Reborn Outcast Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 Ok where to start... Alright... there is this really nice girl that I like A TON*can't say love because i'm to young *. We talk and hang out sometimes and she goes to my church as well as my school so we see each other a bunch. She doesn't know that I like her yet and I need HELP on how to kinda.... get her . I havn't had much experience with girls and I don't really know what to do so any help AT ALL would be gladly received . Oh I don't know if this will cahnge the circumstances but she is a junior in highschool and I'm a lowly freshmen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyrion Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 Um...Cant really help you there,I still need help myself as it is... Ask obi.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sivy Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 drink a bottle of whiskey and do it! or just do it! tell her how you feel, life's too short. confidence is the key, it's always the confident people that get what they want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-s/<itzo- Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 i agree with siv.. just go for it. i mean what can you loose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elessar-Eärfalas Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 ...yah i guess sivy, but i mean not alot of gurls like it if your really ****y. it depends on the gurl really how to make your approach. just act like you like her when your together, like kinda flirt with her and stuff, shell like that if she wants you back or not, start like that. just keep it real and act yourself, gurls like that to. dont tell her yet until u think she wouldnt mind, cuz outa the blue would scare her! lol, thats just what id do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sivy Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 Originally posted by dAno ...yah i guess sivy, but i mean not alot of gurls like it if your really ****y. it depends on the gurl really how to make your approach. just act like you like her when your together, like kinda flirt with her and stuff, shell like that if she wants you back or not, start like that. just keep it real and act yourself, gurls like that to. dont tell her yet until u think she wouldnt mind, cuz outa the blue would scare her! lol, thats just what id do. It’s a question or balance, you’re right if you’re too confident you will appear c()cky, you need to find somewhere inbetween. But this is what to remember, rejection hurts, but you get over it. If you do nothing and miss your opportunity then you will look back and think, oh if only and you’ll end up torturing yourself for ages. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reborn Outcast Posted November 29, 2002 Author Share Posted November 29, 2002 Thanks everyone... I'm gonna have to do it someday otherwise I am gonna look back and kill myself if I don't do it. Who knows... maybe she even likes me... scary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue15 Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 do drugs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reborn Outcast Posted November 29, 2002 Author Share Posted November 29, 2002 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reborn Outcast Posted November 29, 2002 Author Share Posted November 29, 2002 Sorry for double posting but I just wanted to say that I will be posting frequent "updates".... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZePhyR Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 Post this here instead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pseudonym Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 When I saw "girl problems", I thought this was going to be a thread about menstruation.... Boy, what a relief. If you already talk to her, then asking her out should be a sinch. What's really hard is trying to get with someone who doesn't even know you exist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET Warrior Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 Well, i'll give you my strategy for getting girls. Note that this method has only failed me ONCE, and that's because the girl that i was dumb enough to ask is a very superficial stuck up ***** who wasn't worth my time. (that's not just a biased opinion, most others agree with me) But anywho, this is what i do. Since you've already got the advantage of being around her a lot you've got a better chance. Some day, when you're talking to her, you just say, "you know, i was thinking that maybe if you weren't doing anything this weekend we could maybe go see a movie or something....." Edit - make sure that you bring this up towards the end of your conversation, so if it doesn't go well you can just leave and not stick around and have it be all ackward I know, very detailed and complex, just try your best The age difference might pose a slight problem, as most high school girls seem to think that dating such a younger guy is a bad thing, but you migh luck out. I have a friend..(who happens to be my ex girlfriend) she's a senior and she's been dating a freshmen friend of mine for about a month now i think....(damn freshmen, stealing my girlfriend ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chewbacco Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 I have herd why us boys have a hard time asking girls out. The biggest thing is that your brain can't think straight and it demands You-know-what-I-mean. Don't be ashamed for being scared to ask her. It is a stage that goes through with our lives. Hi hopes for ya man. It's a boy thing;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DiRtY $oUtH™ Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 Let me just say this... The word Girl and the word problems are synonyms..... LMAO:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ratmjedi Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 I have a friend who is a Senior and she is dating a Freshman. They both go to the same church and they have a lot in common. You already see her a lot. You have a edge that can more than make up for the age diffrence. Go for it. Even if it doesn't work out at least you got the expierence and you know that you had the balls to ask a Senior out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pad Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 confidence and laughter my young friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reborn Outcast Posted November 29, 2002 Author Share Posted November 29, 2002 Thanks everyone, I've got more confidence now that I know that freshmen are going out with seniors Et Warrior that sounds like a great idea and since I don't think I could ask her any other way I might try that Thanks for all the advice and tips everyone!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C'jais Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 17 years old, and yet to experience love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DiRtY $oUtH™ Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 Originally posted by Cjais 17 years old, and yet to experience love Are you for real? Well, I guess we all have our time... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C'jais Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 Originally posted by Darth Yoda85 Are you for real? Well, I guess we all have our time... We have. I'm in no rush, I figured I should love someone before I start dating them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elessar-Eärfalas Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 i was in a poving realtionship, 2 years actually. just broke up about 2 months ago, aw well. we still talk and stuff, but she thought i cheated on her, which i didnt. aw well, its all good, it was a good experience for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clem Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 sometimes u just gotta forget the consequences and just go with the flow and ask sometimes u gotta be patient and worm yer way in to her mind ... if shes thinking about you ... even as a friend ... thats a good thing ... might make her realise how much she likes you not all girls are the same you just gotta work out which technique will work with this 1 i prefer the second all the time cos even if u dont got yerself a gf youve gained yerself a good friend ... and thats the worst case scenario Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guardian Omega Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 Darth Yoda85, consider yourself sigged! Although I have no current real experience in love yet, I suggest you take the latter part of SivyB's advice on the regret part, after all, nothing counters pain like even more pain! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET Warrior Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 Originally posted by Cjais We have. I'm in no rush, I figured I should love someone before I start dating them I've never really been in "Love" methinks...probably just puppy love..(i'm 17) But i think if you wait until you truly love someone to try and date things might end up really bad. If you have no experience, (never dated, never been broken up with etc.) and you wait until it's someone you KNOW that you love, and you get hurt......it's gonna hurt BAD, and you wont know how to deal with it. I think almost all dating in high school is just for the experience. To learn how to meet and talk to girls and learn how to nut up and ask them out, and how to behave when with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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