Reborn Outcast Posted June 2, 2003 Share Posted June 2, 2003 Is this possible? Is it possible for a 15 year old to be in love? Or is it only false, a little twinge? Because me and my girlfriend have talked about this with each other and unless it's a twinge or something, we are in love. As in, we would get married tomorrow if we could. Is this real or is it fake? Cause I can honestly say that I've felt this way ever since I first started going out with her (4 months). Can someone help me out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mex Posted June 2, 2003 Share Posted June 2, 2003 It could be real, just ask yourself that question. Or it could be puberty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
•-BLaCKouT-• Posted June 2, 2003 Share Posted June 2, 2003 If if feels real, then of course it's real (no Matrix-type analogies please ). Good on yer! Granted, the feelings you're having now could be described by some as 'infatuation' or hormones; but that doesn't make them any more or less valid than what other people describe as real. Besides, 4 months. It's not like you met yesterday is it? I for one am chuffed for ya. B. EDIT: Edited for clarity. I hope. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-=ReApEr=- Posted June 2, 2003 Share Posted June 2, 2003 If it feels right, then it is. Just go with your heart, think it all over and decide. If it is love, then good on you mate. Well done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mex Posted June 2, 2003 Share Posted June 2, 2003 Originally posted by -=ReApEr=- If it feels right, then it is. Just go with your heart, think it all over and decide. If it is love, then good on you mate. Well done. Yeah do what he said! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Wilson Posted June 2, 2003 Share Posted June 2, 2003 Follow your heart man.big wow our 15 ( ourSome elese whos 15.damm older person) if someone whos 20 in in the same predicment then its love. if someone whos 50 in the same predicment then its love. age has nothing to do with it. so there Now go burn something and you will understand everything i just said Edit: Thanks, i dont think you should listen to the burning thing though and good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reborn Outcast Posted June 2, 2003 Author Share Posted June 2, 2003 Yea I sure hope this is... But I was just a little nervous because I've heard stories of people saying that they're in love and then they're not and it was only a small thing that was going on but I don't htink that what I'm feeling is. Cause ya know it's like (and she knows this cause I've told her) when I'm not with her I miss her after like 10 seconds but when I am with her i don't ever want her to leave. And that's only a little bit of how I'm feeling. EDIT: Captain Wilson I just saw your post and thanks. I don't think people take teenage things like this to seriously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
•-BLaCKouT-• Posted June 2, 2003 Share Posted June 2, 2003 I think we're all taking it seriously in this thread so far Regardless of how you may feel in the future about how you're feeling then, I think you'll always be able to look back to now and think, "Yes, that was love when I was 15". The memory will stay with you. Congrats again B. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jo Posted June 2, 2003 Share Posted June 2, 2003 if you love her you love her. just make sure its real. i think it can happen cause i'm absolutely infatuated by the girl across the street. i love everything about her. i just want to know if she feels the same way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thrackan Solo Posted June 2, 2003 Share Posted June 2, 2003 Go for it, Reborn!! I feel that way about someone im 14. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
obi Posted June 2, 2003 Share Posted June 2, 2003 Oh yes, it is possible, Reborn. I am only a year ahead of you(16) and Me and my gal are technically "engaged." If anyone tells you that you cannot be in love because you are only 15, tell them to go straight to Hell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyrion Posted June 2, 2003 Share Posted June 2, 2003 You probably are,Reborn. But just make sure to wait a year or two to REALLY find out if you love each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Icemaniax Posted June 2, 2003 Share Posted June 2, 2003 go for it Reborn, i'm 15, 16 on the 10th, but i have been in love, i still am actually, but shes not in the same state. (Till the 3rd of July!!) but go for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandalorian54 Posted June 2, 2003 Share Posted June 2, 2003 my teacher at school always told me, "If you want to buy somthing, wait seven days, if you still want to buy it then it's okay." Um... I think what the relavence is is that if you still think you love her in seven days.....never mind:( I once heard of a girl who got maried at age 12, so 15 isn't too bad. just don't do "it" until you've both had a blood test, and forget about all those lies your teachers in sex ed told you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C'jais Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 Originally posted by Mandolorian54 just don't do "it" until you've both had a blood test, and forget about all those lies your teachers in sex ed told you. What... Lies? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET Warrior Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 Dont really know what to tell ya Reborn. At this moment I really dont think I know what true love is. I might love my current girlfriend, but I might just really really like her.....or I might be being controlled by my hormones. I just dont know.. And I'm 18............. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C'jais Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 Love is overrated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET Warrior Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 Originally posted by C'jais Love is overrated. YOU are overrated Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C'jais Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 Originally posted by ET Warrior YOU are overrated I'm over here. Love is that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue15 Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 hehe things that you can love can make you hate them so be careful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quotation Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 Originally posted by C'jais Love is overrated. Hey, so was Sierra's Counterstrike, but that didn't prevent numerous teenagers around the world from playing it... Hey, Reborn, Good Luck. Feel, don't think. Use your instincts. May the Force be with you. -Qui Gon Jinn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pedantic Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 You never know, you may well be in love. But take caution...at your age, hormones rage and one cannot think clearly when one is in the midst of such a "rage." One thing will be able to truly tell if you have real love--time. As odd as it may sound, true love is not entirely about the "feeling," although that is certainly necessary. Love is about commitment. True love will prevail when you are late for work, your kids are running around the house, the dog pisses on the couch, your wife is having "that time," your mortgage is due, your credit card bills are piling up, your allergies are in full swing, you are stuck in a traffic jam on the freeway on the way to work, you get rear-ended by some kid who just got his license and just learned to drive a stick, you have a pounding migraine, a neighborhood kid hits a home run into your front window, you need more money for groceries and pay-day is in two weeks, and your car loses its muffler and the horn gets stuck. If your love can survive the hell that is marriage, then you have true love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
platypus202 Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 It could be love. If you feel the same way or better in a few months it could be love. But, do not get married when you are 15. That is a bad idea. Haven't you heard all those stories about teenage mothers and divorced parents that married at 10. Do not do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skate Boy Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 How often do you think about her? How many times is she naked when you think about her? Note: This was sorta taken from some Star Wars book. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darklighter Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 Originally posted by Reborn Outcast Is this real or is it fake? Cause I can honestly say that I've felt this way ever since I first started going out with her (4 months). No kidding:)I've been going out with my girl for just over 4 months (it was our 4th anniversary a week ago today). Well, me and my girlfriend have talked about it a little. We're still both kinda show around each other, it's hard to say how we feel. Though, a few weeks ago, I just came out and said "I love you...", and she said she felt the same. I dunno whether I do or not right now, maybe I will feel differently later on. Fact is, I believe anyone can fall in love, no matter about the age. Adults can be just as unsure sometimes (I know, believe me) as teenagers about their feelings. It's just, at an age like 15 (I'm 16, btw), it's best not to get too emotionally involved, since there are so many limiting factors against you (like school, family, no income etc.). You may be in love, but right now there may be more important things to focus on. And (unlike Skatey's post;)), love isn't purely sexual. It's not about "how many times you think about her naked" or "how many times you have sex" or even "how many times you kiss a week" etc, etc. It's not all about the physical side - I believe it's having a great friend, one who you want to feel close to, emotionally and literally, who comforts you as you comfort them. Not someone who you would give your life up for, but someone who would help you along your own path, and support you (and vice versa). It's all about mutual understanding:)... ...plus physical attraction ain't a bad thing:xp:lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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