Joetheeskimo Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 I had a best friend named Evan that I've known since Kindergarten, but lately he's been on my annoying friends list rather than good. I find sleeping over at his house a chore rather than fun. He's hyperactive and never grew up since leaving fourth grade. He took my pants once and never gave them back (and don't you DARE laugh). I come back from his house drained and angry. Not only that, he follows me around everywhere at school. You mght find that cute, but in fact it's frustrating. I have other friends, dammit! And he seperates them from me, refusing to let anyone else have my attention than him. A while ago I drew the line and stopped going to his house, and managed to avoid him during school. However, I have to tell him my feelings someday, but I don't know how. I simply hate him rather than like him nowadays. Heh, this sounds like one of those "Dear Abby" letters Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
•-BLaCKouT-• Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 It sounds like you've probably been spending a little too much time together, and you just need a bit of a breather. I wouldn't worry too much about it, sometimes I'll go weeks without speaking to a couple of mates, then we'll be hanging out every night for a week. You can't expect to constantly want to be around your best friend, it doesn't work like that. Chances are, you piss him off too sometimes Just give it a while and you'll both start to remember exactly why you were best friends, then you can get back to hanging out again. If that doesn't happen, then maybe you'll have to accept that people change as time goes on. Everyone does. He'll make more friends just like you will. Either way, just give it time and it'll right itself, one way or the other. All the best, B. (does this sound like one of those Dear Abby replies? ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-=DarkZero=- Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 Well, what you could do is, Plan his death to make it look accidental, or like a suicide. Tee-heehehe. They grow up so fast ;_; Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe© Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 I think that everyone goes through this kind of problem at least once in there adolescent years, just got over mine a few months ago... that damn SF can be really weird sometimes ... oh well like I said it happens. we all have a rough time of it at one point or another, I homeschool, and seeing friends every week or two is'ent the most fulfilling feeling, so it kinda takes a long time to rub of the icing, I see SF & SD about once or twice a month, and the rest of the time I spend it with? a bunch of girls, not saying that?s bad or something but they can get a little boring after they talk about boys around an hour, and seeing boys aren?t my cup of tea? ya know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
topshot Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 I guess I've been kind of having the same problem. One of my friends kind of annoys me. Thursday, he was, like, "invite me to your house this weekend." (I sort of let it go and revealed that I was havin' a small party for my 18th birthday *Pops didn't make it home from work that day, so it was set for this Saturday*, but aren't I a little too old for that kind of stuff? ) That was pretty immature of him to make a demand like that, but I guess he doesn't know the rules for special occasions like birthdays and stuff. Even though he may be a little pain sometimes, I still think he's ok to hang around with. I try to help steer him in the right direction every now and then. As for your problem, Joe, just try telling him, as friendly as you can, that you've got a problem with how he's been acting. Tell 'im that he needs to act a bit more mature and let you have some space so that you can talk to your other buddies. If he continues to annoy or harass you any further, then just tell him that it's been good, but you can't be friends with him anymore if he doesn't listen to you, or if he won't let you do what you want. What I said may not help, but it's definitely worth a try. Now if you'll excuse me, I've got a FOXHOUND organization to take down. (Yeah, I've Metal Gear Solid: The Twin Snakes for Gamecube. ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Surfnshannon Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 That's okay - one of my best friends - was supposed to be my maid of honor. Well she was very busy for a long time and I kept asking her for help (you know what maid of honors are supposed to do for weddings) well she was always busy with her new Boyfriend. She would expect me to drop everything and help her - but when it came to one of the most important events of my life - she was no where to be found. I left a message on her phone because she wouldn't return my calls that I felt like she was too busy to help me with the wedding and would it be easier for her if she was a guest at the wedding or a bridesmaid, so that I could have my other friends be the maid of honor and help me out. Well she called up PISSED and screaming. Hey, I thought she wasn't home - ha she had called me back in like 5 seconds. Well she told me she was evaluating our friendship and hasn't called me back since - that was September. She didn't show up to my wedding and hasn't made any attempts to call me. I havne't called her because I figured she needed to grow up a bit and own up if she can't be responsible. It was a one sided friendship anyway. Sorry to here about your friend - but maybe you guys just need some space and he needs to get some more people in