Toonces Posted June 4, 2003 Author Posted June 4, 2003 Originally posted by Hindy Hmmm maybe you worry/think too much about it, I would have to agree with it happens when you least expect it. Over 3 years later we are still together, which is surprising cos we did not know each other till we went out, so dont just limit yourself to circles of friends. Hope that is of some help... or maybe I just rambled on about my life Nah, your absolutely right. One of the things I've always had to keep in the back of my mind is that nothing happens instantly. All of my previous relationships really started before I knew what was happening. I'm definatly not just sticking to my circle of friends, that pond is a bit dry. I'm very good at meeting total strangers and starting up a conversation, but I seem to be getting frustrated because I'm not meeting the type of people that I really want to associate with. The online thing has been an intresting experence. I primarily use the Internet as a research and business tool, not a place to meet people, but I'm slowly warming up to the idea of meeting people online too. I guess the bottom line is that I have to be more patient. We're not all simple STTCT, I've actually been told by some of my women friends that I'm one of the most complicated people they've ever met. Alot of us are actually honest people too. Dishonesty is unacceptible on both sides IMO. Oh, the way I've always handled the old "Do I look fat?" question is to say "I don't think I'm the right person to ask, since I love your body so I'm bias" and that's being honest to me. I like women of all shapes and sizes.
Mex Posted June 4, 2003 Posted June 4, 2003 Originally posted by Rogue Nine "Il y a peu d'honnêtes femmes qui ne soient lasses de leur métier." I never understood a word of that.. It's quite annoying when girls say "Do I look fat in this?" "Do I look ok?" "Is my hair alright?" "Do I smell?" "Does my bum look big in this?" Arg.. My sister says those things ALL THE TIME!
Shotokan Posted June 13, 2003 Posted June 13, 2003 Heh you're trapped if you say no or yes. If you say no they'll say "Are you lying? Be honest" or something along those lines.
Darth Eggplant Posted June 13, 2003 Posted June 13, 2003 sigh the dreams of youth are the regrets of maturity I am so glad to like so far removed from the whole he said she said fuzzy wuzzy butterflies love thing. people are all the same they are not honest with themselves they are not honest with each other and most oft they do all the right things for all the wrong reasons. such as well i had to marry her we've been together for 6 years. (notice the words or phrase)'because I love her and she is the alpha of my omega never get in there. it's well out of obligation or social expectation or to get money cause an uncle will pay for a house if I get married etc.... people date and lie from moment one they gloss over every fault the other has and yet miraculously when the break up happens all those flaws become public forum and public knowledge people spend hours going oh does she like me? does he like me I want to ask I can't how amny more flowers can I brutalize in nursery ryhme horror if you are in love you are in love and if you mange to get into a relationship try being honest for once and posting about your relationships or love life is kind of like saying i stopped taking drugs i used to do cocaine not any more but ya i'm still smoking weed. I wish i could sound sympathetic to you but i have more friends of old who seem fractiaonally sometimes happy to be in their currebt situation but mainly unhappy but too damn apathetic to do anything about it. anyhow I am an old grouch when it comes to all this much a do about nothing.
coupes. Posted June 13, 2003 Posted June 13, 2003 Originally posted by Rogue Nine "Il y a peu d'honnêtes femmes qui ne soient lasses de leur métier." for those who were wondering... translation:"There are few honnest women who are not weary of their trade." ... or something like that.
ET Warrior Posted June 13, 2003 Posted June 13, 2003 Originally posted by Darth Eggplant sigh the dreams of youth are the regrets of maturity I am so glad to like so far removed from the whole he said she said fuzzy wuzzy butterflies love thing. people are all the same they are not honest with themselves they are not honest with each other and most oft they do all the right things for all the wrong reasons. such as well i had to marry her we've been together for 6 years. (notice the words or phrase)'because I love her and she is the alpha of my omega never get in there. it's well out of obligation or social expectation or to get money cause an uncle will pay for a house if I get married etc.... people date and lie from moment one they gloss over every fault the other has and yet miraculously when the break up happens all those flaws become public forum and public knowledge people spend hours going oh does she like me? does he like me I want to ask I can't how amny more flowers can I brutalize in nursery ryhme horror if you are in love you are in love and if you mange to get into a relationship try being honest for once and posting about your relationships or love life is kind of like saying i stopped taking drugs i used to do cocaine not any more but ya i'm still smoking weed. I wish i could sound sympathetic to you but i have more friends of old who seem fractiaonally sometimes happy to be in their currebt situation but mainly unhappy but too damn apathetic to do anything about it. anyhow I am an old grouch when it comes to all this much a do about nothing. So, much verse......can't take it anymore.....head.....about......to...explode.....AHHHHHHHHHh You sound pretty bitter Eggplant........and i'm not sure what you're trying to tell Toonces with this.....????
Psyk0Sith Posted June 14, 2003 Posted June 14, 2003 Good to see you around LF Toonces! From personal experience, it seems like everytime i look for a girlfriend, i cant find the "right" one. Oddly enough, its when i'm not looking that i find someone, it just happens. Good luck man.
Matt-Liell Posted June 14, 2003 Posted June 14, 2003 Man, Toonces girls are too weird, I'm on an 0 for 3 record for this year. I won't go into detail about what happened in ach one but let me tell ya Toonces, girls have weird ideas about us guys. Man will never understand them!
ZBomber Posted June 14, 2003 Posted June 14, 2003 I just got turned down ealeir today, so, I know girls troubles... >.< Anyways, i think men suffer more from pm..... I'm not gonna say why...... but....... *jumps into bomb shelter with Obi*
Rogue15 Posted June 14, 2003 Posted June 14, 2003 if you can't have them.... i'm not even going to finish that sentence. i've been single my whole life and i'm 19. yes, it is lonely so i read the Bible and that comforts me. ^_^
Eldritch Posted June 14, 2003 Posted June 14, 2003 Toonces, I've got two words for you: Happy Hour. Just don't get there so late that the ladies are smashed. Buying them a drink always helps to break the ice, too. This is not to say that you should pick up the girls you meet in the bar, but through conversation something meaningful can perhaps emerge.
ET Warrior Posted June 14, 2003 Posted June 14, 2003 Originally posted by Cryptic girls have weird ideas about us guys. Man will never understand them! Women, Can't live with em, Can't have heterosexual sex without em..........................................................
Clemme w/Stick Posted June 14, 2003 Posted June 14, 2003 Originally posted by Toonces I've been single now for over two years. Wow, and I thought I was the only person here who had been single for more than a 1½ years. Hmm, as for advice I dont have any, I've always taken things as they came, and I'll prolly continue doing that. So calm down, you'll meet the right woman some day. At least thats what I'm hoping to do, It hasnt happened yet, but I hope to meet one this summe when I'm on vacation . -Clemme
BawBag™ Posted June 15, 2003 Posted June 15, 2003 Originally posted by Eldritch Toonces, I've got two words for you: Happy Hour. Then two more words: "Sambuca please" Then two more: "You're pretty" And the last two (in my experience): "Why Not!" (Say in a whiney voice) :D ...
El Sitherino Posted June 15, 2003 Posted June 15, 2003 Originally posted by STTCT well I think that we *women* seem so complicated because men are simple and lazy. i dunno girls are just as simple and lazy as men too. especially where i live alot of girls are usually airheads.
Antilles_CL Posted June 15, 2003 Posted June 15, 2003 Girls are great. Like wine though, they mature over time I've met some great girls. In fact my girlfriend is THE BEST. Women just want sumone to listen to them, that's all
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