Guardian Omega Posted February 7, 2003 Share Posted February 7, 2003 Lately, I've been picked on by some smart*** who thinks he's stronger than me and likes to talk trash to me. Always after school, if I see him or hear him talk, by instinct I turn around, he will say then,"What?" I then reply, "Just wondering where the voice came around" if I hear him. He then proceeds to push me around and I push him back. This process repeats on and on, him keep talking trash, which I can't say unless I want to be modded.....I swear to god, if that ***** starts pushing me around for no good reason and starts talking trash again, I'm going to give him a nice quick sock in the stomach.............. There's a good reason why I'm stronger than him. One, he had lift his elbow into the air to be even with me in an arm wrestle, and then saying I cheated. Two, I had just beaten a guy using two hands against me (very exhausting), and then he challenged me. He was winning, but ultimately it stayed in one position, in which a girl just pushed his hand down, me overcome by the strength, dropped, and he had the nerve to say he won FAIRLY. These examples make a good chunk of me depising him. Strangely, he was nice enough last year, and didn't pick on me until word of my strength came around............... Swampies, how to deal with this situation before I lose my temper, and I prefer one that won't blow my reputation too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pnut_Man Posted February 7, 2003 Share Posted February 7, 2003 No offense or anything, i'm just very curious: How old are you? I remember having arm wrestling matches in middle school About your "enemy": I wouldn't fight him if I were you; if he knows you're stronger than him, then he knows he'll get his ass kicked if you challenge him. I would just confront the bastard and ask him what the problem was, and that you wanted this crap to end today. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guardian Omega Posted February 7, 2003 Author Share Posted February 7, 2003 I'm in 8th Grade, 13 years of age, doing well in Middle School, that's why I asked a solution that won't dumb down my rep too much, both school and people in the school, if that's possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acrylic Posted February 7, 2003 Share Posted February 7, 2003 All I have to say is kick his ass! He deserves it! EDIT- Ur the same age as me, so I hope my opinion counts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue15 Posted February 7, 2003 Share Posted February 7, 2003 kiss him on the mouth, that should do the trick. but it'd ruin your reputation....so instead just report him for harrassment. if you want to keep your reputation, and teach anybody else who tries to do the same thing to you, just completely ignore the guy, i mean, c'mon you're better than him so if you hear his voice, just completely ignore him, and if he pushes you for no reason other than harrassment, just kick him hard in the jaw, solving 2 problems at once! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darklighter Posted February 7, 2003 Share Posted February 7, 2003 I agree with Pnut_Master. Verbal reasoning is a lot more effective and civil than violent confrontation, if the latter is avoidable. Don't beat the guy up. You'll just be lowering yourself to his level. But, if you give him a good telling and ask him what the problem is and he doesn't take a hint, then you can kick his ass;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dath Maximus Posted February 7, 2003 Share Posted February 7, 2003 yeah verbal reasoning is best and as a junior in HS, i can tell you, arm wrestling is something to do in junior high, well sorta, usually in HS girls challenge you to arm wrestling during psych class. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breton Posted February 7, 2003 Share Posted February 7, 2003 Ignore him. Little bastards such as this only want attention, spoiled as they are, so it isn't good to give it to them, it's just like feeding the trolls. Make him feel unimportant. They hate that. But if that doesn't work, it may work to confront them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leXX Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 It's always better in every situation to try to take the peaceful approach. Get him on his own and try to find out why he dislikes you and try to come to some sort of arrangement with him. If that doesn't work and he still has an attitude or refuses to try and make peace...KICK HIS BUTT, at least you would have tried the peaceful approach first. Some kids just need a good kicking to bring them down a peg or two. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
{BK}SupremePain Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 i would go with verbal assults too.... but intelligent jokes etc... not something like: hey **** you ***hole, if it was me i would say something like: whats its your damn problem man? keep your lame ass jokes for yourself Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RpTheHotrod Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 My brother had a similar problem. My brother eventually hit him in the mouth. The guy never messed with my brother again. Talk is cheap, but pain is steep. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShockV1.89 Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Originally posted by RpTheHotrod My brother had a similar problem. My brother eventually hit him in the mouth. The guy never messed with my brother again. Talk is cheap, but pain is steep. Word. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acrylic Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Originally posted by RpTheHotrod My brother had a similar problem. My brother eventually hit him in the mouth. The guy never messed with my brother again. Talk is cheap, but pain is steep. Yep. I'd do the same thing to. It also prolly has to do with the fact that I have a REALLY short temper also. I SPAZ very fast!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pedantic Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Just avoid him if possible--don't go somewhere you know he'll be. And if you do encounter him, do not make eye contact. Simply ignore him. If he continues to pester you, report him to a school administrator. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackDove Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 LOL Verbal reasoning and reporting for harrasment? Does that work today? Things were done with differently where I come from. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
