Q Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Why, what is this data going to be used for anyway? At the risk of stating the obvious, I'd venture to guess that it's for the resolution of a RL situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nedak Posted February 24, 2009 Author Share Posted February 24, 2009 At the risk of stating the obvious, I'd venture to guess that it's for the resolution of a RL situation. Incorrect. Well, the question arose from a conversation with a few of my buds and I and a few people have posted the question on multiple forums. Would you like your cookie now? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hallucination Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 As a participant I am required to give you either a cookie or a punch in the testicles. Evidently someone here considers himself too good to give a simple handshake. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jae Onasi Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 You got me. As a participant I am required to give you either a cookie or a punch in the testicles. Your call. There shall be no assault on someone's future generations on Lucasforums. I've had a couple of male friends who were/are soul-mates. One of them happened to be gay so our relationship was totally platonic, but I loved him as much as I could love anyone, and even though he died 13 years ago now, I still miss him horribly. My other soul-mate lives about 500 miles away who I met in college. We don't get to see each other very often at all, but when we get together it's like we've never been apart. We can talk about any subject without being judgmental, and we have a mutual love and respect that would actually be ruined by any kind of romantic activity (assuming that I thought extramarital activity was OK, which I really don't.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rabish Bini Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Only once, probably because one of my best mates is going out out with her though. If that doesn't count then no, I've never been close to a woman without being attracted Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Q Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Incorrect. Well, the question arose from a conversation with a few of my buds and I and a few people have posted the question on multiple forums. Would you like your cookie now? Well, like I said before, it can work as long as there are no hormones involved. As soon as there are, however, it's over, nothing is salvageable, and the best thing to do is split. Unless the hormones are mutual, of course. Then it's your funeral. And I don't know whether I've earned it or not, but yeah, I'll take my cookie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyRevan Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Plenty of times. I have two best friends, my best friend Alexia (Raven) and my best friend Taylor, they are soooooo close to me and I love them both but if I were to be a lesbian I wouldn't want an intimate relationship cause I don't view either of them that way. I love them both in like a family-type way, cause essentially that is what they are to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonathan7 Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 That's been my plan for the past 12 years. After observing my siblings' marriages for several years, I've come to the conclusion that all I'm missing out on is a bunch of needless noise. I prefer peace and quiet. Run, my brother! Fly! Be free! RUN! Yeah, I had a similar attitude, but just feel very different now. It may happen to you too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TSR Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 You got me. a punch to the testicles. Your call. Can you do something special for me? Along the lines of high heels + Stamp? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mur'phon Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 And here I thought you were a rational kind of guy Q, I mean look at what you get: An extra person to pay the bills, an extra pair of hands to do every chore, acces to mariage for the legal benefits, and a cheap source of bedroom gymnastics. All this, and since it seems you might not know this, you don't have to breed:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Salzella Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 i can't bring myself to answer - this poll has brought up inside of me a sick, black jealousy. or something. either way, i imagine the likelihood of answering 'yes' would increase as you age further away from the hormone-riddled minefield that is puberty and adolescence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stingerhs Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 uhh, yeah. as of right now, i'm actually very good friends with a number of ladies, and i'm also single at the moment. one in particular is a very close friend of mine that is married to another of my close friends. she's even just a tad older than me, and she's also quite beautiful (translate: hot). even then, i know that there are boundaries, and given my friendship with her husband, there are lines that i will never cross no matter how close our relationship could ever become. things can get complicated if both parties are single (been there), and it gets even more complicated if one wants romance and the other just wants friendship (been in both positions there, too). that doesn't mean that the relationship won't work; on the contrary, it just means that there's more to consider for both of the people involved. anyways, that's my 2 pennies on the matter... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prime Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Clearly I need to bring out the Ladder Theory. