then you both laugh about it, it's good friendship. Hmmm...... *remembers JKII game* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-=|xXx|=- Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 yeah cause i only got 3 good friends, like GOOOD phriends. yeah like my friend Max, we get along great, we diss on eachother and other people and laugh about it. same thing with Chris, and Ben. sometiimes Nick too but then nick can get ****y and turn into a b-tch, but he's still cool. and i got a few good friends who are girls, like Tara, Lisa, Jenn, and I all talked about masturbating, when we do it, ya kno stuff like that. so i figured ya kno girls who open up like that to ya have got to be good friends with you(or their just skanks), but these are nice clean girls. and 1 of them happens to like me. and JUST today we went to the movies to see xXx, ya kno stuff would have happend, but she brought her friend incase i didnt show. but ya, its cool to have friends who are girls who you can talk to about ANYTHING are just the coooolest people in the world, cause they kno, and you kno, when you talk about sex and masturbating stuff like that you are getting aroused. so pretty much... its all good:) edit- And by the way, your story about girls dropping their pants infront of you is believable in my books, its like those 1 in a 1,000,000,000 things you get to do in life. trust me, they've happend to me too;) so i kno what its like if people say "oh you're soo full of ****, no girl would do something like that" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NerfYoda Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 Dude you are so in! Serously that just means shes comfortable enough with you to change her clothes in front of you. I'd say she considers you a friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lunatic Jedi Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 Would it be a sign of good friendship when your friend tries to kick you in the crotch regularly, then starts giggling hysterically. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kstar__2 Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 Originally posted by Lunatic Jedi Would it be a sign of good friendship when your friend tries to kick you in the crotch regularly, then starts giggling hysterically. don't think so:) i got two really good friends, and alot of normal friends one of my best friend is a girl, but we just talk about everything, and also diss eichother all the time dewd, you roxor! can we change lives:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C'jais Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 I dunno, tough call - I don't think it's necessary to be able to talk about ANYTHING to be very good friends... I'm sure there are some things you have difficulty talking about with even your best mates.... Then again, the only female friends I have are online so.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lsd|Wee Bitch Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 True friends help you hide the bodies.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darth-Nasty Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 Originally posted by lsd|Wee Bitch True friends help you hide the bodies.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weapon X Posted September 8, 2002 Author Share Posted September 8, 2002 you don't HAVE to be able to talk about anything but when you DO it does mean they trust you, i never thought about the secrets and dissin on each other then laughing about it, but yeah same here, it all constitutes to a good friend ship, my orientation was important cuz i have the strangest feeling girls would be more comfortable changing around a gay man than a straight one, cuz they KNOW the gay guy isn't interested, but this girl is HOT! but she has a b/f so i'm not gonna move in on it, and i'm NOT gonna tell him about it cuz he was paranoid before he left (for the Marines i might add) and i think he'd flip if he heard that:D and how did you manage the ROTC thing? i'm in JROTC too, and, yes it's kinda happened before but not alot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darklighter Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 A good friendship I think is based on trust...if someone is a very close friend, you are able to trust them and tell them anything really...that is what I think...trust is the most important aspect in a friendship/relationship... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Truthful Liar Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 Originally posted by Darklighter A good friendship I think is based on trust...if someone is a very close friend, you are able to trust them and tell them anything really...that is what I think...trust is the most important aspect in a friendship/relationship... And I don't think it mainly constitutes trust in the sense of showing bodily features. True friendship is meant for the cultivation of a relationship that is actually deeper than most g/f-b/f types nowadays, it involves trust on the basis of knowing a person's real internal self, not just the outward appearances you normally see. Then again, just my opinion. Cheers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darklighter Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 Originally posted by AB_Legion And I don't think it mainly constitutes trust in the sense of showing bodily features. True friendship is meant for the cultivation of a relationship that is actually deeper than most g/f-b/f types nowadays, it involves trust on the basis of knowing a person's real internal self, not just the outward appearances you normally see. Then again, just my opinion. Cheers That's what I meant Legion lol Relationships nowadays are mainly formed now by the look and outward appearance of ppl...that is why so many couples do not last long, because they go solely for looks and not the actual person, who they are...I know I'm generalising a little bit lol, but I'm just saying... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agen Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 Word of warning: if things eventually go sour, theb prepare for the worst if you told them alot of things. What a party pooper i am eh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weapon X Posted September 8, 2002 Author Share Posted September 8, 2002 what? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Truthful Liar Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 Originally posted by Darklighter That's what I meant Legion lol Relationships nowadays are mainly formed now by the look and outward appearance of ppl...that is why so many couples do not last long, because they go solely for looks and not the actual person, who they are...I know I'm generalising a little bit lol, but I'm just saying... I know I was just adding on abit, as you might have noticed at the beginning "And..... so and so" And you know what, it's so true. People haredly get to know the real person inside and are already in bed the next day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
princessliar Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 You know you have a good friendship if the person in question gets you something other than sparkly bath salts at Christmas. Especially if you're a guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Truthful Liar Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 Originally posted by LadyGaladriel You know you have a good friendship if the person in question gets you something other than sparkly bath salts at Christmas. Especially if you're a guy. (I haven't seen you on the boards before and since you're new this is my way of saying hi and welcoming people. So I apologize if you've already recieved this before from someone else ) Welcome to the forums, LadyGaladriel!!! Please accept this complimentary Lucasforums welcome basket filled with tons of goodies which you can snack on while browsing through our forums!! :D This place is called the Swamp, home to any type of threads as long as it isn't spam. Valley of the Jedi consists of more serious threads that concern Jk2, and I'm sure you can figure out the others :D Cheers and I hope you enjoy your stay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
princessliar Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 Thanks for the welcome AB_Legion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agen Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 *gives galadriel a novelty spoon replica welcome gift* Always a pleasure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sivy Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 hello Lady Galadriel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kstar__2 Posted September 8, 2002 Share Posted September 8, 2002 hi, a little advice: avoid the right people, you'll know who i mean j/k:D have some cookies! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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