SilentScope001 Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 I have done some crazy stuff here, but I guess this will top everything else. How many people are actually having fun in Kavar's Corner? Or how many people have became so stressed out and angry at everyone who disagrees with them that it is no longer is fun? I like arguing because it is supposed to be fun and entertaining, but somehow, it seems to become much more harder for me to argue here in Kavar's Corner, due to much more heated arguments from both sides of the political spectrum. This is just me, but my main goal is find out what people believe, and NOT to preach. You cannot convert anyone here to your viewpoint. However, I have a feeling everyone, even me, has forgotten this point and engaged ourselves in a useless quamire. I do fear it has gone a bit too heated in rhetoric, altough this may just be me who's worried. It was the main reason I made this small RP. Prehaps we could have fun arguing if we were not arguing about anything really important. I am not calling for anything drastic. What I want to know is this: How many people are having fun in Kavar's Corner? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChAiNz.2da Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 I haven't participated yet, but just reading them.. I'd have to say "yeah" I'm having a ball For a debate forum, everyone around here has some pretty level heads and I'm glad to see it hasn't come to phisti-cuffs yet There's some highly intelligent people around here and Kavar's Corner I think was just the place to let you guys and gals shine.. has definitely opened my eyes on just HOW (much) informed everyone is around here and it's nice to be part of a community that isn't afraid to read the news and read a book every now and then Keep it up gang, as a reader, and perhaps in the future, a 'player'... I'm having a blast either way Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilentScope001 Posted May 23, 2007 Author Share Posted May 23, 2007 Heh. Never saw it that way. I guess it's just a problem with me. Maybe just a few days away from Kavar's Corner would be good then... (/shrugs) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jae Onasi Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 Well, we're trying to keep it at the friendly discussion level, but if anyone ever takes issue with something, PM one of us mods or use the report post feature and we'll look at it ASAP. Some of these subjects are very polarizing and it's going to be hard not to get upset about something sometimes. We're trying to keep the atmosphere something along the lines of a bunch of friends sitting around the living room talking about a particular subject. Sure, you may get into a passionate discussion while sharing your viewpoint, but at the end of the day, we're all (hopefully) still going to be friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prime Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 If someone finds this place stressful, it is clearly time to leave it for a while. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChAiNz.2da Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 If someone finds this place stressful, it is clearly time to leave it for a while. Indeed. To (badly.. due to my failing memory) quote RedHawke "Choose your 'battles' wisely" A debate forum is just that.. debate. Pick a topic(s) that strongly resonates with you as more than likely you're going to be asked for more depth or outright challenged to defend your post. Intend to stick with it if you post in it (common sense and well-being permitting of course). Posting in every single debate thread is going to stretch you and your limits as you'll probably wind up only participating in this forum. Otherwise you'll be running around to dig up any sources or what-not to back up your claims should be called out in 30+ different threads and in every which way Yeah, we ALL have an opinion on everything (guilty myself for sure), but it's best sometimes not to voice it if you're not up for having to revisit and reflect. A 'post-n-go' is a no-no for any decent conversation/discussion/debate. I'm sure anyone else participating would appreciate it as well if people wouldn't come and go on a whim just to post their one-liner and leave into the void. It doesn't really add to the discussion, discounts your validity of the subject and will oftentimes completely de-rail the intended topic. Not accusing anyone as I haven't seen it here yet, but it's something to keep in mind for the future posters But as Jae stated, if anyone is feeling treaded on, don't hesitate to let (preferably someone NOT participating in the debate) know about it. A mod, s-mod, admin or neutral party to voice concerns. Though if it outright disregards the Forum Rules.. well, I'm pretty sure everyone is aware of what happens Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mimartin Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 I’m having fun. I find it very interesting the many different takes people have on different discussions. I enjoy reading the passion someone feels for a subject and how their particular belief system affects their judgment and the level of that passion. I find it intriguing how race, religious affiliation, country of origin and many variables make us different, but also makes us the same. I hope Kavar’s Corner teaches the younger and the older members to respect opposing views. Many on the other side of an issue feel just as passionately about their position as you do your own. I believe the members and the moderators have done a great job of keeping the discussion informative and respectful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Totenkopf Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 I'd say that this is a much more user friendly environment than the Senate for serious discussions b/c "the man" is usually doing his job in a much more hands on manner in this corner of the forums. I notice, as a result, a lot less evident flaming. Thus KC seems to be a much more hospitable atmosphere for discussing topics that are often polarizing by their very nature. If you find yourself getting stressed out, just ask yourself how important is it really that someone (who you'll likely never meet) isn't amenable to your pov. I mean, do you really care what the guy/gal 3 blocks away (or more) thinks about you? It's like anything else, if you think the topic has gotten too hot for you or is just going nowhere, just walk away, no harm, no foul. Remember, even if you get the last word.....it doesn't mean you've "won" the argument, maybe no one's "listening" anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pho3nix Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 I'm always having fun here. At least when I'm reading Achilles' posts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gargoyle King Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 I like these forums, they allow us to talk to people from any distance about things we are passionate about or debates that may be raging inside our minds. It's a good way to get opinions in my opinion (excuse the pun), but is generally a goods way to pass the time if your bored with not much else to do at a certain given time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