his circle of friends besides just you. Then he won't be so obsessive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BongoBob Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 I know how you feel. I have a friend that annoys the crap out of me sometimes, but can sometimes be really cool. Then again it's hard to be cool when you wake up early on saturdays to watch pokemon and yugioh. That's right, high schooler, and still watches pokemon and yugioh. He tells me constantly to watch those/buy or rent the games. And he calls here ALL THE TIME. I mean every day, at least 3 times a day. The thing about it though is that his family does'nt really care about him, and he doesn't have many friends. Tomarrow I plan to call him and talk to him about his immaturity. He's 15, and 15 yr olds do not watch pokemon and yugioh. That's just a rule. By the way, I don't mind playing my pokemon GB games from time to time, but not crazy about it. AKA, if given a choice between playing Pokemon or Amped 2/THUG/Jet Set Radio Future, I am gonna choose the latter. I play them on our yearly vacations during the 4-6 hour long drives. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
obi Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 Friends are important. Well, let me restate that.... True friends are important. Tell him that he's acting like a monkey, and if he continues, then tell him he needs to act more mature. But remember, friends are important in life. Be nice about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
narfblat Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 If you want to end a relationship without looking like a jerk, be the annoying buddy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Astrotoy7 Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 *left school at fourth grade ? *steals pants *stalks you at school believe me, you dont need a friend like this.... get some new friends, preferably cute female ones you can take to the movies and write crappy poems about....(astro's tips for teenage romance)..... mtfbwya Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crow_Nest Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 Just dont talk to himm or even do anything with him for a few weeks, wait till he becomes the same old Evan he used to be. He will change after sometime. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabretooth Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 "Good is not the only solution" -Sabretooth Do exactly what he does. Annoy him. If he tries to steal or damage your property, do the same to him. Give him one straight jab right in the jaw till he gets it. When he feels the suffering, the hate, the anger, tell him. Tell him that you aren't one of those "easy peasy nerds" and if something is buggin you, you squash it, no matter how big it is, no matter how small. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazy_dog no.3 Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 Maybe your "friend" has other feelings about you... j/k Really though, tell him he's bieng a pr*ck and maybe he'll change. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe© Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 I don't know about buggin the crap out of him, if want to be friends after this is all over then don't piss'him, of thats not gaining, ground thats loseing it. Friends come in and out of life and sometimes... ya know what I mean. I'm a good boy scout kinda guy, and I'v stuck up for some real jerks before because they were once upon a time my friends and they got better, you just gotta wait. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hermie Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 what did I do now?? *reads Joe's post* oh... not me.... ok then.... *walks away* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam Fisher Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 Originally posted by The Chimaera that damn SF can be really weird sometimes ... Yes, but its just for you.. you are always so dull.. gotta spice it up sometimes ^^ It'll be a lot more fun when you get a better comp... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackDove Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 Tell him to **** off and get a life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black Knight of Keno Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 There's only one solution: Tell him that you love him too and try to hug him. That should get him off from your back Yeah, been there, done that. My ex-friend did that too. Couldn't really speak to my other friends if he was around, allways came something like: "Oh really... Have you heard about [insert anything here]" He was constantly on my back and even when I played football on our school yard, he came to play too and he didn't even like football Yeah, never really tried the solution I gave you, but try it. Should work fine... Maybe he would then blabber that you're gay or something but that doesn't matter, just side-effects... Nothing serious Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe© Posted April 4, 2004 Share Posted April 4, 2004 Yes, but its just for you.. you are always so dull.. gotta spice it up sometimes ^^ The crap!! you are so full it!!! wily Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam Fisher Posted April 4, 2004 Share Posted April 4, 2004 You just deflated my ego. You bas--.. I'm not going to say it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe© Posted April 4, 2004 Share Posted April 4, 2004 thats off subject little sam, back on the track. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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