obi Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Do what the Good Book says and Love thy neighboor, or I'll punch your lights out! Sorry, not in the best of moods..... Anyway, Tell him that he is the leaning tower of Pompous, and that little sissy fights with him are a waste of your valuable time. Tell him that if he wants to fight, that you'd whipe him clean, and that if he didn't want to fight, you two can be good friends, and it would be the wiser choice for his health's sake. It should work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackDove Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 If you tell him that, there goes your reputation down the toilet lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
obi Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Originally posted by BlackDove If you tell him that, there goes your reputation down the toilet lol Buggah, I've told similar to many people who wanted to fight me, and now I am one of the most popular kids in my grade level. The guys who wanted to fight me once are now my friends. It's just how middle school is. Trust me on that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackDove Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Can't trust you on that home boy, I come from a different middle school and it was a quite adventure story for me. But LOL nice to see it worked for you, wish we were all blessed with such wise and intelligent enemies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pedantic Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 It seems I've transcended all y'all. No one has ever wanted to pick a fight with me...ever. Not even a hint. I have no enemies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teutonicknight Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Originally posted by Guardian Omega Lately, I've been picked on by some smart*** who thinks he's stronger than me and likes to talk trash to me. Always after school, if I see him or hear him talk, by instinct I turn around, he will say then,"What?" I then reply, "Just wondering where the voice came around" if I hear him. He then proceeds to push me around and I push him back. This process repeats on and on, him keep talking trash, which I can't say unless I want to be modded.....I swear to god, if that ***** starts pushing me around for no good reason and starts talking trash again, I'm going to give him a nice quick sock in the stomach.............. There's a good reason why I'm stronger than him. One, he had lift his elbow into the air to be even with me in an arm wrestle, and then saying I cheated. Two, I had just beaten a guy using two hands against me (very exhausting), and then he challenged me. He was winning, but ultimately it stayed in one position, in which a girl just pushed his hand down, me overcome by the strength, dropped, and he had the nerve to say he won FAIRLY. These examples make a good chunk of me depising him. Strangely, he was nice enough last year, and didn't pick on me until word of my strength came around............... Swampies, how to deal with this situation before I lose my temper, and I prefer one that won't blow my reputation too much. Pacience, use the force, think! .... No, but seriously, fight with your mind, not your fists. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
obi Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Originally posted by BlackDove Can't trust you on that home boy, I come from a different middle school and it was a quite adventure story for me. But LOL nice to see it worked for you, wish we were all blessed with such wise and intelligent enemies. When I am about a foot taller then they are, it helps..... Anyway, they hated me through middle school, but their tiny little minds finally grew and now they are my best friends. I know it sounds corny, but it's the trueth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackDove Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Originally posted by obi-wan13 When I am about a foot taller then they are, it helps..... Anyway, they hated me through middle school, but their tiny little minds finally grew and now they are my best friends. I know it sounds corny, but it's the trueth. All of my enemies actually became friends in the end, however it was a long and a hard way there which lasted several years lol. The avatar I have now, that fight between "good" and "not so good" kind of represents a large portion of my life heh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
matt-- Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 If the argument is purely about strength, there's really not that much you can do that won't result in pain (based on your description of his personality). Confront him, if he wants to fight, let him, but don't fight back. be defensive...let him tire himself out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lunatic Jedi Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Well, this will probably annihilate your rep if you do it, but it would certainly work. Rub some chocolate pudding or something all over your face, run up to him, and scream "EVERYBODY LOVES JELLO NOW DO THE MOOGIE DANCE! That'll scare the crap out of him. He'll never come within 50 feet of you again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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