urluckyday Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 It's alright...lol... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darth InSidious Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 Oh, yay, arrogance and lack of knowledge in equal quantities! What's not to like Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
urluckyday Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 ^I should hope that you're not referring to me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darth InSidious Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 ^No, Kavar's Corner in general. @urluckyday below: Ehh. What makes you special enough? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GarfieldJL Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 *Shrugs I've seen a lot worse places, which I won't name by name. As far as insults and stuff flying, I haven't seen very many here, and the mods actually do something about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
urluckyday Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 ^dont talk about your house that way...jk... @ Darth InSidious lol, okay...i couldnt really do anything anyway, so if you wanna bash me...be my guest...lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Web Rider Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 I don't really think debating is supposed to be entertaining, but I always tend to have fun as long as all the participants are relativly well educated and the mods/admin don't act like their opinion is law(in relation to the subject, not forum rules). There's nothing wrong with a heated argument, as long as it doesn't dissolve into mud-slinging or flames. *shrug* maybe I'm just used to more aggressive debates. I dunno. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Samuel Dravis Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 I'm having fun. It's always interesting to see many differing views on a topic, regardless of what I think of them. As for getting angry about it, I don't really. I had enough of that in the Senate. SS: if I made you angry, sorry about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
True_Avery Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 I mainly come in and put my input in when I feel like it and read when I feel like it. To be completely honest, I hate Kavar's Corner because it is an area were everything I hate about humanity comes to light in people I try to really like. You'd think that would be enough of a reason not to ever look at it, but I guess not. The input can be interesting at times. I like to read some of the posts now and then and focus on the ones I disagree or plainly hate and channel that into imagination and then into writing fic chapters to depict people of different opinions. It is really helpful for writing, but not so much for the fact that my faith and trust in humanity and religion has not been very high since the age of around 10. I hate the place, but enjoy reading now and then for the purpose of trying to understand why people think the way they do. The only threads I refuse to look at are the Gay bashing threads (which is pretty much any thread with a slight mention of Homosexuals) for reasons that are my own. I'm not going to beat around the bush. By reading many of the posts here I dislike quite a few people because I value the opinion of someone as more of a reflection of their character than nearly anything else. Still love talking to everybody on the forums, but like real life I never really respect them as much. Makes me really wonder why I ever really look at forums like Kavar's Corner. I guess my curiosity gets the better of me much of the time. But, as I always say, thats just my opinon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emperor Devon Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 You get to argue with people and publicly tear their views to shreds. What's not to like? That side, I find the forum can be quite educational. It's fun to see other people's perspectives on things, and to see if mine are still valid by debating them. I'd hope everyone who posts here enjoys it. I'm not quite sure why they would if they didn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nancy Allen`` Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 I think this place is much diffirent to an actual debate forum, as the rules are strictly enforced and being able to respect other people is a must, unlike debate forums where you basically do everything in your power to make the people who have diffirent views to you look as dumb as you possibly can. As for having fun, I like it that we have a place where we can discuss serious topics in a friendly enviroment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EnIgmA_XX Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 Kavar's corner is great! i don't really post here much, but i just like checking through all of the threads and seeing what exactly is going on in our world and seeing what people think about these events. in fact, other than the news on TV (which i watch...sometimes), Kavar's corner is really my only way of figuring out what's going on in the outside world XD. it's great to see lots of diverse people sharing their opinions and views, quite simply because considering i don't really know anything about what's going on "outside" i have a mostly neutral opinions in lots of things like politics. it just helps me understand everything better, see what people believe in, and why they believe it. Kavar's corner rules! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vaelastraz Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 Kavars Corner is a very good read. Reading debates (if they're on a high level) is always entertaining. And I learn a lot about debating & rational thinking too which never hurts. So, keep it up, participants! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JediMaster12 Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 You get to argue with people and publicly tear their views to shreds. What's not to like? You do that anyway on a daily basis That side, I find the forum can be quite educational. It's fun to see other people's perspectives on things, and to see if mine are still valid by debating them. Or you would just learn how to argue from a better angle I like Kavar's Corner. It is always interesting to see people who have differing opinions and it is interesting to see why they think as they do. I personally do get a irked at the manner of some posts but I brush it off as the manner in which the person speaks when they get passionate about something. Of course you do learn when to stop the fight because the cinder wall just won't come tumbling down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allronix Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 Actually, I have to restrain myself a bit. Using time and energy here takes time and energy away from getting up and doing things about what's upsetting me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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