Mike Windu Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 *sigh* May has always been a bad year for me. 7th grade-3 kids run over at my school. 8th grade- erm... parents bickering more. 9th grade-Today. My parents separate. 5/03/04. My dad has gone to live with my brother at his apartment. Soo... that's pretty much it. My family's broken up. Add that to the death of my friend recently, and you have a pretty f***** up month. As an added bonus, my mother won't let me go to FUEL a local church gathering for high school kids, because she wants me to be buddhist. However, I can't be buddhist. It's not the way I want it to be. Don't be sad for me my friends. I'll still be here, however I don't know what the future holds for me or my family. I can only be happy that my friends are with me, praying for me and helping me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boba Rhett Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 I'm sorry to hear about all the trials you're havig to go through right now. It sure seems like they all chose to hit you at once from all sides. If you can keep your spirit up things will get better for you though, mike, so hang in there and know that we're here for ya if you ever need to talk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyrion Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 Man Matt, that's absolutely horrible- I wish you the best of luck. 3 killed in 7th grade? Geeze.. So your mom and dad have split up? I've never been in this situation(parents love themselves to death, fortunately), but this could turn out alright for you. At least you won't have a bunch of arguring around the house, right? For the church thing..tell your mom it's your own right to follow your religion- especially since you're 15 years old. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET Warrior Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 Hey, at least you still have me, right? Just keep your head up man, things have a way of working themselves out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wassup Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 Breakups are just like any other problem, they require work to solve and fix them, and they never work themselves out. Give your family time to cool down, but eventually I think your dad should come back and work out what is wrong. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StormHammer Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 I too am sorry to hear about all of your problems. All I can say is, life can't keep dealing you the crappy cards, and you'll get through this. No matter how horrible things seem right now, you can work your way through it all. When you need to move a mountain, never look at the mountain. Just look at the first rock, and move that. Then the second...and the third. Eventually, you'll look back to see that same mountain, and wonder how you moved it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Windu Posted May 6, 2004 Author Share Posted May 6, 2004 damnit Tyrion. My name is Mike. I don't know why that bothers me, but it does. It feels empty without my dad here at night tonite. I've been trying to keep my mind off of it. That's what the swamp is here for right? Also, chappelle's show. and my friends. Coudlnt get through without them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Datheus Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 Originally posted by Mike Windu As an added bonus, my mother won't let me go to FUEL a local church gathering for high school kids, because she wants me to be buddhist. However, I can't be buddhist. It's not the way I want it to be. Let her know that pushing Buddhism on you isn't a very Buddhist thing to do... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyrion Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 Originally posted by Mike Windu damnit Tyrion. My name is Mike. I don't know why that bothers me, but it does. Damnit, sorry about that. I'm absolutely freaking horrible with names..I can't even remember some of my best friend's names correctly sometimes, so it's nothing personal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manoman81 Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 Know it it feels. Something like that happened to me going on 2 years ago. Difference was that I was and still am in college. But not my lil bro. Times are more than tough when stuff like this happens. As for your mom trying to push into stuff you don't want to, tell her that you don't want to do it. She can't force something on you that you don't want. I fully agree with Datheus. Not much else we can do for you except to tell you to stand tall and head up. We're here for you, kid. The swamp is always here to help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
narfblat Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 sorry about that. I'm absolutely freaking horrible with names..I can't even remember some of my best friend's names correctly sometimes, so it's nothing personal. You need to find a way to remember names better, Tavion. Getting back on subject, THAT SUCKS!!! it seems like everyone here but me is having bad news. IG_64 is having various computer problems, Selene is getting kicked out by her dad, and many people have had friends and relatives die. My sympathy goes to everyone here having problems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Astrotoy7 Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 Mike. welcome to Life. It can suck tremdously at times.... ...all I can say is, it is how you respond to these situations that defines the person you will be. Be strong. Learn to rely on yourself and your strength of character. The fact that you write shows that you are intelligent, articulate and reflective...use these to your advantage..... I have been through similar ordeals.... and continue to do so... it's at times like this that I remember Nietzche: "What does not kill you will make you stronger" good luck mtfbwya Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clemme w/Stick Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 Originally posted by ET Warrior Hey, at least you still have me, right? Just keep your head up man, things have a way of working themselves out. What ET just said. Anyways, you ever need someone to talk to, you know where to find me. -Clemme Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Icemaniax Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 Oi, Dude, You never said nothin about this in MSN. Whatever the end result, You've got alot of friends online, and I am sure you have plenty Offline, in that strange....real life place you all talk about. If you ever wanna talk, I'm always on MSN Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysticSpade Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 mike i got you beat man last may my mom died.....top that. and i aint jokin she really did. but i understand where you're coming from man hopefully you're parents will reconsile soon or later. either hopefully you'll have your whole family back together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkLord60 Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 Well I lost my brother so I to am going through hard times but hope things get better for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeleneRayne Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 sorry bout that Mike, I know how it feels, and a added plus, I'm getting kicked out and living with Kain!!! I want to live with Kain bad, but it's just the way my Dad put it that hurts, like he don't care 'bout me. But still i'm sorry I know what your going through man. Be strong! And I think you should worship whatever you wanna worship, in my opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scrodo_Saggins Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 I know you feel windu, my dad left my mom recently, and it feels like i have no family anymore, just a bunch of relatives Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
--ZeeMan-- Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 damn dude :-( well you and i seem to randomly post on the same places so i'm here if you wanna talk or just let loose :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hermie Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 I know how you feel, my parents separated just over a year ago. I really didnt feel like talking out, but to be alone with my thoughts... it will work out eventually, at least it did for me. now just to get rid of that lady that comes around to my dads house every once in a while... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Windu Posted May 6, 2004 Author Share Posted May 6, 2004 Well, I just got home today. My parents are both leaving calmly to the lawyer's to make the lil thing where my dad agrees to pay the bills. >_> <_< At least my mom is gonna let me go to FUEL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Handorin Posted May 8, 2004 Share Posted May 8, 2004 daaang mike, i live DOWN dA STReeT and i didnt even know... life really sucks i have gone about 2 consecutive weeks with no computer so that why im late here. BTW for all those people that thought 3 kids died, it was two and one was seriously injured then soon got back to normal (we go to the same school) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master_Keralys Posted May 8, 2004 Share Posted May 8, 2004 Ah, the Ides of May -or something close... I'll be praying for you Mike. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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