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TSR Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Clearly I need to bring out the Ladder Theory. ...It all makes so much sense now. Kinda weird when you feel that you're reading about yourself eh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nedak Posted February 24, 2009 Author Share Posted February 24, 2009 Clearly I need to bring out the Ladder Theory. WIN Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mimartin Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 I’ve done it, but I was in a very good relationship at the time. However, the friendship did not work out well. She decided she was attracted to me and told the young lady I was dating that we had relations. So, I lost a friend and a girl friend on the same day. It is not good practice to have a girl that is your best friend and a girl friend at the same time, unless they are the same person. The only other time, best friend as a girl I’ve had my entire life up until a little over a year ago. Even though we were of no relation to each other, she was like my sister and was my best friend until her death. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stream Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 I've been there, bit of a long story. In 2005 I rented a house with my best mate, he worked in Morrisons and after about two months he's turned the place into a Morrisons dos house, I start work at 6am and every morning there'd be someone new asleep on the sofa, anyway after said dos house had been open a couple of weeks I came home from work and there were a few other people there including two girls, Sam & Tanya and all the other guys were trying to get in their pants. Both Tanya & Sam were really nice girls and I became friends with both of them, after a while I got together with Sam which didn't last long only a couple of months but Tanya stayed around for a long time and in the end after my so called best mate ditched me and left we with some huge bills she became my house mate and was on the tenant list and everything. She would often go out at the weekends and I stayed at home as I was rather unsociable then, well I still am, anyway she's come home about 2am and wake me up and everytime we'd have a drink, a smoke, a kiss and then fall asleep together. Anyway if I'm honest I did have feelings for her but at the time she was seeing this guy who had also become a good mate and thinking she wasn't interested in me I just let it be, all of my mates, my parents and even her boyfriend told me that she had a soft spot for me but I still left it be. After a few months we had to let the house go as they were putting the rent up too much for us to afford and we went our seperate ways. I do speak to her now and then but not as much as I'd like to and she's now engaged and has a baby boy. One of the last times I spoke to her when it was just us she said to me why didn't we try it? we could've worked the only reply I could think of was I don't know but I wish we had. So long story short I did devlop feelings for her but that was only after being best friends with her for a while. Looking back I really do wish we'd given it a go but it's just one of those things. --Stream Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commander Obi-Wan Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 No. I'm not really 'great' friends with many girls, but the few I have, I am attracted to them. I dunno if they are attracted to me since I haven't really brought it up. But, I think they know since I've made certain comments, especially when I've been in an inebriated state. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stream Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 I've made certain comments, especially when I've been in an inebriated state. Worst drunken chat up line ever - 'Your face is like a spanner, every time I see it my nuts tighten' - Guaranteed punch in the mouth. --Stream Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Astor Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Worst drunken chat up line ever - 'Your face is like a spanner, every time I see it my nuts tighten' - Guaranteed punch in the mouth. --Stream Haha, you've just brought my Soc Ed lessons flying back to me, with those 'Adult Awareness' videos. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zelda 41 Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 It's possible. I've got tons of girl friends that I would never think about dating. ....but then I've got the girl friends who I'm inexplicably attracted to. XP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Det. Bart Lasiter Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 yes zelda fight the patriarchy with your sexuality and videotape it when you're 18 to better fight the patriarchy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vaelastraz Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Clearly I need to bring out the Ladder Theory. This theory has an amazing predictive and explanatory power and is pretty much confirmed with evidence. Pure WIN. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bee Hoon Posted February 25, 2009 Share Posted February 25, 2009 Clearly I need to bring out the Ladder Theory.Goodness It worries me how many people seem to agree with it though! Worst drunken chat up line ever - 'Your face is like a spanner, every time I see it my nuts tighten' - Guaranteed punch in the mouth. I hope you don't know that from first-hand experience Heterosexual female here who would like to vote yes--there was a guy who was interested in me, and ultimately we became best friends for several years (although we've since drifted apart ). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nedak Posted February 25, 2009 Author Share Posted February 25, 2009 Heterosexual female here who would like to vote yes--there was a guy who was interested in me, and ultimately we became best friends for several years (although we've since drifted apart ). Probably because he was interested in you... lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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